Finding out things that upset you.../mini rant/

[moved ♥ 142]

Just wondering other's opinions I guess. Thanks for your time if you read/reply!

 

Not too long ago, my boyfriend's sister and her girlfriend broke up. For the longest time I thought his sister didn't like me because she was nice to me at first, then seemed to get angry at me and stopped talking to me, once his sister and her girlfriend broke up, his sister started talking to me again. When I asked her about why she had gotten so angry with me she told me she did it for her girlfriend. I was confused, so she proceeded to tell me her girlfriend really, really did not like me. I had talk to her girlfriend about twice in real life, and she was the one who approached me and added me as a friend, and would message me. She was really nice to me, so I was just even more confused. She would give me helpful advice on dA journals, and just generally be kind.

 

But then I found out something else today that made me wanna rant, her girlfriend would get angry when me and my boyfriend were together having fun or spending time together. She would ask my boyfriend's sister "When are they going to break up!? They're always together and it's so annoying." I don't see what was annoying, we don't talk all super lovey dovey in people's faces or even kiss by others. And, I found out she would make bets, and say how soon we were going to break up. I'm more hurt because I feel so straight lied to. If she really hated me so much, why would she go out of her way to comment on my art, or talk to me on the internet. I've never done anything to her, I don't understand it and it's just an annoying thing. The ironic thing is I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and their relationship ended months ago because that girl was so mean to my boyfriend's sister.

 

All in all, I'm just happy my boyfriend's sister isn't with her anyone, she's way too good for someone that mean. The moral of my story, is if someone doesn't like someone. They should just not talk to them, or about them. I used to want to talk about people I didn't like when I was 11, then I grew up and realized it's a waste of energy. If I really don't like someone, I just don't talk to them. I just don't understand people. Guuh.

[khaine21x3 789]

She's just jelly of you and want your boyfriend all to herself, I would've subtly destroy her emotionally as a preemptive strike.

[moved ♥ 142]

She's just jelly of you and want your boyfriend all to herself, I would've subtly destroy her emotionally as a preemptive strike.

 

I just think it's odd because she said she was a "lesbian", but admittedly I thought think that too sometimes. She's also 3 years older than me and him, so it just seems so childish.

 

Hahaha, you're funny! I'm passive agressive about that stuff. If I known she hated me that much I'd just poison her drink while she wasn't looking! >

[Blackcat 205]

Some people are decieving vampires. You see...much like sunlight, being honest and open will burn them. not literally of course, but it will burn, melt, and possibly morph their mental image of themselves. Probably for the better, but they sadly, don't know this. To them, they need to stay the same by sticking to their secret and plotting ways.

 

In all honesty, it seems the gal knew she was being rude, but couldn't stand the idea of someone else seeing her act as such. It's a stupid and ill thought out way to retain self image that...obviously, backfires as soon as the veil is lifted.

[khaine21x3 789]

I just think it's odd because she said she was a "lesbian", but admittedly I thought think that too sometimes. She's also 3 years older than me and him, so it just seems so childish.

 

Hahaha, you're funny! I'm passive agressive about that stuff. If I known she hated me that much I'd just poison her drink while she wasn't looking! >

 

Might be a little excessive to kill someone over something so trivial but I like the way 4 chan does things

 

Since the beginning of the raid Adam has been trolled through the following methods:

1) Constant phone calls to his home, cell, and place of business

2) Black Fax copies that have successfully murdered his home and business fax ink.

3) His personal website has been shut down.

4) The Provider of his website has been shut down.

5) Misc. Porn mags are now being delivered to his home.

6) Has had dead animals thrown at his house (evidence: testimony by Adam on phone)

7) over 9000 Pornstars contacted to meet at his home.

8) Myspace account hacked/shut down.

9) Local pizza parlors delivering tomorrow morning and afternoon.

10) At least 25,000 UPS boxes shipped to his home and place of business for the next 4-12 weeks.

11) 2000 sq ft of maple hardwood samples sent to his home.

12) Condoms & Lube for the next 4 - 6 weeks.

13) Bibles, Korans, and Jehovas Witnesses scheduled to come by his office.

14) Various free samples/products/literature/brochures addressed to his home.

15) Gay Newsletters.

16) Constant harassment and billing charges due to excessive cell phone messages.

17) Streams of Islamic bibles and DVDs with conversion tips have been constantly shipped.

18) Male prostitutes have been sent.

19) Posters of H1N1 virus posted around his house.

20) Posters calling him a child molester have been posted around his house.

21) 2 sites down

22) Thousands of postcards and 24hr information hotline for his home phone.

[Spring Storm 276]

Sucks that she did that to you. I've had people do passive aggressive s**t to me in the past, and boy, does it annoy me. If you don't like me, don't talk to me. I feel your pain.

[moved ♥ 142]

Some people are decieving vampires. You see...much like sunlight, being honest and open will burn them. not literally of course, but it will burn, melt, and possibly morph their mental image of themselves. Probably for the better, but they sadly, don't know this. To them, they need to stay the same by sticking to their secret and plotting ways.

 

In all honesty, it seems the gal knew she was being rude, but couldn't stand the idea of someone else seeing her act as such. It's a stupid and ill thought out way to retain self image that...obviously, backfires as soon as the veil is lifted.

 

Man, This is such a beautiful little quote I want to print it out and frame it. That makes complete sense. I'm more annoyied with how someone 3 years my senior can be that immature and mean.

