You know, sometimes you need to think about stuff that happens to you, and take the best from them

I have been in a relationship with the same girl for 4 years and half, then, everything was gone, yeah I was destroyed because I left the army for her, but hey, I learnt something, you want to know what? What is real love

I am Catholic, and I’d like to tell you that we should love in the way that god loves us, but I will not go in this way, I will just say you something, he loves us for what we are, for what we do and with all of our problems and defects, he even loves us when we are wrong, loving somehow, really loving somehow means that you accept the other for what he/she is, with all of his defects, and you don’t try to force them to remove them.. you accept the other person for what he/she TRULY is, if you really love her, you would love her for what she really is, with her damn anxiety, with her damn will to control whatever you do, for her strong attitude, and she would have loved me for what I really am… but this is the past… I accepted her and loved her ALSO for her defects, and I made them something special, she never did, and I see it only now. (my story)

If you love your son, if you truly love him, you will not be happy or love him because he accomplished YOUR dreams, if your son want to be a writer or a philosopher, and you couldn’t be an engineer because your father died and you had to take his company, you will not force your son to be what you weren’t able to be, you will let him what he TRULY is, even if he told you a truth that you couldn’t expect (my friend story)

Guys, I am tired when I talk to people.. really.. think about this, bare me, how many times did you saw evil in a person you are talking with? Almost never… but how much immaturity did you saw? Lot lot and lot, I am tired of 60 years old children, I am tired of immature idiots who can’t take their lives in their hands and do what a man is supposed to do… they just make them self and the others around them and who loves them sad and miserable.. just because they LIKE to droll in their situation, they droll in their sadness, they want people around, it is more than right and acceptable to want people around to help you.. but damn.. I am TIRED of seeing people using this as an EXCUSE to live! Where did you left your balls son? (my personal experience)

How many times, you thought “ehi I am happy, I love all of my friends around me” and then when you truly need them, they basically turns into smoke? How many time did you found yourself only with a few around you when you need them? This is life, it is not a problem, it is not a sin, you just need to live knowing and accepting this, but what I wanted to truly say is this: stop thinking you are in a bad condition, before looking at your shit and to see the defects in the others, look at the other misery, and then look at yourself at the mirror, see what you truly are, and get better, stop thinking you are loving a person, think about it, realize if you truly love it, think “do I love him/her for what he truly is? Or I want him/her to be what I want?” do the same with your friends, judge your own life and your actions, and always ALWAYS accept the other for what he/she truly is, and I go again a bit religious here.. love each other like HE loves us, for what we truly are, stop drooling in your shit, get your spear, get your weapons and knives, and fight against the shit that life throws at you every day

“Fatti non foste a viver come bruti, ma per seguire virtute and canoscenza”

“you weren’t made to live like animals, but to follow values and knowledge”