swordsman 192 August 2, 2017 Share August 2, 2017 well i was watching the Five Nights at Freddys Sister Location Song-I Can’t Fix You song and it made me think woman say that a lot to men. So if you want has anyone ever told you "i can't fix" and why? why do you work for Queen Chrysalis? A samurai duty is to serve his master, regardless of the kind of person she is . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Misty Shimmer 915 August 2, 2017 Share August 2, 2017 Well as a woman I can say I´ve said this before twice, to former couples of mine. It´s a hard thing to say, but sometimes I think it´s necessary somehow. In my case I was supporting the other person in every way I could but when they started to get comfortable like this instead of trying to fight on their own... it was a reminder that although I could help them I couldn´t do everything for them nor could I make everything better without their help. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snow 7,057 August 3, 2017 Share August 3, 2017 1 hour ago, Misty Shimmer said: Well as a woman I can say I´ve said this before twice, to former couples of mine. It´s a hard thing to say, but sometimes I think it´s necessary somehow. In my case I was supporting the other person in every way I could but when they started to get comfortable like this instead of trying to fight on their own... it was a reminder that although I could help them I couldn´t do everything for them nor could I make everything better without their help. There are some very good points in there, and I agree, there are times when it is nesisairy, I'm not too sure about them being comfortable, I can understand that it would be rather annoying but not quite how the phrase applies, unless you did not wish to help them any further and opted to tell them in a less hurtful manner? If a person becomes too reliant is usually the situation that comes to mind, it can be a factor of an inability to help, such as little to no knowledge or experience with the problems brought up by the other and thus answers and solutions would be in short supply, to say as well as (and I believe mainly) an unwillingness to give further aid, not to discredit anyone for saying this, it is to be noted that helping others, especially on an emotional level is extremely difficult and often very unrewarding, you have to be willing to lend a hand but everybody has their limits on what they can and will do. If the person you are trying to help only turns to you for help and advice it can become too much and if little progress is being made it is about this time when you can expect it to be said, you don't need to be a girl to say it, I have said it to friends befor as well. 1 beans Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Victoria Sponge 1,017 August 3, 2017 Share August 3, 2017 Sometimes it's better for people to solve their own problems either because they're too complex to be understood by someone else or because it's a learning experience and you don't want them to become dependent on other people. Those are the reasons I would tell someone I can't fix this but most of the time I would try to help them or at least advise them on what to do. I don't believe I've ever said this to a man before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swordsman 192 August 4, 2017 Author Share August 4, 2017 when I was in high school I HAD A LOT of friends that wanted to be more then friends and one the females I used to know wanted to marry me. Now she was from a another country and i really liked her but you know girls mature faster than boys and i was playing with toys still and acting like a boy/wild animal. Yeah, i had a job and was going into the armed forces but you know i was just not ready to be a adult. I kept putting her off and finally she told me " Your never going to grow up are you? when i 1st met you, you were a wolf and i thought i could make you into a dog but your always going to be a wild animal. I a sorry but i just can't fix you and maybe you don't need fixing but i just can't work with you. " after she told me that put the CD i will survive and started playing some video games. some of that story i might have forgot but there was a lot of craziness happening back then. Anyways it seems to me a lot of woman say that to men because they just don't want to be with them. yeah, she was right back then and now i have change a lot but still it seems women say that way to much or just go ghost on you. why do you work for Queen Chrysalis? A samurai duty is to serve his master, regardless of the kind of person she is . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kyoshi Frost Wolf 41,616 August 5, 2017 Share August 5, 2017 The only person who has ever said this to me is myself. Sorta part of my method of self acceptance. I know I have problems, a decent amount of which are caused by my faulty brain so there is no magical fix, but nobody is perfect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EightBit 284 August 5, 2017 Share August 5, 2017 If I spoke about who I said this to (in a loving way, mind you), she'd murder my face off. XD Some honest reviews and constructive criticism regarding my OC would be much appreciated. Thank you so much! https://mlpforums.com/roleplay-characters/bright-spark-r10033/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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