sorry if I was too blunt. From all I've heard about her, I can tell she's a bad person and considering what she puts you through (whether you do it voluntarily or not) she hardly equates to a "friend".
Don't say that, she tried to stop me at first and then changed her mind abruptly. I won't blame her. I messed it all up for her, and there's nothing i can do to stop her from being John's little puppet.
And look as she makes a puppet out of you. Using your friendship to get you to do what SHE wants. There are some friends who aren't real friends. Those who use you are not real friends.