Can anyone here relate to this problem?

[♞RedLotus♞ 360]

Okay so I have been starting to realize that  I give up on groups or activities very easily. Just a few months ago I got accepted on an acting and modeling agency (I am a guy) and It went pretty well. The first few classes I got to work with a bunch of beautiful girls (and a few guys which I hated because it meant that there was more competition for me). We were just practicing on our posture, how to walk on a runaway, how to talk during an interview, and a few classes about health and exercise.

 

Every Saturday I had to wake up early and go to their building to start practicing but a few weeks later I decided not to go anymore. Its not that I didn't like it or anything but I just gave up. after a few weeks of not attending the class and canceling, the agency called me back and automatically proposed a contract, and said that they wanted me. I was too stupid and decided not to accept it, I think it was a big mistake.

 

I also tried out for basketball classes a while back, and I didn't even show up for the first class. Heck... if school was a voluntarily thing.. I think I would of given up already. Does anyone here have any problems like these? You commit yourself to an activity or group but always end up leaving?

[Galen 1,354]

It looked like you were pretty neutral toward the acting and modeling group aside from not liking the guys because they were competition, which I think could have played into your negative reception toward the group but I'm just theorizing. What is it that made you leave? I normally find that I leave if it inconveniences me in some way or simply doesn't satisfy me the way I expected it to. I tried tons of martial arts taster sessions in the past and I developed a lot of knowledge on it, but doing it just never really seemed to satisfy me the way other sports did, particularly lifting and swimming.

[♞RedLotus♞ 360]

It looked like you were pretty neutral toward the acting and modeling group aside from not liking the guys because they were competition, which I think could have played into your negative reception toward the group but I'm just theorizing. What is it that made you leave? I normally find that I leave if it inconveniences me in some way or simply doesn't satisfy me the way I expected it to. I tried tons of martial arts taster sessions in the past and I developed a lot of knowledge on it, but doing it just never really seemed to satisfy me the way other sports did, particularly lifting and swimming.

I liked it, I found it to be quite interesting. The only thing is that I found having to to the school every Saturday and having to wake up early a bother. I normally don't like to do the same thing over and over again, I find myself quitting after a while. I tried writing things on my journal everyday... last time I wrote on it was last year, and I haven't written anything new since then. I also gave karate a try but I gave up on that too. 

[Bucky McGillyCuddy 956]

I can relate to the topic very well. I have a lot of trouble committing to just about everything. I'll put hours and hours into doing something and then one day I can't be bothered. I've got a lot of great unfinished work that's "collecting dust" so to speak. I just have to make sure I get something done in a week or so before I get bored with it haha.  

[Galen 1,354]

I can relate to not finding things interesting anymore when you're doing the same after a while. Part of the reason I never actually took the commitment to any martial arts classes is because of the technicalities involved. I personally don't like that aspect the way others would do perhaps. I want to get a feel of how much progress I'm making myself rather than always having that sense of uncertainty, which is why I can stick to some things but not others.