If your dad died, what things make you happier about this?

[TBD 17,254]

Well my dad is still alive but I had a grandma who recently passed away. She was the first family relative I know who passed away and that scares me. My other grandparents passed away but I wasn't born yet. Without going to details...I would often try to avoid the truth that she will die eventually. I'd get this mixed feelings that I don't want to hang out with her thinking to myself she will never go and I still got some time. While at the same time the feeling I need to spent every moments with her before she dies. So it's like going back and forth with realizing the truth and self-denial. 

it happened eventually without a warning. My only regret is taking life for granted. I never got a chance to say good bye and that's the consequences I don't mind accepting. I don't have the answer nor the thing to make me feel better...but what I had learn is life is short and I should appreciate it more. Sure I'll hate life sometime still but this lesson will always reappear to me.

[TheRockARooster 51,700]

What the hell is this kind of question?

[Clawdeen 14,791]

That’s kind of a messed up question.I wouldn’t be happy at all if my dad died.

[ExplosionMare 18,065]

15 hours ago, Clawdeen said:

That’s kind of a messed up question.I wouldn’t be happy at all if my dad died.

Me either. I really love my dad.

[Splashee 28,564]

I don't wish any harm to my dad, but I don't see him anyways. Doesn't make any difference to my life

[DubWolf 17,266]

I see what the intent of the question is. It’s just not worded very well .

What made it “happy” to begin with?

[Lonstecation 531]

Fun fact: My dad died just a few days ago! I am serious! And the only things that make me happy at this point are cartoons, video games, and MLP.

[Bronymian Rhapsody 7]

I assume I'm being told of my dad's death via letter. I never knew my dad, not his face or name. So a letter would probably give me those two factors and I could finally learn who the guy was. So, without a real connection to him and answers to questions finally given, yeah, that'd make me happy.

Edited August 5, 2022 by Bronymian Rhapsody

[J.J 923]

1 hour ago, LCpony417 said:

Fun fact: My dad died just a few days ago! I am serious! And the only things that make me happy at this point are cartoons, video games, and MLP.

I'm greatly sorry to hear about your father.. R.I.P, I know I would be severely depressed if either of my parents died, they are basically the only real friends I have IRL, and they participate in my life and keep in contact with me regularly.. I'm at their house right now .. as I am half of the time, sometimes my dad can be cynical, picky, impatient, downright rude, and he likes to mess with ppl but he's a good guy at heart, you can tell by how involved he has been with his animals, he just isn't always the most compassionate or have the best advice, but ultimately I love playing cards, hanging out watching TV, and even sometimes catching a "good buzz" together, he isn't a super social dude, I'm sure there's a lot of ppl in this world that think very lowly of him, he has a criminal past lol, but he's a way different dude, he's no worse than anyone else I've met, surprisingly with all his faults and even some of our past, I'd go as far to say he's better than most ppl I know, he's just honest, and ppl don't like that in 2022 lol, ppl don't want the kind of honesty we give lol

 

 

 

[Cherrychip 113]

Idk why people are saying "why would you ask this question" because the first post sums it up pretty well, FirePuppy was obviously distraught and needed some advice. Kinda rude tbh.

Anyways- I don't think any personal advice really helps, but you can learn to live for the ones you lost. Live in spite of death, spit in it's face, and live life to it's fullest despite everything you've been through. You got this 

Edited August 5, 2022 by Cherrychip

[Old Accnt. 3,149]

if my dad would die right now it would ruin me