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11 years on MLPForums

Sir Hugsalot

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Hello, everypony <3

Today is a really special day for me. You know, why? Because...

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Just remove one "1" :kirin:

That's right. I've been here for 11 years. It's so hard to believe that it's been this many years since I made a tiny, shy, welcome thread where I felt immense language block due to me not practicing my english enough in the past. 

This forum put up with me back then. People understood my struggles, complimented my english, encouraged me to befriend them and hang out with them. This forum went really far to make sure I am welcome since day 1, being the only place on the Internet, where I truly felt like I belong. It's here that I learned to really appreciate myself and I feel like I kept growing with this community, staying with it even as my social life outside the forums improved (which happened because of the forums too, by the way :fluttershy:)

Outside of the forums I was always this "outsider" person. I had my good friends, always, but I kept to myself, avoided popularity of any kind, I also happened to be shy and awkward child/teen/young adult. My passions, personality and hobbies simply were different from almost anybody else, leading to me standing out in the crowd. I feared that I'd end up judged for that so I simply hid. I treated who I am like a cozy blanket, not a microphone which I'd use to attract crowds to myself.

Here I decided to talk to people as person who I really am. A geek who loves ponies, but also Star Wars, all things fantasy, video games, metal music and music in general, not to mention cute, wholesome or otherwise adorable stuff. Sounds like something common? Yes, it is. Unfortunately that wasn't the case for any class I was part of which shaped my adulthood in a significant way :wacko:

I've found many like-minded people. Of course it was never a perfect copy of me, but even finding someone, who loves Star Wars the same way I do is already a great start. It actually made me appreciate myself more, healing my mind in ways nothing else ever could. I'll never forget that nor lovely people and platform that made it possible.

With that being said however I must admit I would not be here if not certain lovely pink pegasus who helped me remember myself and brought me to where, in many ways, I was actually born. Lovely pegasus, who happens to be my other half, making me, without doubt, the luckiest person ever (and I hope she feels just as lucky for being with me <3)

That's right, @Ice Princess Silky , because of that this entry will be about you too.

Where do I even begin? It was "just" a status update. One of many similar status updates where someone uses this website to look for friends. I decided to respond. I had no idea back then how much that one DM will change my life... Talking with you was always an experience. Sharing my own ideals with you, hearing yours and finding out how matching they are. Sharing the same sense of humor (someone laughs at my ridiculous jokes! yay!) and same intense drive to always be wholesome and happy. This doesn't give you nearly enough credit, but we have to start somewhere, don't we? ;) 

When my life was collapsing onto itself you were willing to go to ridiculous lengths to support me. You know, what I speak of. I will never forget it. We lived 6 hours away from each other, yet my days felt like they always begun with yours and ended with yours. I kept waking up on 4 AM at one point just to be able to say "goodnight" to you. To make sure you go to bed with smile on your face. You went to same lengths for me. You witnessed me graduating, first as an engineer and then as magister engineer. You embodied all the most beautiful values of MLPForums even as I wasn't active here, carrying the torch for this platform. I will make it short. You are exceptional. 

And it's by your side that I made my return here. Because even when I was ready to give up on myself you did not let me go and guided me back where I belong. I can never thank you enough for that and for giving me all your love. 

So this very special anniversary (yes, number 11 is a special one for me) I dedicate to you - a wonderful, Magical Mare that made it possible :( I love you! 

And I thank all of you, fellow members of our community who still keep using this amazing forum as each and every one of you also made it possible. How did Keanu Reeves put it? Oh...

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Thank you all <3

Yours truly,

Sir Hugsalot :hug_day:

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Valynne

Very nice entry! Happy 11 years Sir! It's been a wild ride on this forum, I did remember talking to you by then, not sure about what but I remember I felt bad about something and we talk and supported me... if only I can find the conversation... but anyways, Im glad you are doing fine! @Ice Princess Silky  Is a dear friend of mine too! And am glad you are taking care of her, I wish you both to have a very good future, hopefully we will be able to talk often, you are a nice guy Sir and whoever who is close to you should feel lucky to meet you!

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Snow

Who's chopping onions I'm trying to read something here!

You're a stand up guy and I am thrilled to be reading about the wonderful journey you have been on, again I say congrats on 11 years and here's to many more good years to come!

