I would rather be hated then ignored. I have already been ignored and hated in my life, but I find that being ignored is extremely annoying to me. It stinks when I do something some else get offended by whatever I did (probably something minor) and they start then alienation. First, they don't want to use words to explain how they feel which drives me up the wall. Specifically if they don't know anything thing about me at all... Ugh can't stand that!
Now to be hated, that's much better! At least then their emotions are clear about me. Even if they don't know me and their hate is based o