I know what you mean

You're allowed to get angry, it's a natural emotion. And that feeling might come up, but remind yourself of how people react to you having trouble and you'll know who your friends are

I know what you mean

 

You're allowed to get angry, it's a natural emotion. And that feeling might come up, but remind yourself of how people react to you having trouble and you'll know who your friends are

 

Thanks for your kind words Unicorncob. *Lamiahug* <3

*hugs* Don't worry about it

*Huggles* I think you're great! Don't worry, you won't be able to push me away; I'm one friend you may be stuck with forever, like it or not. :3

And I doubt anypony around here is going to ever give up on you or anything of that sort either

We're all insecure sometimes, but take heart.

If you need validation from others in order to feel good, then when you are alone you will feel pain. Buddhism has a metaphorical philosophy. Suffering is caused from desire, and Nirvana can only be had with internal peace from the self, not from beyond the self.

The idea is you can always be disappointing if you need anything more than yourself, thus it causes pain. So to avoid all pain, one simply needs no desires.

But I criticize that too because, its very anti-progressive and anti-curiosity. Its a type of running away.

So I think the optimal belief set in this context would be to have goals, but don't expect them to happen, and work towards them. Have curiosity, but don't depend on curiosity. Have friendship, but don't require friendship.

So you can be fine alone, fine with others, etc. Its all good.

Most others do not think changing their mind in this precise of a manner is possible. It'd take some reminding tho, because old habits die hard.

Then I could try to psychoanalyze you from what I do know of you(which aint too much) but that'd be rude.

Well isn't that what this website is for? Bringing up spirits? I have yet to meet anyone mean or disrespectful on this site and I'm pretty sure there aren't any or at least VERY few. Everyone here is very supportive about literally anything someone does. That includes you buddy, you are respected by a lot of people on this site. Other people do too that aren't on this site but IRL. No need to feel down about yourself, it's just those pesky demons in ya mind. They don't really exist but we do. Now come here for a hug m8!

Well isn't that what this website is for? Bringing up spirits? I have yet to meet anyone mean or disrespectful on this site and I'm pretty sure there aren't any or at least VERY few. Everyone here is very supportive about literally anything someone does. That includes you buddy, you are respected by a lot of people on this site. Other people do too that aren't on this site but IRL. No need to feel down about yourself, it's just those pesky demons in ya mind. They don't really exist but we do. Now come here for a hug m8!

Thank you. I really appreciate that Green. *Lamiahug* I already feel alot better. <3

While I have tried my effort best to keep my composure online, I can honestly tell you that in person it isn't always easy. More to that, I am not a stranger to feeling overwhelmed with insecurity, even though the cause is probably different ... it can be massively disconcerting. I can understand how crippling it can feel, and how it tends to feed into even more feelings of lower worth. When you feel an outburst coming, try and focus on the the things you succeed at, that you like about yourself ... and no that is not an exercise in vanity. And yes Mesme, there are noticeable traits you possess that you should feel proud of, and you should be encouraged by them.