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Sazama Ichida

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  1. One thing you have to understand on the internet is this, and it might sound a bit blunt. 

     

    People come on places like this, and the internet in general to either relax / chillout, have a good time or escape their issues. People are often not willing to be counsellors for other people, nor should we be. Unfortunately your issues are your issues and you are the person who has to deal with them, if you have conditions that affect the way you speak to people that you can't help then that does suck, people will often be able to emphasize with you and understand that, but again that doesn't override the first point. 

     

    Taking myself for example, when I add people to Skype or start PM's with them here, I make clear immediately that I am happy to be most peoples friends as long as there is no needless drama, the conversation doesn't cause me stress or make me uncomfortable. If a person carries on doing that then I will remove them regardless of any conditions they may have, having asperger's is not a reason for people to keep you as a friend. 

     

    My advice is, chill out, not everyone hates you, I have been on this forum a few months now and have absolutely no idea who you are, so you can't be that hated. Deal with the issues you have in your own life and don't let them flood over to people on the internet, you might think it's unfair but they don't want to deal with that from someone they have met online. 

     

    Either way, have a good time, whether you choose to stay or not :)

    I realized that I needed to get on one last time to reply to this. I sometimes thought that too but that can't be right when they act so understanding and kind to everyone else on here when they're sad except for me...That proves what I said to be true that they don't think I have the right to be upset or that I deserve any kindness for what I've been through...

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