Anyone else really dislike the "Bonra" push?

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Eh, more of a mild dislike more than anything else, at least for the ones in the show, for two main reasons. 1) The 'have your cake and eat it to' approach when it comes to if they're in a relationship where they'll say they're friends but push them so close into relationship territory that it's so freaking obvious but because they said they're just friends it's not there. Just make up your damn minds with it already. 2)They're fan characters.  Sorry but I don't care for the background ponies and that they are getting such prominence over secondary characters that have been here since Season 1 ticks me off.  

 

I am really confused and I've searched but can't find anything, and I really want to know, what is this "obvious" romantic relationship that everyone keeps talking about? From all I can remember, they got attention in the "everyone is the star of their own lives" episode in which they seemed like normal close friends, and then after that only appeared once or twice for a few seconds. Did I miss an entire episode or something? I'm just really confused.