general Do most fathers hate the idea of their daughter being in a romantic relationship with someone?

[AlicornSpell 146]

19 hours ago, Kujamih said:

take it as experience and learn from them to avoid doing the same mistakes they did.

Wouldn't avoiding dating, marriage, and romantic relationships all together be the best choice for avoiding those mistakes? There are a lot of dangers and risks when to comes to romantic relationships, so avoiding them and being single your whole life seems like the best choice.

Edited January 17, 2022 by AlicornSpell

[Evil Pink One 13,507]

hey if that's you choice I ain't stopping you.

what I learned is don't rush on it. hence me still not married at age 31....

[TBD 17,254]

I'm not a dad myself so I can't say much about this but I do understand where they're coming from. Not sure if this counts the same with mothers too and with their sons but in both pov of the parents, parents only knows what's best for their own kids. I would've done the same, although not so obsessive. Idk how to explain this but whenever my little sisters and my  little brothers are seeing a special somebody,  my radar "Are they worthy to date my siblings" turns on. I can say the same for my mom too as she's very strict. My dad on the other hand, is not like any typical dad at all. He doesn't really care who they're dating as long they're not getting hurt or into troubles. But even so, that led him being blind sometime.. It also comes to feeling that they will take away your siblings away from you- leaving you feeling alone. So I can say the same for the parents here. While I understand the birds gonna leave their nest sometime, but in my own prospective as a older brother, I only want what's best for my siblings. That means the person they're dating has to be good and caring as my parents. It doesn't have to the same level as my parents but at least somewhere close to it. I won't accept any who*e or dicks to be dating my brothers and sisters. It need to be someone who I can see them as my Brother/Sister-in-law and worthy to be Son/Daughter- in- Law to my parents. My parents would've say the same thing.

Overall, yes I do have a high expectations and protective over who my siblings are seeing- because it's for their best interests and for the rest of the family.