*hugs tightly*

*does the same*

I wish I could talk to someone who cared, with my own voice -_-

I care. If you need help, I'm here.

The best solution i found to that is not taking what they say at heart... i mean... if they call you a liar for example.... and you know its true... just concentrate on that... You are not what other ppl call you... Society is meant on what others do/tell you but that doesnt mean you have to take everything at heart... just try to see te bright side of things and try to ignore or shadow the negatives... 

 

The best solution i found to that is not taking what they say at heart... i mean... if they call you a liar for example.... and you know its true... just concentrate on that... You are not what other ppl call you... Society is meant on what others do/tell you but that doesnt mean you have to take everything at heart... just try to see te bright side of things and try to ignore or shadow the negatives...

 

I can't ignore them when negativity is all I have around me now There's nothing happy in my life anymore, when this is all I hear about me and nothing else, it's hard to think positive -_-

just tell them you dont like what they are doing. Or ignore them.

I can't ignore them when negativity is all I have around me now There's nothing happy in my life anymore, when this is all I hear about me and nothing else, it's hard to think positive -_-

 

I went through dat a lot, but thing is if you dont take it at heart, you get used to it and eventually simply ignore them.

 

Dont say there is nothing hapy in your life... think about what you have, youhave a family, a house and friends... i knew  ppl who dont have that and somehow still think postive and see the 'bright side of life'

 

http://youtu.be/WlBiLNN1NhQ

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Srry if it sounds like i dont take stuff seriously...but i do... Even if it seems hard to get by some moments in life... just think about the future and the fact that it might be better if u keep going =)

I went through dat a lot, but thing is if you dont take it at heart, you get used to it and eventually simply ignore them.

 

Dont say there is nothing hapy in your life... think about what you have, youhave a family, a house and friends... i knew ppl who dont have that and somehow still think postive and see the 'bright side of life'

 

http://youtu.be/WlBiLNN1NhQ

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Srry if it sounds like i dont take stuff seriously...but i do... Even if it seems hard to get by some moments in life... just think about the future and the fact that it might be better if u keep going =)

Actually I'm in a crappy house where the water could go out any moment, a family that hates me, and no friends I have no reason to be happy at all because everything in my life is crap I can't even look forward to my future because I don't even know if I'll be able to leave or not

Actually I'm in a crappy house where the water could go out any moment, a family that hates me, and no friends I have no reason to be happy at all because everything in my life is crap I can't even look forward to my future because I don't even know if I'll be able to leave or not

I dont think they hate you... i mean maybe its just their weird way trying to change you to the way they want u to be. I mean ik the feeling... My dad is always violent and cruel and i have nerve-breaking arguments with my fam almost every day... but ik they still care for me... its just the way they grew up (communism)... so all i can suggest is stay strong and just try to keep that all in... i mean it is very hard and sometimes i feel like 'thats enough too' but just try and realx and think about something calming... 

 

What u mean..wont be able to leave? Once 18 your family cannot force you to stay... i mean sure they can say they wont support u financially (lik my dad.. he wants to send me in the army =/) but thats pretty much it. Life haz its hard parts... if u happen to pass through them just do your best and think that ...after the hill there must be a slope (that sounded better in my heads =o).

 

And about friends... im not the right person to give advice on that cuz i pretty much had only one friend my entire life due to my crap confidence... but recently i managfed to make some new ones =). Go in camps or places where u can meet other ppl... stay in touch with them... (again im not the friend-master so it might not work)

 

What i want to say... is just stay strong and im sure your going to get through it well ... trust me... ik what ur going through (or at least something very similar)

I dont think they hate you... i mean maybe its just their weird way trying to change you to the way they want u to be. I mean ik the feeling... My dad is always violent and cruel and i have nerve-breaking arguments with my fam almost every day... but ik they still care for me... its just the way they grew up (communism)... so all i can suggest is stay strong and just try to keep that all in... i mean it is very hard and sometimes i feel like 'thats enough too' but just try and realx and think about something calming... 

 

What u mean..wont be able to leave? Once 18 your family cannot force you to stay... i mean sure they can say they wont support u financially (lik my dad.. he wants to send me in the army =/) but thats pretty much it. Life haz its hard parts... if u happen to pass through them just do your best and think that ...after the hill there must be a slope (that sounded better in my heads =o).

