There was this rude, abusive person whom I had sent an email to clarify why people were not happy with them... since they kept pretending they were so innocent... I'm not sure if they're narcissistic and don't understand sincerely or if they're happy to change the narrative and lie due to experience of getting away with it. So, I sent an email explaining how and why what they did to people was not cool and now I feel bad.

I don't like confrontation and I feel like we all have flaws. At the same time, I feel like when we don't call out the abusers due to wishing to move on to only better and happier things -- they tend to thrive and continue their antics. We did move on and live happily. Others asked me to address it cause they know I'm good at being impartial. But I was not so impartial due to a bias for a friend that was lost within that damage. 

It made me sad that some people were either critically harmed or gone forever due to their proud, narcissistic behavior and anyone who called them out got insulted or belittled while they bragged about being superior or something. 

I thought closing out that snark would feel good but instead I just feel bad. I wish them well. We were "friends" (sorta) many years ago. I wish everyone well. But some people have malice and we should just shrug and keep going. I guess part of my shock was prickled cause she tried to insult simply because they were asked to apologise fairly to one of their victims who literally protected them.

Actually, you know what? I don't really feel bad. I'm remembering why I sent that email. So many innocent people were hurt while they stroked their ego and bragged. And it's rare to boil my blood in the way to call someone out. I'm happy to let go of it all and move on but it was that arrogance and bragging that got to me lol then having to see how sweet and kind those they abused are or were. Makes me hope they understands people know and they did not get away with the narrative that kind people are "stupid" or "re***d" like they'd loved to say.