Vera Veil

On ‎15‎/‎03‎/‎2017 at 1:32 PM, Greyooi said:

If she makes a post on Facebook don't respond, just ignore it. I'd say do what Corgis said, make your own facebook account (a new one) that is separate from your one your mom has in contact with. Or just don't go on facebook if it makes you that upset. Perhaps anther option would be to use anther social media site.

 

As for the phone block her number if you can. Or just if she phones ignore it, pay no attention. 

either that or when she does call, just turn you phone off, if I am having problems with someone and I need space but they wanna talk to me, I will log out or even turn off my phone, it makes it much harder for anyone to reach you if your phone isnt even on, and if you have a landline and they try to call you there, unplug it from the hook, so you cant recieve calls ... I know its an extreme, but it does work

its really one of the harder questions to answer because what if, what if i became a pony and couldnt see my irl friends, what if i had a pony and wanted to be my OC (mine is fairly normal, has a job as a fashion designer, who lives just on the outskirts of Manehatten in a cute little cottage with just her mother [who is still to be identified as i havent figured out her character yet] and makes just enough money to get by ... she also shares similartraits to rarity and fluttershy, she loves helpingher friends out but can be alittle shy at first to meet them but not as extreme and the canon characters themselves) but u do have some other good points about y it would be a bonus to have a pony, my favourite would be twi twi, if im sick (which i am at the moment) i could ask for a cure and she could help me out .... oh why is this so hard to choose?

damn, this is a tough one that im have been debating since the end of 2013 (the day i bacame a brony) on 1 hand, you could (quite possibly) be ur OC in the world of ponies, living out ur day to day life as ur OC would, on the other hand u could be u but have ur very own pony in the human world .... lets take what we already kno into considuration here before i blert out my oppinion on this subject .....

now lets start with the obivious point, if we were to become our OCs, we would act, walk, talk, associate and be who we wanted our OCs to be basically (so if u kept it realistic like me, then u will be realistic, but if ur god like mary sue black and red alicorn with robo wings and kills ponies then well, thats how u would be ...... but i digress on this topic as its not the point im making atm) then we would live out our lives we have created, but if we came in contact with other ponies, like to hug them or something, it would have to be ponies close to us unless u want it to be called a filly fooler in public, or if it was to a child, a foal fidler (im sure at this point we all know about what they all mean) and risk imprisonment from the royal gods themselves....

ok now lets look at the other side of the coin, and to do this i need to reference a certain clop fic called Twi and Me by hot sauce (im not going to go in full detail as i know it will get me banned, but the information i will use is ok for this forums .....) as we already know in several fics (my little dashie in particular but not limited to) we know that the average mare or stallion would be about the size of a dog .... maybe even a puppy for the fillys and colts, but we would (or at least i would, idk about other bronies and/or pegasisters in the fandom) in time, fall in love with our pony companion, maybe like a ship kinda way, get injured, and be at our homes with our pony companion at our side, making us feel better ..... (im gonna stop there because i dont wanna get banned)

both sides have some damn good points and some damn negative ones too, for example, if i became a pony, i would lose access to the real world and be cut off from my irl friends and (this one is different depending on the person, but because i cant live without red meat in particular, its a huge problem for me) become a vegatarian, if i had a pony companion irl however, i cant take her/him on walks because all my friends would think im a weirdo, and i would lose all respect from my step-father (not that i care for it, he wants me dead anyways, but thats not up for discussion in this fandom as that is a personal matter) and that wouldnt be good for business for me, as well as making sure the pony doesnt see u eating meat and u need to let them outside to do their business (we all know what i mean here) .... hmmm after all that, i still honestly cant answer the question ..... oh i hate it when my brain is like this

*hugs* it will be ok, I'm here for you

I'm sorry to hear about your nan, in my opinion, if my mother did that to me, I would of just hung up the phone and went on with my day ... If your psychologist is doing you good, then that's all that matters so no need to think otherwise. If you are unhappy with em, then look for a different one ... Don't let the haters bring you down because it will only get worse, trust me on that

Best advice I can give was already said ... change ur number, if you can afford it, then buy a new phone all together with a new number, but if not then just change your existing number on your current phone

I'm happy you found out, and screw anyone who thinks that you are making the wrong choices in life. As I will say on forums, haters gonna hate ... So just ignore em ... Best of luck in any transformations or any other future endeavours you may take to undergo ... I know that may sound like a cheesy version of what Riganthor said above me, but ... Well I guess I'm saying I wish you the best of luck