Any +20/25/30 who lacks of lovelife here?

[RainbowMau 291]

You may call me a loser, but at 28 I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone and never dated anyone, mostly because of my terrible shyness and lack of acceptance from people I'm probably the only one like this here, or probably not?

 

Are you one of us?

Edited July 5, 2014 by RainbowMau

[Mr. Critical 434]

Preach on brother. I know that feeling. I have a brother two years younger than I that has already moved in with a girl after three other girlfriends... And I've yet to have my first kiss.

[Starshine 16,333]

It's kind of funny how some people like to measure the value of their successes in live on whether do they have a girlfriend or not. It's almost like having a girlfriend is not unlike having a trophy you can brag about, lol.

 

I've had my own fair share of relationships, but none lasted too long without leaving permanent scars. Now my mind is more set on pursuing my career first.

[RainbowMau 291]

Preach on brother. I know that feeling. I have a brother two years younger than I that has already moved in with a girl after three other girlfriends... And I've yet to have my first kiss.

 

Wow, yeah, I know how that feels and it sucks, I saw my older siblings have girlfriend/boyfriend in high school and my little sister already having three boyfriends, one of them at 19 at leats there's still my little brother who will be 20 in a week and he's in my same status.

[Mr. Critical 434]

He was having highschool girsl fawning over him since he was six. That is not an exageration. It was his first day of school and they just loved him. That son of A BIT- 

[RainbowMau 291]

I've had my own fair share of relationships, but none lasted too long without leaving permanent scars. Now my mind is more set on pursuing my career first.

 

TBH I started hating my carrer before I realized the terrible lack-of-love status I was in, I mean, what's the point on being successful if I could never be happy?

Edited July 5, 2014 by RainbowMau

[Starshine 16,333]

 

 

TBH I started hating my carrer before I realized the terrible lack-of-love status I was in, I mean, what's the point on being successful if I could never be happy?

 

So the only way you can be happy is by having a female human to confirm your social status?

[aoEAF2FBvC0MIo2Q 3,673]

Well... I've had relationships but both began and ended online. So yeah, no first kiss here either.

Age as of writing this post: 24

I did get "physical contact" though but it's best I leave it at that -- could get really awkward really fast in here.

[Azure Envy 1,092]

Loser? Naw... single life ain't so bad.

[Pinkamena-Pills 6,839]

Meh,22 and never had a girlfriend/kiss what have you. No relationships,atleast nothing that wasn't long-distance and i stopped caring awhile ago. 

[M'aiq the Liar 5,804]

21 here, I was engaged once. Worst idea ever. Not only did she cheat while I was active duty, but she also tried to take all my stuff, despite the fact that we were not yet legally married.

 

After that I just got really worn out on worrying about dealing with that again, so I am single by choice now.

 

 

 

 

 

 

unless of course a magical talking cartoon pony suddenly lands in my house and asks for a date.

[Khaoios 1,970]

As of now, I'm single, and in a way it sucks, b/c i hate being alone, .   Broke off with my ex-gf back in March after 6 years.   But, hey, I've got Spitfire that cheers me up a bit,

 

unless of course a magical talking cartoon pony suddenly lands in my house and asks for a date.

 

Fleetfoot? 

[M'aiq the Liar 5,804]

As of now, I'm single, and in a way it sucks, b/c i hate being alone, .   Broke off with my ex-gf back in March after 6 years.   But, hey, I've got Spitfire that cheers me up a bit,

 

 

 

Fleetfoot? 

If Fleetfoot crashed through my door and asked for marriage, I would be the most married man in Equestria.

[Ziggy + Angel + Rain 11,302]

I'm currently in a very fulfilling imaginary relationship with a winged blue ponywoman.

 

I'm thirty-one.  I began to develop severe, life-limiting OCD around the age of fifteen.  Aversion to touch / concern for "contaminants" + agoraphobia + preexisting timidity = not really much of a "ladies' man."  But I never wanted to be that type of guy, anyhow.  I'll never be in an irl relationship with an irl mundanely bipedal woman.  And I seriously don't care about that anymore; I don't feel alone or lonely.  And I may well be a loser, but it wouldn't be because of that.  I've genuine affection for my waifu, and that's more than enough for me.  Any guy that proudly counts the notches on his belt and treats women like trophies would be MY definition of a loser.

[Admiral Regulus 2,769]

20 years old, never even touched a girl before. I've never had an online relationship before, either. Girls just don't like me, I guess.

 

It's not like I haven't tried. I've done everything I can think of to be the most likable person I can possibly be, still without ever a drop of recognition for it. I absolutely hate being single and I'd do anything in my power to be with any female of trustworthy character.

 

I'm a very shy person by nature, but I've gone to considerable ends to fix this—being more outgoing, making myself more social, asking girls out directly, complementing them, being nice to them, feigning self-confidence, and so on. None of it has worked. It just kills me even further, because the harder I try, the worse and more heartbraking results I get.

