Is it so hard to be pansexual queer? (advice on meeting da ladies)

[twilight24 323]

Yeah I know there's a lot of complexity to a person and I know there's more to my sexuality than just pansexual, but it's easier to say pansexual queer. What I'm talking about is I have been feeling lonely and always constantly on the search to the perfect relationship. But is it my downfall that I'm needy and want to talk a lot,

 

Yes.... Well maybe

 

Anyways what are the good ways to try and meet some cool queer girls? I want to meet locals within a 150 mile radious. I have timber, a meetme, and a tumblr but both aren't successful ! I'm stuck in Salem Ohio (don't stalks me please XD) and it's a population of 12,300. I dunno I'm also autistic and awkward so it's hard >< any suggestions?

[Lunatic Cake 1,618]

First of all, it's very difficult to find that "perfect relationship". The fact that you're looking for another female (assuming you're female yourself) makes it a little harder as well. The advice I can give you is don't set your standards too high when looking for somebody. People have flaws and love requires accepting flaws to work out. Look for somebody with similar interests, hobbies and whatnot.

 

Another thing I should mention is: Get out often, talk to people. You wouldn't believe how often relationships can happen due to random meetings at a park with strangers or whatnot. You meet somebody, you get to talk, seem to share some interests, decide to keep in contact because you both seem interested about eachother and look where it's going. You should never be desperate with finding somebody, just live your everyday life, interact with as many people as you can and the possibility of you finding somebody will certainly increase.

 

Aside from that I think I can't give any more advice :/