 

And about friends... im not the right person to give advice on that cuz i pretty much had only one friend my entire life due to my crap confidence... but recently i managfed to make some new ones =). Go in camps or places where u can meet other ppl... stay in touch with them... (again im not the friend-master so it might not work)

 

What i want to say... is just stay strong and im sure your going to get through it well ... trust me... ik what ur going through (or at least something very similar)

 

I can't think about anything calming because nothing keeps me happy anymore -_- My cousins and grandma always try to make me like them and bring me down constantly for doing things my way

 

And I don't know if I'll be able to due to passport issues -_- I don't see anything positive coming out of my life anymore to be honest

 

I can't go to camps or any places to make friends, I have none and I have to accept that

 

It's incredibly hard to stay strong when this depression is all I have -_-

I can't think about anything calming because nothing keeps me happy anymore -_- My cousins and grandma always try to make me like them and bring me down constantly for doing things my way

 

And I don't know if I'll be able to due to passport issues -_- I don't see anything positive coming out of my life anymore to be honest

 

I can't go to camps or any places to make friends, I have none and I have to accept that

 

It's incredibly hard to stay strong when this depression is all I have -_-

Did u try talking to them, telling them how u feel? (your grandma that is)... and if yes... Just be yourself and if u ignore them and show them that what they do doent affect you... theyll eventually stop.

 

What country is that 0.o?

 

Dont think that way.... i mean u had a bf... that is instantly more than me  (4eva alone =p). Soi im sure you are a type of person who, if she tries. can manage to get friends. Just try. If it fails onvce. try something different with someone else and so on ^^

 

I was depressed. but by talking to someone you feel u can trust... believe me you can get out of it... Thing is, you have to know that you are not alone.

 

=)

They don't let me talk, all they do is give me speeches And they won't stop because I'm ignoring them, they will only continue. Their purpose is to make me like them so if I ignore them they won't stop

 

El Salvador

 

That was online and he talked to me first Also the only place I can make friends is at school, and the girls in my grade aren't girls I can interact with too much -_-

 

I can't trust anyone anymore

They don't let me talk, all they do is give me speeches And they won't stop because I'm ignoring them, they will only continue. Their purpose is to make me like them so if I ignore them they won't stop

 

El Salvador

 

That was online and he talked to me first Also the only place I can make friends is at school, and the girls in my grade aren't girls I can interact with too much -_-

 

I can't trust anyone anymore

What i meant was that if they see that you dontlisten to them and that the bad things they do to you do not affect you, they will stop as they will realized it wont work =o

 

... I have no idea how stuff works there... but im sure that after ur 18 you can ask the goverment or civil service and the whole thing could fix up^^

 

...then boyz =p Just for friends that is =) Thing is that the "I cant do anythoing" way of thinking will never get u out of this situation. If you really try, there is no guarantee but there is a chance of making buds =)

 

Really... I mean then speak to someone that isnt mean and that be understanding... surely u can find someone =o

What i meant was that if they see that you dontlisten to them and that the bad things they do to you do not affect you, they will stop as they will realized it wont work =o

 

... I have no idea how stuff works there... but im sure that after ur 18 you can ask the goverment or civil service and the whole thing could fix up^^

 

...then boyz =p Just for friends that is =) Thing is that the "I cant do anythoing" way of thinking will never get u out of this situation. If you really try, there is no guarantee but there is a chance of making buds =)

 

Really... I mean then speak to someone that isnt mean and that be understanding... surely u can find someone =o

 

They haven't stopped after a year dude, so they never will -_-

 

It's not that easy My situation is quite complicated -_-

 

It's an all girls school man Trust me I miss having guys around, they were easier to make friends with -_-

 

Not irl

 

 

Well... old people thing weird... Still if you take it at heart it will not help at all... just try to ignore them... even if they do it all the time... you gotta try to =)

 

What do u mean?

 

 

 

Well how about after-school then? i mean park/mall or something... And you cant find a someone to talk to as a friend in that entire school?

 

Then contact someone.... just talk about ur problems... here on the forums or anybody else around that you feel might understand and come up with advice/confort =) It would be best to talk irl but it comes down to that helps too =)