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Starlight Serenade

Sir Hugsalot,

I've only known you for a short time, but your words deeply resonate with the love and gratitude you have for this community. It's truly heartwarming to hear about your journey over the past 11 years. It’s incredible to see how much you’ve grown and found a sense of belonging here. It’s clear that this forum has been more than just a platform for you - it’s been a place of acceptance, growth, and healing. Your story of overcoming the language barrier and embracing your true self here is truly inspiring.

Your story about Silky is incredibly touching. The love and support you’ve found in each other is something truly special and it’s very clear that she’s been a guiding light in your life. . The way you support each other is a beautiful testament to the power of connection even across great distances. I wish you and Silky the very best in your relationship and all the happiness that comes with it. May your bond continue to grow stronger and may you both find endless joy and support in each other.

Thank you for being such an important part of this community and for sharing your heart with us. Your words remind us all of the power of friendship and the importance of being true to ourselves. Here’s to celebrating this milestone and looking forward to many more years of connection and growth.

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Goodnesss! 11 years. Yeah yeah, of COURSE you have to defeat me in competition even in how long you were on the forums. :toldya:
oh! That reminds me…. 
 

Our dynamic was always of friendly competition. >:3 

you know why? Because I actually liked you and had to compete for your attention when everyone else was pestering you for it! 

You were so heavily popular on these forums and it was always this… sincere desire to help and be a friend. That’s it.
 

No ulterior motives. Just a good friend there to help or listen. Do you know how meaningful that is, especially to a girl, online?
 

I remember when edgelords used to even try to break your spirit because you were such a lovely and authentic guy with no ulterior motives. This is when early on I realized how much of a gem you were and still are to people.
 

“hello there! Top of the morning to ya!”

Remember that? I was just being silly. And now it’s a charming quote that made us giggle and connect more. I have so much more to say but would probably require a blog post in and of itself…

We’ve both come a long way. No matter if we’re dealing with our best selves or our worst inner demons.. we’re there for each other and shine a light to keep going in the end with a bright smile.
 

You’re too much of a saint and put up with me during turbulent times.. how could I not return the favor when life swings the pendulum the other way? :coco:

 I barely have any time to hang out with you on the forums because we’re up to so many shenanigans in real life. Which is why it’s so delayed that I reply now.. but I am forever grateful towards these forums and the good people who kept your spirit going when I could not. It allowed me a window to peek into the soul of an otherwise quiet and shy fellow in person. 
 

Oh. And the reason why I returned to keep this a safe place for people who want to preserve and kindle their inner being without feeling hurt, ignored, broken-spirited? You.
 

People always thank me for their help here. But they’ll never understand why they’re actually thanking you <3

So, thank you. For existing and being you.  
 

And thank you to anyone who reads this. Remember that if you ever feel lonely, friendship comes in many forms. Online, in person, or even as a pen pal. And it is absolutely real. <3

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17 hours ago, Rethajni said:

Very nice entry! Happy 11 years Sir! It's been a wild ride on this forum, I did remember talking to you by then, not sure about what but I remember I felt bad about something and we talk and supported me... if only I can find the conversation... but anyways, Im glad you are doing fine! @Ice Princess Silky  Is a dear friend of mine too! And am glad you are taking care of her, I wish you both to have a very good future, hopefully we will be able to talk often, you are a nice guy Sir and whoever who is close to you should feel lucky to meet you!

Thank you so much ;-; It truly has been, so much has happened ever since I joined it and honestly, it's been one of the best decisions I have ever made. 

Hey, if you ever wish to talk I will be more than happy to! I am always happy to support others, honoring through that the support I have received myself ever since I came here :coco:

17 hours ago, Snow said:

Who's chopping onions I'm trying to read something here!

You're a stand up guy and I am thrilled to be reading about the wonderful journey you have been on, again I say congrats on 11 years and here's to many more good years to come!

Oh, sorry, I was craving a nice burger as I was writing that, my bad... :lie:

Thank you so much for your kind words. I am very happy to see people like you on the forums. It really makes all that's being done here worth it and gives every hour I spend here a meaning <3

16 hours ago, Sparklefan1234 said:

HAPPY FORUMVERSARY, @Sir Hugsalot! :eager:

Thank you so much :hug_day:

16 hours ago, Starlight Serenade said:

Sir Hugsalot,

I've only known you for a short time, but your words deeply resonate with the love and gratitude you have for this community. It's truly heartwarming to hear about your journey over the past 11 years. It’s incredible to see how much you’ve grown and found a sense of belonging here. It’s clear that this forum has been more than just a platform for you - it’s been a place of acceptance, growth, and healing. Your story of overcoming the language barrier and embracing your true self here is truly inspiring.

