I get the feeling. Socializing even on the net can be terrifying. But the more you put yourself out there, the easier it gets. Sometimes saying something like "Hi nice to meet ya! I'm XXX, and I'm interested in XYZ". Good icebreaker. Plus as you continue to stay on the server, you might learn to realize that this community is both friendly and kind. A rarity on the net these days.
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