Hmm, well I have a few things that I find importand but the most importand thing would be someone who would be okay with me being asexual... I'm afraid that would be a big thing for people so that's why I'm a little scared to start another relationship.
Things I also find importand are:
- a christian (I want to share my religion with someone and want to raise my kids in a christian way)
- knows stuff about things, you don't have to know everything about everything but being smart in something is very attractive to me (seduce me with your knowledge)
- is friendly and openminded and honest. Just don't be an asshole and be willing to talk about everything.
- give me some space, I need it. You don't have to spend every second of the day with me. I'm not very needy honestly.
- like doing stuff and take me to places. I like doing things but I'm not very good at taking initiative.
- cuddles, I love cuddles. I may be a little shy when it comes to stuff like that but I do like them.
- share some interests with me so we can talk about stuff.
- don't mind my singing, I sing a lot so if you like my voice that would be awesome (and also, sing with me when it's a duet, please?)
- and while talking about music, it would be nice if someone had the same taste in music as me and would not complain when I blast my own music through the house all day (which ranges from musicala and disney to hardrock and EDM hardstyle)
- for some reason I like people who play games. I'm terrible at playing games but it would be nice if you wanted to teach me, or laugh at me when I fail.
It's a long list but it honestly comes down to the deeper connection I have with someone. You can check off all those things but I still wouldn't fall. It's about the personal, deeper connection.