Derpy: a reflection of me.

[ZoidbergBestPony 30]

Hello. First off, if you have seen my account name, then you should have figured out that my account is only a temporary one. Truth is, i'm not too big into forums, but i just thought as the title states to share some thoughts on some recent events. Namely about Derpy. I know that i am not the first, and not the last to start a thread on the character, but i wanted to give a more personal share of why Derpy being changed was such a big deal to me.

I won't lie, since feb 24 it has been rather... painful to watch the show. its not that the whole deal is truly THAT big of a deal when all is said and done (what can i say, I am a practical guy), but of all the characters in the show, Derpy is the one i most relate too, and her character being pushed aside seems too familiar for me, and i suppose its that which has me done lately.

Something about me that i am not proud about is that i have Aspergers. For anyone who doesnt know, it is a mild form of autism that primarily affects social skills, rather than learning skill. All of my life i was the guy that was always on the peripheral, always in the backround who didn't get much attention and tended to keep to himself. Not that i always minded, socializing used to be really awkward for me, and when i had to socialize i rarely knew the right thing to say, and wound up coming across a bit off. And as for art and sport, well lets say its a miracle that i can even tie my shoes in the morning with my horrible coordination. As a kid i was lonely.

I have gotten much better since then. people dont know unless i tell them, usually, but i sometimes feel so awkward and act a little eccentric, but i DID get better. But there are others, and everybody know one, who never did. Often they are ridiculed, ostricized and rejected. I wish i could help, but its like im that younger me. I dont know what to do or say. I felt hopeless.

And thats where Derpy comes into all of this. The character likely started as a simple joke to amuse viewers, but since then, she became loved just as much as any of the other mane 6. For me, Derpy is what i wish would have happened to me. To be noticed, to be accepted despite of my awkwardness, my clumsyness, every thing that makes Derpy, Derpy.

This world isn't perfect. Anyone can see that. But sometimes i do feel a little hope. Looking at all the bronies and there admiration for Derpy makes me happy. Why? Because it proves there are people who take time to look at those who who struggle and accept them for who they are.

Like i said before, in the end, changing Derpy in the show,(or removing her alltogether,) wont keep the sun from rising. no one in their right mind could argue this. But it sure as hell hurts. Like myself and others like me, Derpy, being misunderstood, has been singled out, and rejected. People need to be accepting off each others flaws, and not pretend they don't exist. As well as Asperger's, i am also Bipolar. I know what it's like to be flawed. I also know i have no right to single out another. To be frank, no one does. Not Hasbro, Not iTunes, Not some ignorant commitee or group of parents preying on the weak. Love and Tolarence is neccessary, true, but i belive that there is one other thing that even i forget to show sometimes. Understanding.

I can only hope that Derpy will be changed back, but even if she is not, she will always be loved in my heart as Derpy.

 

 

Thank you if you bothered to take the time to read this. I know it was long but i had a lot to get off my chest. maybe i might keep this account, but i doubt it. If you want to leave your thoughts, feel free to, and if you have any messages for me, please send it to www.evittsandrew@yahoo.com. Keep strong fellow bronies and remember to show love, tolerance, AND understanding. /)*

[Ninja Derpy 343]

Hello. First off, if you have seen my account name, then you should have figured out that my account is only a temporary one. Truth is, i'm not too big into forums, but i just thought as the title states to share some thoughts on some recent events. Namely about Derpy. I know that i am not the first, and not the last to start a thread on the character, but i wanted to give a more personal share of why Derpy being changed was such a big deal to me.

I won't lie, since feb 24 it has been rather... painful to watch the show. its not that the whole deal is truly THAT big of a deal when all is said and done (what can i say, I am a practical guy), but of all the characters in the show, Derpy is the one i most relate too, and her character being pushed aside seems too familiar for me, and i suppose its that which has me done lately.

Something about me that i am not proud about is that i have Aspergers. For anyone who doesnt know, it is a mild form of autism that primarily affects social skills, rather than learning skill. All of my life i was the guy that was always on the peripheral, always in the backround who didn't get much attention and tended to keep to himself. Not that i always minded, socializing used to be really awkward for me, and when i had to socialize i rarely knew the right thing to say, and wound up coming across a bit off. And as for art and sport, well lets say its a miracle that i can even tie my shoes in the morning with my horrible coordination. As a kid i was lonely.

I have gotten much better since then. people dont know unless i tell them, usually, but i sometimes feel so awkward and act a little eccentric, but i DID get better. But there are others, and everybody know one, who never did. Often they are ridiculed, ostricized and rejected. I wish i could help, but its like im that younger me. I dont know what to do or say. I felt hopeless.

And thats where Derpy comes into all of this. The character likely started as a simple joke to amuse viewers, but since then, she became loved just as much as any of the other mane 6. For me, Derpy is what i wish would have happened to me. To be noticed, to be accepted despite of my awkwardness, my clumsyness, every thing that makes Derpy, Derpy.

This world isn't perfect. Anyone can see that. But sometimes i do feel a little hope. Looking at all the bronies and there admiration for Derpy makes me happy. Why? Because it proves there are people who take time to look at those who who struggle and accept them for who they are.

Like i said before, in the end, changing Derpy in the show,(or removing her alltogether,) wont keep the sun from rising. no one in their right mind could argue this. But it sure as hell hurts. Like myself and others like me, Derpy, being misunderstood, has been singled out, and rejected. People need to be accepting off each others flaws, and not pretend they don't exist. As well as Asperger's, i am also Bipolar. I know what it's like to be flawed. I also know i have no right to single out another. To be frank, no one does. Not Hasbro, Not iTunes, Not some ignorant commitee or group of parents preying on the weak. Love and Tolarence is neccessary, true, but i belive that there is one other thing that even i forget to show sometimes. Understanding.

I can only hope that Derpy will be changed back, but even if she is not, she will always be loved in my heart as Derpy.

 

 

Thank you if you bothered to take the time to read this. I know it was long but i had a lot to get off my chest. maybe i might keep this account, but i doubt it. If you want to leave your thoughts, feel free to, and if you have any messages for me, please send it to www.evittsandrew@yahoo.com. Keep strong fellow bronies and remember to show love, tolerance, AND understanding. /)*

 

First off, as you can see my username clearly states I am also a fan of Derpy. I had the same reaction when Derpy was going to be taken off the show. I am clumsy just like Derpy, (I also love muffins, but that has no point here) and I am the mail boy around my neighborhood. We also have a lot in common. I read your entire thing, and I will certainly sign any petition, join any group that supports Derpy, just to get her back. I found out about this petition though. Right here. Join if you will.

[Fox 5,330]

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[ZoidbergBestPony 30]

I also suppose this should serve as a introduction as well lol.

[DJ MUFF1N D3RP 322]

As you can tell for me as well, I also love Derpy and would love to help her out in any way I can, but now I know that she is for the most part safe, I think I'll just let this whole thing run its course. Anyway, welcome to the forums! Trust me, your activity will increase and you'll find yourself talking more than you thought you would. You're going to love it here!

Edited March 3, 2012 by super muffin derpy506

[Expired delta 76]

Welcome

[Lillia 69]

Asperger's, eh? Me too. *brohoof*

 

Anyway, stick around. I like your thoughts. You can always change your display name later.

[Daring Do 195]

A very deep homecoming speech, Tempo... I am sure this really brings out our character to many users, and hopefully you can find better friends on this forum...

 

Welcome to the forums though! There is no crying over the past, we must look forward! Though times seem grim, the future holds so much for everypony!

[Jokuc 8,173]

That's a nice text there

Welcome to the forums!