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This one right here really got me. As an Admin observing many community activities, as much as we try to offer kindness and support from the outside -- it isn't until the person accepts themselves on the inside or loves themselves to some degree that the kindness and support truly come into full effect. This was a really inspirational blog post, Comander. I love this feeling. I am happy that you found a friend despite your expectations. Even better than you? Hmm... not sure but it definitely shows you have a lot of respect for him and that tells me that having a friend of such a high regard means you know you're worthy of

I think it's really beautiful of you to share this kind of thing uwu To be honest, what you say resonates deeply within many. Skies are gray, and it's a very intimate thing to admit to and to recognize. And to not only see it, but also see the break of dawn further down the horizon, speaks to your intuition and patience. Sometimes, I think people just feel comforted and reassured knowing that even if they struggle, someone will be there to hold the pieces with them. They don't necessarily need to offer advice or life-changing perspectives. Sometimes just.. having a friend is all it takes. Not only do you see that light for yourself

Hi there. I'm also 41. Welcome to the club. And I say... Do what makes you happy. You're an adult. It's your money, time, and your life. And if you aren't harming anyone, if you are a functioning member of society, then no one has the right to tell you what to do. If they love doing things that "aren't childish", that's fine. But just because they found something they like, doesn't mean they have the right to dictate how you live. I would love to own some toys and watch anime.

The more I hear about that guy the more I keep seeing how he used politics to divide people. "Us vs Them" -- yup, that's the poison. If only life were so simple. But it was the perfect sabotage. Even a few days ago, someone was telling me how he terrified her into running away from us and I really like this person! I'm glad she came back. D: He was addicted to forcing division and politics into the public in such an angry and hostile way. He also tried to sabotage some friendships with me by defining me to them as "uh librul." (LOL!!!) Which is funny because my views are not that simple. But since those friends are on the opposite side o

I cannot tell you how many people have shared such a similar experience. It makes me smile when the outcome is of a more positive nature. But makes me sad when I imagine the fear and shock they initially go through. Poor darlings. This one has been a tough one to balance for me. I've given a lot of people who seem shy A TON of space because, I want them to feel safe in the long run... but everyone is different. Some people ask for the space and expect you to give it, and some people ask for the space but look at you from afar, longing for you to reach out and tell them they don't have to hide, then feel forgotten when you respect their

this was really sweet to read >w< i feel the same, and i really do think it's awesome how so many people from all over the world can bond together in a shared space!! humans are social creatures and we're meant to bond with one another. this is something i do still struggle with though i'm very much one of those ponies who replies more than they message first but it's a work in progress!!!

I'm sure politics come into play in some instances, but if that's all a person can bond over, then they need to find some hobbies. Politics is such a tricky subject and unless you can discuss it without things getting too heated, it is not worth discussing. I was tricked by you-know-who that it was "us vs them" and "you have to pick a side" but now that I have the true freedom to have my own beliefs, I have learned (or perhaps re-learned) to be nuanced about most political things, since I don't really sway towards one side more than the other. I do like to look at views that person doesn't like, though, just cause I can It's very satisf

It's amazing to me how so many people miss the most obvious, most powerful message from the ponies that brought us all here in the first place. Seriously, think about it. Twilight Sparkle is the studious dork, Rainbow Dash is the jock, Pinkie Pie is a party animal, Rarity is a fashionista, Applejack is a work-focused country girl, and Fluttershy is a shy nature lover. Such characters should have little to no reason to be friends; in some cases, these character types would have nothing to do with each other, yet they are friends just the same. Sure they might have been united because of the Elements of Harmony, but they were all ready l

Friendships arise (I believe) as people get interested with each other, but for that friendship to actually sustain long term, both need good morals/ethics, a capitalist and Communist, although having radically different views, may be friends if they have good morals and ethics and that their following of said capitalism/communism are exploitive or oppressive but rather the other way around, same with Christians and Muslims or many other differing groups... Unfortunately, not everyone is like this and so problems/issues arise, and it simply brings pains (as you've stated around mid message, there are people who are miserable/aggressive and sp

See? I keep telling you that you are psychic and you deny it but then you go and do something like this. You also check up on me which I appreciate, even though I know you're going through your own thing. Such a strong darling. People like you help me to keep going through my darkest days. Whereas anyone adding to the plate drains me so bad as of late. I feel super weak lately but I'm getting there. Thanks for always being so patient and hopeful, Sketch! Side note: This cute thing exists because of you.

I feel something similar too. My days were also very dark before I got used to this place. Things still aren't very good for me, but the Forum really makes it a lot better for me. So I'm very grateful for what I have here and also makes me feel stronger to keep going. I'm glad it happens with you too. Please take your time too, if you need any help, me or other friends will be here for you ~☆

Y r u so wise, Sketchie?

