Mother's Day
I don't often make blog entries here, but given that this is on my mind I suppose I'll go ahead and share.
I imagine many of you have noticed today's holiday. Perhaps you've observed the holiday by calling your mother, or giving her a gift, or posting something about her on social media. For you all, I'm glad, and I hope you and your mothers are enjoying this day.
For me though, Mother's Day is not a nice, pleasant little holiday. The pressure to celebrate my mother, the sight of everyone discussing the importance of appreciating what she's done, is not an easy thing for me to face. For me, it is a sharp reminder of the pressure to love and respect someone who hurt me greatly, who abused me. I do not talk about this part of my life much outside of my closest relationships, but today, I think it's an important thing to share. I know I'm not the only one going through this, and I want others to know that they aren't alone as well. To those going through the same thing as me, I want to tell you that I'm here, that I understand, and that you don't have to feel guilty for not sending flowers or writing facebook posts. You do not owe her, and your feelings are valid <3
To those who do have positive, loving relationships with your mothers, I hope you do celebrate that. You are very lucky to have something so special as that, and you should cherish that every day.
That's all I really have for you all. Whatever you have, a loving mother, an abusive one, or no mother at all, I hope you all have a lovely day, even if the holiday is hard for you too. Stay strong my darlings <3
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