Yeah, it's a weird morbid question, but it does go right to the heart of what we want for ourselves.
At the end of our lives, how do we want to be remembered and what legacy do we want to leave?
Well, what I would like to leave is either "Shit happens" or "Those who judge will never understand, and those who understand will never judge," like it says on my signature.
These two quotes are like my personal sayings. It would also kinda provide motivation to whoever reads it.