Your story about Silky is incredibly touching. The love and support you’ve found in each other is something truly special and it’s very clear that she’s been a guiding light in your life. . The way you support each other is a beautiful testament to the power of connection even across great distances. I wish you and Silky the very best in your relationship and all the happiness that comes with it. May your bond continue to grow stronger and may you both find endless joy and support in each other.

Thank you for being such an important part of this community and for sharing your heart with us. Your words remind us all of the power of friendship and the importance of being true to ourselves. Here’s to celebrating this milestone and looking forward to many more years of connection and growth.

We were indeed acquainted only for a short time, but people like you can be recognized as exceptional through even the smallest glimpse into what they do. 

I hope many others will be inspired by people like me. The little "secret" is that when we are insecure we feel like others laugh at us or belittle us even when there's no indication to that. The reality is - it's our own thoughts acting like enemies. When I learned that expressing myself became much easier and fun. There are more steps to take, but this is where the journey should begin. 

She truly is. She enhanced my life ever since she became part of it and to see how she also enhanced this community by becoming part of it is a heartwarming experience to me. She's a darling and there are simply no words to express how lucky I feel to be with her. 

16 hours ago, ThatPinkPone said:

Happy 11 years! Hope you continue to enjoy many more!

Thank you so much for well wishes <3 :hug_day:

14 hours ago, Captain Salty Scribbles said:

Oh my my! This summer is endless holiday! My sincere congratulations. :twi:

A summer to remember xD It feels like all the best things happen during this season. Thank you so much <3 

12 hours ago, Ice Princess Silky said:

Goodnesss! 11 years. Yeah yeah, of COURSE you have to defeat me in competition even in how long you were on the forums. :toldya:
oh! That reminds me…. 
 

Our dynamic was always of friendly competition. >:3 

you know why? Because I actually liked you and had to compete for your attention when everyone else was pestering you for it! 

You were so heavily popular on these forums and it was always this… sincere desire to help and be a friend. That’s it.
 

No ulterior motives. Just a good friend there to help or listen. Do you know how meaningful that is, especially to a girl, online?
 

I remember when edgelords used to even try to break your spirit because you were such a lovely and authentic guy with no ulterior motives. This is when early on I realized how much of a gem you were and still are to people.
 

“hello there! Top of the morning to ya!”

Remember that? I was just being silly. And now it’s a charming quote that made us giggle and connect more. I have so much more to say but would probably require a blog post in and of itself…

We’ve both come a long way. No matter if we’re dealing with our best selves or our worst inner demons.. we’re there for each other and shine a light to keep going in the end with a bright smile.
 

You’re too much of a saint and put up with me during turbulent times.. how could I not return the favor when life swings the pendulum the other way? :coco:

 I barely have any time to hang out with you on the forums because we’re up to so many shenanigans in real life. Which is why it’s so delayed that I reply now.. but I am forever grateful towards these forums and the good people who kept your spirit going when I could not. It allowed me a window to peek into the soul of an otherwise quiet and shy fellow in person. 
 

Oh. And the reason why I returned to keep this a safe place for people who want to preserve and kindle their inner being without feeling hurt, ignored, broken-spirited? You.
 

People always thank me for their help here. But they’ll never understand why they’re actually thanking you <3

So, thank you. For existing and being you.  
 

And thank you to anyone who reads this. Remember that if you ever feel lonely, friendship comes in many forms. Online, in person, or even as a pen pal. And it is absolutely real. <3

Silky, where can I possibly begin? I will skip the silliness and competing for now - you always saw in me qualities nobody else would. Thank you for always supporting me and being my absolute best friend before we became a loving couple :(

Certain people will always try to mess with places like MLPF... or people like us, but I won't give them too much attention. Not when we have so many fond memories. Even "top of the morning to ya" which you just mentioned... you forgot that cute giggle you left out when you finished the sentence ;-;

I also wasn't as active as I should be lately due to all the craziness outside the forums, but I am so happy for all the interactions we get here <3 This is where we met and it feels only right to celebrate each other here, my love ;-;

Thank you for existing, for real. You weren't supposed to be real... I love you...

