I prefer guys to be less hairy, but if I was dating someone that was hairy I wouldn't be like "you must shave!". So I would expect the same courtesy.
I only shave my armpits because I think it helps keep the stink down. My legs have gone unshaven for years, but you can barely notice it because I'm blonde so it is really light colored. That and I wear pants.
It does bother me when people expect women to shave but let men get a free pass to be hairy. Double standard much?