Ocean Aura

I do not see why people are saying you shouldn't I think if you are it is a good idea to tell them? Also sorry you feel torn just remember you are you and that is all that matters. 

ask yourself seriously. what do you want to do?

not others. not friends or relatives. just ask yourself.

you will be gay no matter what. nothing can change that.

but if you think that you can pretend that you not for the rest of your life and maybe even create a family with a woman... without love. because you will still be gay.

ask yourself what exactly do you want to do with your life.

you're talking like a person who is still undecided and not sure about himself. if your family somehow stands between you and who you're dating - then you should tell them, that you are gay and you can't be in relationship with a woman.

another thing, that it's very-very hard thing to do.

but you'll have to do it sooner or later... if you don't want to pretend to be someone you're not...

Well said, @Ethan Tran.