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Letting Go

Misty Rose

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It's hard to believe how someone who said you changed their life suddenly leaves you behind, someone who said you were the light of their days leaves you in the darkness. It's very hard to let go, it's even harder to not think about the wonderful happy memories you had together. What hurts even more is I actually think he may be influenced by someone else, bad company perhaps...all I know is that it hurts very much to let go :(

 

Now when I see his pictures instead of seeing my dear lover I see someone who just wasn't meant for me, someone too amazing for me and I deserve much worse :( If God didn't want this relationship to be a reality, then maybe he just wants me to be with someone else who is poor, someone perverted with bad qualities -_- If he wants me to be with someone like my dad then so be it :( The dreams I had were too good to be true, someone much better than me will get to live them, because I don't deserve the best -_-

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VitalSpark

Don't think of it as the "best" or "worst". Everyone has their good side and their bad side, so trying to put people on a scale of best to worst is pointless.

 

You don't deserve someone who is "the best" or "the worst". You deserve somebody who will make you feel happy. Clearly he has not done this, or has not done so recently. Even if you got back together tomorrow, would you be truly happy with him again? Or would you only worry about history repeating itself.

 

There are (and I'm not exaggerating) thousands upon thousands of people out there who could be just perfect for you. There are seven billion people on this planet. The idea that there's nobody out there for you is a statistical impossibility. You just need to figure out who they are.

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CheeryFox

It's hard to tell who you're really supposed to be with. In fact, the numbers might be quantitative in nature. Think about when you hear stories on couples that stay together for 70-80 years, let's say. It makes you think, "How in the world did they stay a couple that long?" Was it meant to be? Or was it luck's Fate? 

 

I can't answer those questions but what I do know is, anyone can love more than one person - and to be honest, there's nothing wrong with that, my friend. 

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Misty Rose

What a strange coincidence that both people who posted here have fairy avatars ^_^

 

Anyways, thank you both for your responses :) Even if I don't find someone I know I'll be okay. I'll survive as long as I have my freedom (hopefully) in the future. It still makes me sad that I didn't deserve someone as great as my ex was (while we were dating). It just leaves me with the impression that I'm destined for loneliness ^_^

 

I'm not kidding when I say the only people that have ever been "attracted" to me besides my ex are older men >_> So yeah I don't like my chances....

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yayayayayala

I'm not kidding when I say the only people that have ever been "attracted" to me besides my ex are older men >_> So yeah I don't like my chances....

:eww:

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Misty Rose
:eww:
Yeah I'd never been catcalled or whistled at before in my life. But it's happened four times since I moved down here, and always adult men are the culprits -_- :eww:
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