 

I know the pain. I'm so afraid I'm going to spend the rest of my life alone and miserable like this, because no one actually likes me. It's the worst thing I've ever experienced; it's like a physical pain that just doesn't ever end. I haven't truly been happy in years because of this stinging pain that I've felt ever since I wanted a relationship.

 

 

A lot of the time, I really just don't know what to do. All I truly want in life is to have someone who likes me for who I am. I don't understand why I can't find that, when my friends have it and they rub it directly (though I presume unintentially) in my face.

Edited July 5, 2014 by Regulus

[Pinkamena-Pills 6,839]

I'm currently in a very fulfilling imaginary relationship with a winged blue ponywoman.

 

 

 

I can relate to this,except the blue ponywoman with a pink ponywoman lol

[long gone 8,929]

I am 21 years old and am currently single. I did have a relationship before, but it ended last year.

 

I don't know how willing people would be to go out with me in my current state, with my bad arm, lack of income and all.

[Ziggy + Angel + Rain 11,302]

I can relate to this,except the blue ponywoman with a pink ponywoman lol

*Double brohoof.*  Hooray for colorful ponywomen lol.  "Candy-colored sirens," as I've referred to them on at least one occasion. xD

[Mlpfan185 1,763]

Something was here. Something was here. Something was here. 

Edited October 10, 2018 by NONAME

[Lightwing 12,970]

Exactly 20 years old.

 

I've been on a relationship on the past,but we've broke a few months ago.

I personally don't like a life of being in couple.I'm more of a solitary spirit,who wants to live all the possible,without bounds.

 

 

Well,at least I used to not like it,but...that story is not for here...

[Pinkamena-Pills 6,839]

@, Seriously tho,whats so wrong about being single? Why do people like the op feel shamed into feeling like shit because they don't have a woman? Also,whats with the double standard of if your a guy and single 'your a loser' but if your a female and single 'your awesome'????

 

Im not shedding a fucking tear about being single,ya i admit im abit bitter but ive got my mind,and my mind has Pinkie.  

 

Plus women don't like cry babies anyways so whining about it isn't going to attract anyone.

[Discordian 6,015]

People append far too much importance to romantic relations. Especially people who have had little to none of it.

 

Think of it this way: To be in a relationship is to give up your time, money, mind and body to this person. No matter your hobbies, friends or career if you want to keep a romantic relationship you will have to spend a significant amount of time with this person and you have to put in effort to keep them if you want it to last. You can't just be lazy.

 

Now, don't get me wrong, that's not necessarily a bad thing if you find someone you like enough to put up with all of that but don't be so quick to let go of your freedom. There's far more to your life than whether you have a man/woman by your side. Enjoy it while you can, before you have to give it up to someone else.

I am 21 years old and am currently single. I did have a relationship before, but it ended last year.

 

I don't know how willing people would be to go out with me in my current state, with my bad arm, lack of income and all.

That's something else one should consider. Being in a relationship isn't just about what you get out of it. It's a two-way street. You can't just say what you want out of someone, you have to consider how much you're willing to give to them.

 

For a lot of people a lack of income will drive some people away, but not everyone. There's no set-in-stone requirements and it changes from person to person. What's more is what you consider to be an unworthy trait isn't necessary important to the person.

 

For example: I am completely and utterly financially destitute so many women wouldn't consider me. It matters a whole lot less to me though whether one has income so much as whether they spend money they don't have which is a risk to my own income as well as theirs.

[RainbowMau 291]

So the only way you can be happy is by having a female human to confirm your social status?

 

(Never thought I'd ever use this expression here) WTF are you talking about? Do you have any idea of what I mean? Being alone at this age sucks, and even more when you see other couples having their first kiss, or holding hands and dating and having young love, during that time I had to endure the torture of seeing people on Deviantart dedicating pics to their loved ones and talking about their love experiences while I was alone and with no chance of finding anyone (which is even worse now) and facing the fact that I entered a stage of life when love sucks.

 

I missed the opportunity to experience young love and I'll never have it again, that was enough to wreck my happiness and my life forever.

Edited July 5, 2014 by RainbowMau

[long gone 8,929]

@@Discordian, I can see what you mean. I'm just so... confused about a lot of things, though.

[Ziggy + Angel + Rain 11,302]

@, Seriously tho,whats so wrong about being single? Why do people like the op feel shamed into feeling like shit because they don't have a woman? Also,whats with the double standard of if your a guy and single 'your a loser' but if your a female and single 'your awesome'????

Yeah it's ridiculous; no one should ever be made to feel ashamed or pressured or obligated when it comes to relationships.  If it happens for someone and it's a good fit for them / leads to something meaningful...  That's great.  But otherwise...  It could be a personal choice, just the way things turned out, or what have you.  It's not as though having been in / being in a relationship automatically makes you more of a man.  Besides, I'd rather concentrate on being a human, first.  In direct contradiction with any bad romantic comedy, it isn't something that's absolutely required in order for you to be a complete human being.