I know an elderly gentleman in his sixties who still enjoys playing happily with children we all know finding work these days is tough. But don't worry, if you've got a craftsmanship you can always make a living from it

Silky, I completly understand how you feel, please dont stress yourself up, you are doing an amazing job and you deserve all recognition in the world, you are a sweet gentle soul, I want you to take some time also to relax, it may not sound easy but you deserve to be happy

Yes, I study at a technical school, but I study for a specialty that I hate and I also work in this profession related to this specialty. Next year I am going to take the Unified State Exam and go to university to become a programmer, because I like programming. And also, with the help of this profession, I am going to move to the USA (maybe to Canada, but I'm not sure). Unfortunately, it is hard for me to prepare for exams now because I am attacked by procrastination. The exams are difficult and I have little time.

You went to a tech school?! That's so cool! I thought about doing that once.

It's friendship starter pack. You let them to taste friendship, cuz everyone have to start somewhere

It was a joy to see your growth, @ComanderZhabikKlavik You stomped onto a friendship landmine when you came here LOL

You know, I was struggling with this, as well. But I have come to realize that even if you build an empire from the ground up, get everything right, or if you have done endless good in the world or if your methods have proven to be 100% effective in doing good — there will always be someone watching from the distance talking so much bollocks or warping what you really mean or what you have done. lol It tends to be a reflection of their projection or short sight. So, just be you! People will talk anyway. So long as you’re standing by your principles and you’re not allowing people’s judgments to sway you from who really you are - hav

A good read and a few points that strike pretty close to home! I myself would benefit from putting aside my insecurities and interacting more openly instead of worrying about how I am perceived by others.

Wow. Isn’t it amazing? Something so seemingly small. And yet you’ve made such a big splash! the big title thing made me smile, btw haha I love seeing your personality seasoned through your lessons learned. Sometimes you may feel like you don’t matter. Just a lurker who is observing, but your existence makes a difference. And it has already made a difference in the people whom you have engaged with here. Maybe it’s like a microcosmic reflection of a macrocosmic thing. The same would apply to in-person life. But it is so easy to forget. I love hearing about your journey and progress as you come out o

Every spirit has a light within, struggle and fight hard to the surface as it always did. Barrow and Hirrodin always say when Moetriet thinks himself was about kneel: ' Let's try again to seek the light, Stranger'

10 years and I'll also be 50 @BritishBrony2012

Aww... It's a shame things have to be like this, that there's never enough time for everything. *sigh* why do I feel like everything is falling apart... I completely understand you though. I hope life treats you well, and guides you on your path.

Very cute mare.

Lol! My armor is completely destroyed by the friendship landmine

Yes, it scared me and I was more shy then. Thank you! I also hope that shy users will be able to overcome their shyness and communicate with someone. Communication here has changed me for the better. If someone shy is reading this, remember that we are all capable of many things and you are capable of overcoming your shyness. Take the first step, write a message to someone, you will succeed! And one more piece of advice. Don't be afraid to seem weird, be yourself. Ahaha, this comic perfectly describes the situation that happened then Thank you! I enjoyed reading your blog too! I'm glad you're working on it,

aaa! thank youuu >w<!! people forget things all the time in in-person life.. i think people tend to be more guarded with what parts of them are on display. your stories are always just that.. your stories.. meaning, you tell them at your own time ^~^ yeah it's something im still working on :3 i think everyone is still working on that, to a degree..

I read it till the end. I READ THE WHOLE POST! >:D But jokes aside. Your words are full of wisdom, @Street Light. I can feel how long the path you came through and can only try to imagine how long the way ahead. And it's a joy to travel with you now, on this part of it ^e^

It's really good to talk about things without feeling judged. Everybody has their story behind why they believe what they do on their political stance. And it's totally valid. I actually wanted to thank you for being a lovely member of this community. I treasure the kind words and the lovely art you have gifted to me and the people who just want to heal from this crazy world and enjoy good memories together. The internet can sometimes be a cesspool and random anger. Everyone has something to be angry about but you keep the cool vibes and I appreciate you. I remember you had a friend who was very political and aggressive about it. S

That's why I don't like to talk about politics, even in Twilight's Soapbox I don't participate in discussions. Sometimes talking about it can ruin a friendship. I once talked a little about politics with a friend, we have different political views but some similarities. I talked to him about political views only because we knew that we would not quarrel with each other over this nonsense. We just shared our points of view and listened to each other without judgment.

As unfortunate that something happened lately, we cannot give into anger about certain topics (things we can't control) and take it out an online community (pinning blame). We need to keep walking the path to be positive and be loyal to our principles. Understanding matters and help friends out anytime we can to better the friendships. BTW, you've actually watched Power Rangers episodes @Ice Princess Silky <3?

Thank you Silky, I just had felt so hollow through all this because it's as if her mother is trying to paint me as a miscrient who purposefully mishbehaves, but it's not like I don't understand those words, I very much do, but if the character speaks like that, the show must go on... I want to be an author or work in theatre in my passion for writing and acting, but this has stunted my ideas, and I feel as if I should ask, "should I?" And it is such a shame I have to use my favorite song to describe this person I have been loathing, but it's all I have for lack of a better lyrical reference.

We've all got our battles, but we have friends when we always need them