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Artemisia

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Seriously. Guys suck. Dating suck. Not dating sucks. It all sucks.

Now I am fifteen years old and I have never dated before. That isn't "cute" as one of my friends, not a "cute" situation. It doesn't mean I am "innocent" either. I do not understand how my friends who have dated since they were twelve can understand what my situation is like. Honestly it sucks. But seriously I try not to let it be a big deal.

Now no boy has ever confessed his love or his crush, asked me out or kissed me. Nor have I done any of them. Now easily it can be interpreted as "Nobody likes me......" whining, and it is hard to not think that. My friends try to tell me that is not true, but how do they know? They don't.

There is nothing wrong with never having dated is there? Nobody has liked me or admitted their feelings, nor are there any boys that I am gaga over. Is there anything wrong with that? No.

Some of my friends are like "I feel like there are boys who like you but they are shy or quiet ones and are afraid to share their feelings." Again how do you know that? And if that is true, why don't they grow a pair. Nobody is benefiting from this situation.

I am sorry this has just been on my mind and I NEED to rant a bit.

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Hey bruh.

I don't suck ;-;

 

And dating isn't all that. I've dated close to 20 people now. It's not fun with constant heartbreak.

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I've only dated two women in my life. One ended up being a mean woman and the other died before I could live my whole life with her.

 

Dating does suck and I haven't been on a date since I was twenty.

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Don't date. Dating is for daters.

 

What I do is have lots of female friends. I joke and laugh and be nice to all of them. And if I find myself gravitating towards one in particular, then I just spend a lot more time with her because she obviously makes me happy. And when the "Are you dating?" questions are asked, I simply say "No".

 

Dating is really just a title; you can spend quality time with a person of the other gender and not be dating. And then if you two ever DON'T want to spend as much time together anymore, you can just not spend as much time together anymore. There isn't a breakup or the awkward rebounds or any of that junk.

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Guys are jerks. Simply put, guys are jerks lol. I know I am, at least some of the time.... but if you do wanna talk seriously just hit me up(I generally don't like to be the one starting the convo, makes me feel like I'm running interference/invading privacy). Note that I have never had a girlfriend and honestly I haven't really felt much of a need. Now, I have had strong feelings towards certain individuals, but I just put it aside(for multiple reasons), and saunter on as the ignorant fool I well deserve to be called.

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But I'm not a jerk to girls! I'll admit to other guys I'm kind of an ass sometimes but not to girls!

 

And I'm 15 and I came to the conclusion that I don't want a relationship yet. It seems like a lot of time I could spend doing something else. Also I'm only in high school and it's not like I'm going to meet the damn love of my life there. Don't worry about about it because in the big scheme of things, almost all of the time when young people date, it's just worthless kissing holding hands that means nothing.

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meh, I actually haven't had a date, because I don't think you shouldn't have to prove your love by wasting money on a movie that they wont even watch:/

I agree with you Artemisia :3

 

and I don't suck T_T........or do I? XD

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Trust me, you still have a long ways to go before you should start worrying about how you've never dated somebody. I know both a guy and girl in their 30's and both of them haven't had their first kiss yet.

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I know that feel...and really, like what all the above have stated, just wait. Dating is seriously not worth the worries. I've had a couple of gfs and the drama was ridiculous, it just didn't cut for me.

 

So I simply gave up, and started enjoying my own life and bizz. I haven't had a gf since 2 years ago...but I don't really care anymore, plus I'm patient.

 

Just enjoy your friends, and when you find a special someone, let it grow naturally. No need for the rush...just be happy. :)

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