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The reason for my insane rants and stubborn attitude, like in my last blog


Commander_PonyShep

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Remember my blog about the Twilight/Tirek fight, and the way I kept rejecting everyone's arguments about what I said?

 

Well, here's the thing. I was taught by a movie reviewer named Confused Matthew on how to be stubborn and even borderline insane, which you can view here: http://www.confusedmatthew.com/. Technically, whenever Matthew answers other people arguments about his reviews in his Q&A's, he's always coming up with the most ridiculous counterarguments that only prove how stubborn he is. For example, in The Lion King review, he kept calling Simba, Timon, and Pumba evil assholes. Others were countering that Simba was just young and naive, not evil, and that Timon and Pumba were trying to help Simba cope with his father's death. But then Confused Matthew argued back that where Nemo from Finding Nemo was more innocent and naive, Simba was just being a dick. Meanwhile, Timon and Pumba were just using Simba for their own selfish gains, and only accompanied him to the final battle with Scar because they were just main-characters, nothing else.

 

That was how I constantly acted back in that previous blog. Others were constantly saying that alicorn magic failed compared to the friendship-powered Rainbow Power, even if the fight scene resembled my most ever-hated anime series ever made, Dragon Ball Z, and therefore received the most attention. But me? I was constantly saying that no one cared about the Rainbow Power scene because the Twilight/Tirek fight was more suspenseful and intense, and in saying that they're also unintentionally saying that Twilight's friends are more preferable when they're useless and disposable, like Goku's inner circle, and the same goes for Twilight herself when she's overpowered and Mary Sue-ish.

 

Why do I keep making these idiotic arguments again, like the aforementioned one above? Because I was taught by Confused Matthew to be stubborn, to constantly reject other people's arguments and state everything I say as absolute facts, no matter what. And I don't know if I should be sorry or not, or if I should change this kind of behavior.

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That really doesn't excuse it. I don't care if someone did it before—when you keep beating a dead horse, it's not only ineffective, it's also going to annoy the lot of us.

 

Your rants weren't insane, they were plain repetitive and recycled the very first point you made over and over again even when there was clear evidence it wasn't true. That is not the kind of stubbornness that compels people to argue with you.

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That kind of attitude harms your arguments and credibility so I would suggest changing that approach. I am not familiar with Confuse Matthew so I can't really speak to the reasons for his approach but it sounds like he might be doing this for the sake of comedy while I didn't get that sense from you in the blog about the Tirek VS Twilight fight. I have been guilty of this myself at times because I am one of the most stubborn people I know, but I have gotten much better at this.

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I'm pretty stubborn myself, EarthbendingProdigy, Miaq_the_Truthful, ghostfacekiller39, Dark Qiviut, Grumpy Enchantress, and many others already know that, but I never "reject" their ideas and opinions (hopefully it doesn't come across as such). I try to give their side a chance, and try to understand at the very least where they're coming from. Hell, Prodigy and Dark swayed me on "Somepony to Watch Over Me" with their points, and Ghostie swayed me on "A Dog and Pony Show." 

 

My point is, if you're naturally stubborn you have to find a middle ground, because rejecting every other argument outright is arrogant, and leads to ignorance.

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Lol, I don't see how you can excuse such behaviour by blaming someone else for doing it. It would've been much more honorable to just apologize or something, not put the blame on someone else.

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To be fair, the dude's name is Confused Matthew :D

 

Really, while fighting tooth and nail to defend your opinion is not just understandable, but admirable, fighting someone else when you know you're wrong is kind of lacking in honor; as much as I hate being wrong, and as stubborn as I can be in getting my point across, if I'm proved wrong, I admit defeat. I don't keep fighting when I know I'm wrong, because I think that's sort of...disrespectful? There's got to be a better word for that.

 

Anywho, just keep in mind, while fighting tooth and nail as alright, remaining patient and knowing when to keep going and when to stop is really something that is easier said than done, but can improve your standard of debating greatly :D

Just my two cents on this.

 

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Okay, this ConfusedMatthew guy is confusing me.

 

Simba was being a pouty douche, fine. Doesn't change the fact that he manned up, even if in a contrived way.

 

But Timone and Pumba are selfish for using him as protection while providing him assistance and support?

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