 

9 hours ago, Tacodidra said:

Happy forumversary, my friend! :rarity: Here's to many more! :eager:

Thank you so much <3

7 hours ago, Misty Shadow said:

Hugs for the man of hugs on his forumversary! :PIPPIPHURRAY:

Hug a user! - Page 33 - Forum Games - MLP Forums

Aww, thank you so much *hugs back* : D :hug_day:

 

Thank you all for your comments <3 

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Shiny Silvermoon

I'm trying to find something that is good enough to compare itself to 1% of what you wrote, @Sir Hugsalot. However, I simply can't because I can feel how much emotions and love you've been putting into each sentences. Every words are filled with a long historic of difficult times being disrupted by the new friends you made online and the romantic relationship you created with @Ice Princess Silky . So how could I say something that could match what you wrote? You've been through so much and your life was a challenge. A challenge that you came out victorious from because you're awesome and Silky is lucky to have you! Again, you and Silky are my favorite couple for a reason. :catface:

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Felis Amafeles

Dear Sir Hugsalot
I've known you here for less than a year, but every interaction has been a joy.
I remember asking you for help when unable to do certain things because of government restrictions.
I remember us creating an art piece together about you and Silky.
How amazing it was !
your emotions transformed into waves that travelled at the speed of light across the Atlantic and Eurasia.
You and Silky and I, connected by technology.
You and SIlky's love affair was the most touching and joyful for me compared to all the things that override all human, national, world, wars.
Thank you! :)
Happy 11th anniversary.
And
ΕΥΦΡΟΣΥΝΟΣ
Εnjoy your life
 

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Sophie

Dear @Sir Hugsalot

first of all, happy 11 anniversary on the forums! It would be hard to imagine what the forums would be without you :coco:

When I joined the forums in 2022, we didn’t had much contact to each other (sadly) but as time passed, our silent acknowledgment about each other turned into a solid friendship, and it grew even more when we met each other in RL, giving us a hug and just had an awesome time with @Ice Princess Silky  when we surprise visited you on your birthday! 
 

All the days we spent together showed me how precious you are as a friend and how important you are to each and everyone outside and within the forums. Your calm, logical and friendly character is something that we need more of in this world! You also love Lego and astrology! so that makes it even better! :eager:

I’m more than happy to call you a friend and really hope that we can celebrate your 22 anniversary on the forums as well! 
 

I bow in front of you and raise my cup to cheer for you! For many years to come and for many years our friendship can develop! :hug_day:

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I still hate you and silky for that escape room thing though where I was handcuffed to an toilet with that actor screaming at me :Pip-giggle: 

 

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Treeglow Flicker

Happy 11th forum anniversary, @Sir Hugsalot! :eager:

Over a decade is an impressive long time to be involved in any community!

I had only really gotten started talking to you in the later half of 2023, yet it feels like I've known you longer.

I've always loved how members over the years end up with amazing stories to tell about their time in the community and how it has affected and changed their lives in some way. Be it big or small. Your relationship with @Ice Princess Silky  shows that not only do friendships happen unexpectedly, but also love. How just one momentary encounter with someone can lead to them becoming the most important person in your life. Something that doesn't happen with any great fanfare or announcement. Just BLAM! It's suddenly there in your life and everything is even more amazing than before.

You and @Ice Princess Silky  are good people and deserve all the happiness you can get. And I hope that you and her as both individuals and as a couple remain part of this forum community and our lives for many more years.

Once again. Happy forum anniversary! :kirin:

Also. I only learned that it was your forum anniversary this morning. But it didn't stop me from getting you a cake. I had to borrow it from some foal's birthday party though.

Enjoy! :catface:

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Rikifive

11th birthday? Aren't you too young to be a part of the forums? e-twithonkwoke.png

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11 years... time flies, huh? :darling:

Happy 11th forumversary fellow polish pone! :mlp_yeehaa:

It's so nice this forum (and a particular pony on it) had such a nice impact on your life. :fluttershy:

Since it's your 11th forumversary, I advise to eat 11 pierogów to celebrate, and get ready to eat 12 the next year! :D (no worries, no wątróbka allowed in the party)

 

On 2024-08-31 at 9:33 AM, Samurai Equine said:

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I agree, this rectangle sums it all up, more than a thousand words would. :proud:

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23 hours ago, Rikifive said:

 

On 2024-08-31 at 9:33 AM, Samurai Equine said:

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I agree, this rectangle sums it all up, more than a thousand words would. :proud:

kek on phone I normally see the emoji, but on PC...

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On 2024-09-08 at 6:28 PM, Rikifive said:

I agree, this rectangle sums it all up, more than a thousand words would. :proud:

 

2 hours ago, Rikifive said:

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Geometric shapes have always been the perfect compliment. B)

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