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A follow up to the lesson I learned

Finesthour

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This morning, I found out that the girl I was "so madly in love with" and broke up with two days ago had already found another guy.

Quickly.

 

Apparently, he calls her "his little butterfly." And since I wrote that long life lesson yesterday, she decided to show me by changing her username on every site she uses to it!

 

Welp, we talked this morning. And I was not a happy camper. But instead of blowing a gasket and letting her hurt me, I decided to say:

 

"I can't talk to you anymore for now Tara. If you're already thinking about what other guys you can be with the second we broke up, you're a pure heartbreaker.

 

I'm going to be an adult about this, and say good luck with your love life. If you do end up together, don't just go dating someone else right away."

 

I'm a wee bit proud of myself now. But I realize that she was never worth all the trouble I was putting myself through. She was a liar and a cheater, and I am glad I can move past her. I had some good times with her, but they were destroyed by her wrong doings.

 

I'm going to put all of our pictures and the teddy bear she gave me into a box after school, just to remember all the awful times as an adult, so I can one day burn them all. It shall be grand.

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Titan Rising

Moving on is great but you don't have to look back on your memories with contempt you know...  Maybe she did some bad stuff to you, I'm not really in a position to say, but you don't have to hate her for it.  The good times stand alone, they are not dependent on whether or not the end is good.  That's what I think.  Anyway...

 

Here's to the future.

 

Cheers

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Finesthour

Moving on is great but you don't have to look back on your memories with contempt you know...  Maybe she did some bad stuff to you, I'm not really in a position to say, but you don't have to hate her for it.  The good times stand alone, they are not dependent on whether or not the end is good.  That's what I think.  Anyway...

 

Here's to the future.

 

Cheers

I don't really hate her per say :P

She just ain't worth my time right now.

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Pinguino~

Well you are a stronger man than I, I would have not been able to move on like that i would have been full of rage and emotion but probbably would have bottled it up and blown up on some random passerbye. But I'm glad to see that you got throught that one with your head held high and a healthy mind.

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Finesthour

Well you are a stronger man than I, I would have not been able to move on like that i would have been full of rage and emotion but probbably would have bottled it up and blown up on some random passerbye. But I'm glad to see that you got throught that one with your head held high and a healthy mind.

She just ain't worth my time, or my rage :P

She missed out on one heck of a guy, and she won't get it back.

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Arcanel

 

 

She missed out on one heck of a guy, and she won't get it back.

 

Considering how she broke up with you and what she's doing now, you can use all that self-confidence you just gained with that phrase. *thumbs up*

 

I can see that she caused you more bad moments than good moments so... had I been in your position I would prolly not burn anything, but then again, I know a thing or two about past moments affecting oneself. And one thing I know is, sometimes, we need a let out. Making it a fiery one by making stuff go in a burst of flames... that sounds rather pleasing. XD

P.D: Pride is definitely something you should be feeling now. Moving on like that, and making the most of it considering who you were breaking up with...  that should give you all the confidence you need =)

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Roger Boyd

hey man my ex treated me horrible i know that feel to care about someone that much but in a realationship you should get back what you put in an if that doesnt work shes not the one and you can move on to the right one

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