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Sorry *sniffle* guys... Needed somewhere to cry...


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Unfortunately, on June 23, a close family friend of mine lost his fight against cancer. he was a beautiful singer and dancer, and my sister's godfather. He would tend to our every need when we were at his house, at would always give me what I wanted. He had a one year old grandson, who now, may never remember him. Sure, I try to be strong, but I'll admit, at the funeral I cried harder than a newborn baby. They sang the song he used to sing all the time, he sang it to me to get me to sleep, when he was cooking, all the time. I broke, and cried hard. I'm sorry if I made any of you cry, but i needed somewhere to put this. Tito, I love you, you were a good man, but you are home now. See you there. PS: I swear this will be the only sobfest in my blog. I hope...

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I am so sorry to hear about this. I know how it is to loose someone to cancer, but at least he's not suffering anymore. We're here for you. :)

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I'm sorry for your loss my uncle is fighting cancer right now and we were closer than two peas in a pod i love him with all my heart

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@breeze:

 

If you r Christian: PRAY WITH ALL UR HEART! TRUST ME, U DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM. JUST, PRAY AS HARD AS YOU CAN.

 

If you aren't: Good luck. Do everything you can. I raised a couple hundred in my school to donate to cancer research, but that didn't work out.

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I'm very sorry that he passed away. I know that this is easier said than done, but it would help to try to remember his life with joy, instead of focusing on his death, once you are able to do so.

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I am very sorry for your loss. I have not lost a family member, yet, however I have come very close to it, as my grandfather went into a coma a few years back.

However, maybe this thought will cheer you up.

When we die, our bodies begin to decompose, so, while we decompose, our atoms begin to scatter throughout Earth. The atoms react with other beings' atoms, including yours. So, although he may not be alive, he will always be here, a part of you and I.

Although I am not of the Christian faith, I do send my blessings to your family.

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I'm so sorry. As little as it might mean in this time of mourning, you have my sincerest condolences. The saying that all good things must come to an end is, sadly, also true of the good lives led by good people. But one thing that will never end is the legacy he has left upon this earth, in the form of his children, his grandchild, and his friendship with you and your family, as well as every other person whose life he has touched in one way or another.

 

I encourage you to keep this in mind and celebrate his life by cherishing all the good memories you have of him. God bless.

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I never know what to say to people when this happens, but I couldn't just not say something having seen your post,  I'm sorry you had to lose someone who meant so much to you.

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Im so very sorry Flutter. Tito will be in my prayers. And if you EVER need someone to talk to, I'll be there. <3

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@breeze:

 

If you r Christian: PRAY WITH ALL UR HEART! TRUST ME, U DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIM. JUST, PRAY AS HARD AS YOU CAN.

 

If you aren't: Good luck. Do everything you can. I raised a couple hundred in my school to donate to cancer research, but that didn't work out.

I am cristian and we had a benefit for him and we raised loads of money for him but my grandparents are gonna lose there house in a foreclosure and my uncle lives with them so he will probably come live with us or my uncle tony

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