I was just sitting here thinking about some things and it struck. I finally figure out the massive appeal of being in a fandom.

It's almost a form of escapism. It's a way for those of us that may have to deal with harsh criticism for our interests and choices in entertainment to break from a sometimes cold, cruel and judgement world, if only for a few minutes. It's comforting and warm to be around people like yourself, and be accepted as part of the team for your oddities instead of mocked or shunned for it.

I think I've come to realize that over time. I've come realize that kind of acceptance can mean the world when you're in a shitty mood. I've also come to realize that it feels better to take part in the harmless enthusiasm than to mock people for showing their love of things they enjoy. I've understood that more and more with each thing the world seems hell bent on making me ashamed of enjoying. Even if it's only for a moment behind the glow of a computer screen coming to a place like these forums that feels so warm and accepting can take my mind off the worlds troubles.

I almost wonder if the world would be a better place if everyone was a little geeky. Maybe we'd all spend our time playing video games, cards, tabletop games, going to massive conventions, or cos-playing just to make people smile instead of pointless wars and fighting over petty politics.

I guess we can all only dream.