I am saying that people have their share or burdens. Try to think about it, porn junkies get married too but its not like they get stopped. I am saying that on a mental level as in homosexual lifestyle it is wrong on a dogmatic theological level. However, just letting them get married and see how it goes you can do without approving of the lifestyle. Some churches should adopt this instead of gay friendly since that is going against the scriptures. I mean if they do then ok but they are essentially ignoring it, that would be like me saying that porn is ok, now this doesn't mean i am going to people and say stop watching porn. But it is frowned upon by the churches and bible due to it not being ok. For example its nothing wrong with loving same sex, as in if two males or two females love each other, its only a sin if they do it sexually.
I just think this is the best answer i could think of that would work, but only if its absolutely necesary like demanded.