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The Ideal Man for Me

Here No Longer

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Well, I've really been recently thinking a LOT about love. Why? Well, because I've been having the feeling that I need a man to love. A man I can depend on, a steady shoulder to lean on. I know that I'm not the best candidate for a lover, and I never have been. I'm definitely not a looker for sure, and I have my fair share of issues. But here goes, a description of my ideal boyfriend, by how important the specific traits are to me... I know I already posted most of this in a thread before, but I'm going to get into other things I didn't get into there.

 

 

NECESSARY

 

  • He has to love me for who I am. I know it's nice to be able to find a guy who also likes my appearance (well my lack of a decent one may make that a little bit of a challenge...), but it's much more important that he is really fine with dating an absurdly skinny nerd that has almost no dexterity, is more than likely autistic, and has anxiety and depression issues.
  • He has to be at least 16 years old at the moment. I don't want to have to deal with parents that are too concerned if they're dating another dude that's more than 5 years older than they are... Even 16 is iffy though...
 
 

 

GOOD TO HAVE

 

  • He and I should share a few interests. My interests include:
    • Cartoons, particularly Steven Universe, MLP, Rick and Morty, and We Bare Bears. Also I'm really enjoying Hazbin Hotel as of now.
    • Video Games, particularly Super Smash Bros., Mario games, Paladins/Overwatch, and Borderlands/Fallout.
    • Tabletop arena games, like Heroclix. I'm developing my own, you know! :D 
    • Science Fiction, including things like Star Trek and the Twilight Zone.
    • Music. I personally played the Tuba in band for years... So you know I'm more than capable ;)  (I'm sick...)
    • Pixar movies. I'm sorry, but if you don't like Finding Nemo or Toy Story, you more than likely won't like me.
  • He should respect my space. I'm extremely introverted and at times I just have to be away from people. Even people I'm really close to... 
  • He needs to have a good heart. I couldn't date an intolerant jerk, because I love people that love me. It's just the way I work.
  • He's got to be a little bit perverted... ;);)  Trust me when I say that I'm very much that way... though it's been getting tamer recently.
  • It would be great if his viewpoints were similar enough to mine. I don't want to have an argument about stuff every 5 minutes. I mean it is nice to disagree on a couple of things, but that definitely has its limits. I'll tell you that I'm a bit left on politics and my viewpoints on things are far from conservative. Although I share some viewpoints with conservatives.
  • He needs to be able to start a conversation with me. I have huge issues with starting a dialogue with other people.
  • It helps if he can make me laugh sometimes. I know that I don't have much of a sense of humor, but I like being humored to a degree.
  • He has to have some level of intelligence. I think that I have an IQ of around 135-140, so I'm not sure I could handle a dope well... :twi: 
 
 
PREFERRED PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES (Not that important)
 
  • A few inches taller than me (around 6' maybe).
  • I don't mean to seem racist, but I prefer white men. I had a crush from a video game for a little bit who happens to be black, though.
  • Not overly muscular. or fat. Neither looks that good in my opinion. Yet again, I'll say this isn't too important so... Yeah.
  • I don't have much of a preference for age, but I'd like a man around my age. Like teens or early twenties.

 

So there it is, I guess... I don't know what else to say here, other than I'm still open to the idea of an open relationship, it's not a must anymore I don't think.

 

 

 

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Sphinx-Ara

Hmm..okay, a couple of questions:
1. Online/long distance? how do you feel about them?
2. Transgender? How do you feel about that? (i.e say mtf?)
3. And how about selectively asexual? (i.e being choosy as to who said person you are dating in an open relationship with is with who they 'do it' with)

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Here No Longer
  1. It can work if it has to. I had an ex from all the way in Michigan and it worked well for an entire year, and only really fell apart because we sort of went our own ways after a while. Though I think it would be a bit difficult with somebody from another country. Personally, I would PREFER if I could find somebody who lives within a 3 hours drive from me, but I know that I'm freaking weird and most men don't like men anyways, so I feel like it would be highly unlikely.
  2. MtF could be a little bit awkward, considering I'm sort of struggling with my gender personally, however, I think it can work. 
  3. I'm assuming you're asking if it matters who he would have on the side. My answer is that it probably should be okay as long as it isn't too close of a friend of related to the other partner. Otherwise, I'd also say that it can get too far when they're having sex with 5 or 6 other people, and I'd also like to know WHO they are. Also I think that dating is a little too far also, but to be fair it can be hard to tell when it gets too far. But the whole premise is just to not get too jealous.
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Widdershins

"I don't wanna argue about something every five minutes."

 Bam! I'm outta da runnin' from right outta the startin' gates! I breathe argument! I was born into it, can have a lengthy discussion over things I cannot even begin to comprehend, but I'm not all that a combative sort. I suppose.

 

 To be Fair, think ya pretty much just listed anybeing that'd be online. Feels like ya might not've been as specific as ya thought you were.

 Like, who doesn't like some form of cartoon or video game? Anyone that'd pick up into a relationship would have to be already open to accepting the hobbies & interests of another. That's what I always say. It starts at Friendship first.

... Huh. Considering my track record of Waifus... think I might actually be attracted to those Humorless. Because... well... *cough*, that does tend to be the Goth Chicks & mayaderes, lol!

 But don't fret too much over it. S'all shots in the dark. Just put yourself out there & keep trying! That's the important part!

 

#*$&@! They actually have an 8 point IQ lead on me! Where's that IQ test again?!!? 

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