Trying to figure who to be friends with is like trying to solve one math problem or answer a question in an exam where you only have to get all the questions right to pass the class. It's twists my brain around with the fear of the unknown.
I do remember however, that back in 6th and 7th grade where I was obsessed with the show Arthur that I wanted a social life similar to what most of the characters had.
Oh okay, cool -- so you have the sum. ^^ Next, you need to figure out who you are. If you know who you are, it'll be easier to find like-minded people.