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A short Hiatus.


ghostfacekiller39

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I've thought about this for a while now, and I decided to take a short break from using these forums, and I thought I'd bring attention to this fact, so it won't feel as if I'm abandoning anyone.

 

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By no means am I saying "I'm leaving the site and I'm never coming back."

 

I just need a short break; a week, tops.

 

I just got pushed over the edge tonight, when I couldn't even go to a contest meant solely for fun and just get hatred of my best pony spewed on me.

 

That pushed me over; I'd be lying if I didn't say the hate hurt me a little every time I saw it, but I usually only saw it over when it was at least somewhat relatable to the topic at hand, or serious topics where I was aware of what I was getting myself into. I'd just swallow it down and fight the good fight to the best of my abilities, and try to remain calm, professional, and understanding, even though my heart sunk a little deeper with each hateful thing said about my best pony.

 

But it just has gone too far when I go to the MLPF World Cup, something meant to be fun for the members of this site, and have to deal with it. It's one thing over in Show Discussion topics that are for serious analysis of the show itself; it's something else when it starts becoming prevalent in the leisurely, more lighthearted and positive parts of the site.

 

Now, I have a heart condition that has cut my lifespan nearly in half as is, and causes me great physical pain each day; it's been getting a bit too upsetting for not just me, but my heart to deal with it as well. I'm slowly starting to feel the ill effects of what landed me in the hospital a couple of weeks back, albeit, much at a much slower pace, and not as powerful.

 

I think it'd be best for myself and my health if I were to take a brief hiatus from using this site; I'd say anywhere between 3 - 7 days is how Iong I'll be gone. I love these forums too much to just outright leave; I've met so many amazing people here. I mean it when I'd say I'd rather spend time with you guys than the friends I have in real life, and if you don't believe me, just know I'm on my computer, chatting it up with at least someone from here, every single second of free time I have. This place has made such a positive impact on my life, and it will continue to do so; I'm just worried the negativity and tension around here as of late has been affecting my health, and I feel a short hiatus is in order.

 

I'll still be available over Skype, and my username (ghostfacekiller39) and avatar match up with my username and avvie on here.

 

Anyone feel free to add me, and I'll be willing to talk as much as I can, and I'll always listen :D

 

I just need a short break, that's all.

 

See you in a few.

 

~ghostfacekiller39

 

 

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Your well-being should be the priority. If it makes you feel better to take a break, then by all means, take a break. We'll welcome you back with open arms. Good luck, and happy new year! :)

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I hope you feel better soon, man. I'm sorry to hear you're going through these difficulties. 

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A well-deserved break would come in handy, so just try to relax and enjoy yourself. Feel better soon, Ghost. 

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You will be sorely missed, even if it is only for a week or so.. But I agree, your health and well being is more important, so take as long as you need.

and on a side note, whilst Rarity isn't one of my favorites, I don't hate her, I just don't like her behavior sometimes..

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Do whatever it is you need to do, we will be here waiting for you when you get back. The recent Applejack hate topics have certainly given me a taste of what it feels like to be a Rarity fan and while I can understand why someone might prefer Cherilee but it just seems incredibly unnecessary to focus so overwhelmingly on another ponies perceived negatives.

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Those posts in the World Cup thread weren't hating Rarity. They were critical. They were criticisms of Rarity. One of the posts was very sharp criticism of Rarity, but criticism, nonetheless. Some of it was justified, some not.

 

And honestly, this is one of your biggest problems. You have a very hard time actually determining what's criticizing Rarity and what's hating Rarity. I've seen it in the "World Cup" thread as well as the one where people asked why some bronies like Dash and not Rarity. You spamming the "defense" of Rarity's element isn't helpful. In fact, as a Rarity fan myself, it's hurting your opinion and making you look ill-informed.

 

Now, I've followed your news about your heart problem, and I'm sorry to see you in physical pain.

 

However, seeing as you're back, you do need to think about a few things:

 

1. Make sure your heart is well enough before you sign in. If you feel too stressed, leave the topic, sign out, and close the tabs related to the forums until you feel better.

 

2. Learn the difference between people criticizing Rarity and people hating Rarity. Just because they're critical of Rarity doesn't mean they hate her. You've blindly put the two together, and that won't help you.

 

3. Quit spamming your "defense" list of Rarity and her element. They clog up the threads and make your opinion look very weak. Instead of solving the problem, you're becoming part of the problem.

 

4. You're at the point where you feel like you have to defend her all the time and equating criticism of Rarity to hatred of Rarity. By doing so, you don't show that you like Rarity anymore. Instead, you glorify Rarity, and that's just as bad as rabidly hating one. Learn that the characters, including Rarity, are sometimes not written that well all the time, sometimes to the point of being irritable and unlikeable. Your character isn't absolved from criticisms of any kind, including from your fellow pro-Rarity bronies.

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