[Blackcat 205]

Man, This is such a beautiful little quote I want to print it out and frame it. That makes complete sense. I'm more annoyied with how someone 3 years my senior can be that immature and mean.

Aww, you flatter me dear. How old is she if I may ask? If she's over 25, then I'm just as floored. Buuuut, some people do take a while to come around.

[moved ♥ 142]

Aww, you flatter me dear. How old is she if I may ask? If she's over 25, then I'm just as floored. Buuuut, some people do take a while to come around.

She's almost 20, so I guess that not so horrible, 20 year olds aren't the most mature, but she's an adult and I'm 16 so I don't know why should would even waste time complaining about how terrible I am if I'm so very beneath her.

[Mephala 2,633]

That's just...lulzwurthy.

Not the fact that she's acting like this, of course, but the fact that she's nearly 20 and acts like a child.

She was obviously just two-faced, like many others. She probably didn't like that you were getting attention-not necessarily because of your boyfriend, there's other possibilities as well.

Anyways, in summary, she's a dishonest person, and it's a good thing if you've severed contact with her.

Sorry for the bad post...I'm not good at putting these sort of things into words, so not how I'd like it to come out.

[Fridge 382]

Sadly some people are like that. They'll be total bitches behind your back but sweet as pie to your face.

 

It sounds likely that she considered your relationship to not be a 'proper' relationship because you weren't being lovely dovey around them. I've known a few people who think like that. My own relationship is similar in public the most coupley thing I'll do usually is call her 'Darling' and even then its usually said in a mock posh english accent.

[moved ♥ 142]

That's just...lulzwurthy.

Not the fact that she's acting like this, of course, but the fact that she's nearly 20 and acts like a child.

She was obviously just two-faced, like many others. She probably didn't like that you were getting attention-not necessarily because of your boyfriend, there's other possibilities as well.

Anyways, in summary, she's a dishonest person, and it's a good thing if you've severed contact with her.

Sorry for the bad post...I'm not good at putting these sort of things into words, so not how I'd like it to come out.

 

I get what you're trying to say completely, don't worry at all. I'm not so good with words myself, haha! :'D I mean, if I was being a snobbish little brat to her, and being rude and stuff I could see why she'd do that. But I treated her like I treat everyone else: with respect and kindness unless they've disrespected me. I'm a so-called artist myself and I'm pretty decent at anthros, so I even took 4 hours drawing her anthro character for her, because she asked me to! What a slap in the face, I just...I think I'm more upset because she treated me like a friend, and talked to badly about me. 

 

Sadly some people are like that. They'll be total bitches behind your back but sweet as pie to your face.

 

It sounds likely that she considered your relationship to not be a 'proper' relationship because you weren't being lovely dovey around them. I've known a few people who think like that. My own relationship is similar in public the most coupley thing I'll do usually is call her 'Darling' and even then its usually said in a mock posh english accent.

 

I don't anyone has the right to comment on the status, or solidarity of someone else's relationship when they themselves have nothing to do with those two people! People can be such interlopers it's insane. 

[Mephala 2,633]

I get what you're trying to say completely, don't worry at all. I'm not so good with words myself, haha! :'D I mean, if I was being a snobbish little brat to her, and being rude and stuff I could see why she'd do that. But I treated her like I treat everyone else: with respect and kindness unless they've disrespected me. I'm a so-called artist myself and I'm pretty decent at anthros, so I even took 4 hours drawing her anthro character for her, because she asked me to! What a slap in the face, I just...I think I'm more upset because she treated me like a friend, and talked to badly about me. 

 

 

I don't anyone has the right to comment on the status, or solidarity of someone else's relationship when they themselves have nothing to do with those two people! People can be such interlopers it's insane. 

I know, that's twice as bad. It's so much easier if she establishes she "doesn't like you", but pretending to be a friend is just such a big...ugh. You know what I mean.

[Shankveld 4,949]

Misery loves company darling. 

Unhappy people can't stand seeing people happy > jealousy.

I think in your heart of hearts you know why she was like this.

It shouldn't be a shock to you that a nasty person is also two faced

Moral: never trust anyone.

haha xP

~

[moved ♥ 142]

Misery loves company darling. 

Unhappy people can't stand seeing people happy > jealousy.

I think in your heart of hearts you know why she was like this.

It shouldn't be a shock to you that a nasty person is also two faced

Moral: never trust anyone.

haha xP

~

 

Haha, I knew it was safer in my turtle shell! I'm just glad she's not a part of any of our lives, my boyfriend's sister is a good person and she deserves better anywho!

[Simcity11100 772]

I don't like how my parents don't uderstand that I'm a transgender male, they tend to just tell me it's a teen phase or something like that, but it's not I've felt that I should have been born female for about 10 - 11 years(7 or 6 years old) and I wish they would just understand.  I never shared this to any one other then on yahoo answeres lol, and the people who answered me gave me support to tell them in the first place the way I felt about my self and what I wanted to be, but they neglected the fact that I wanted to be female and right now I fell partially depressed about them neglecting me as a transgender.

Edited December 8, 2012 by Simcity11100

[PlunderSteed 1,252]

stuff

 

It sounds like you a run in with one of those people who we call "dumb cunts".  It happens.  Not much you can do about her in particular.  The only thing you can do is try to not let her dumb cunterry bother you too much, and definitely don't let it disrupt the healthy relationships that you have with the other people you were talking about.  Good luck!