Concerning Love

[Feather Scribbles 194]

Does the kind of love you find in romance books still exist today? You know, where one person saves another person's life (or at least their a**), and the two end up together... Where they both hold hands and run through a meadow together... Where they do not kiss until the perfect moment, even if it is months or even years ever since they entered a relationship... Where instead of requesting to be their bf/gf, the natural process of attraction happens on its own... Where the two live the lives of their dreams together and have complete trust with one another... A relationship without any cheating involved (and in which neither partner would ever dream of it), where they are together because they love who they are, and not just how they look or how much money they have...

What would I see as my preferable love story? Me and my partner would meet (doesn't really matter where, I guess... as long as it is NOT online), and we would begin talking and become friends. We would feel a slight attraction towards one another, but we would never act upon it until months or even years later. By "acting upon it", I don't mean a kiss out of the blue... I mean a sudden interest in doing more stuff with each other, maybe hanging out in meadows and underneath the stars... And at some point we would do stuff like read together, run through a meadow together while holding hands, all the meanwhile realizing that we are falling in love with each other. One day, during the perfect moment, we would kiss... and months or even years later, we would say "I love you". In other words, a relationship that not only means something, but means the world to me and him/her/they/them/etc.

Do these kind of relationships exist in the world? Or is it all about movies, hanging out at the mall, etc. nowadays?

I'm asking because I have yet to find my soulmate, even though I am only 18. Because if what I described above is impossible in a relationship... I may not be willing to ever enter one... But don't let that influence your answer! Honestly... do you think that these types of romantic relationships still exist in the world? Relationships that are long-term, that aren't built around sex (sex would one day become somewhat important, but there would be so much more), that involve no cheating, etc.

Edited October 28, 2017 by Feather Scribbles

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5 minutes ago, Feather Scribbles said:

Does the kind of love you find in romance books still exist today? You know, where one person saves another person's life (or at least their a**), and the two end up together... Where they both hold hands and run through a meadow together... Where they do not kiss until the perfect moment, even if it is months or even years ever since they entered a relationship... Where instead of requesting to be their bf/gf, the natural process of attraction happens on its own... Where the two live the lives of their dreams together and have complete trust with one another... A relationship without any cheating involved (and in which neither partner would ever dream of it), where they are together because they love who they are, and not just how they look or how much money they have...

What would I see as my preferable love story? Me and my partner would meet (doesn't really matter where, I guess... as long as it is NOT online), and we would begin talking and become friends. We would feel a slight attraction towards one another, but we would never act upon it until months or even years later. By "acting upon it", I don't mean a kiss out of the blue... I mean a sudden interest in doing more stuff with each other, maybe hanging out in meadows and underneath the stars... And at some point we would do stuff like read together, run through a meadow together while holding hands, all the meanwhile realizing that we are falling in love with each other. One day, during the perfect moment, we would kiss... and months or even years later, we would say "I love you". In other words, a relationship that not only means something, but means the world to me and him/her/they/them/etc.

Do these kind of relationships exist in the world? Or is it all about movies, hanging out at the mall, etc. nowadays?

I'm asking because I have yet to find my soulmate, even though I am only 18. Because if what I described above is impossible in a relationship... I may not be willing to ever enter one... But don't let that influence your answer! Honestly... do you think that these types of romantic relationships still exist in the world? Relationships that are long-term, that aren't built around sex (sex would one day become somewhat important, but there would be so much more), that involve no cheating, etc.

Well to be honest a beautiful real life love story has already started with me getting into a relationship with @Celestial Flight! Plus I practically saved her life in a way as she was quite depressed and she was already committing self harm to herself before I met her and it wouldn't of been long until she ended her life if it wasn't for me coming across her. Plus we can't officially date yet because of our situations in real life it seriously would be a love story that would be extremely worthy of being made into an Australian true story movie.