mega thread How are you feeling?

[Starlight Serenade 3,054]

10 hours ago, Interstellar Sketch said:

Bad. Very very bad. Today, my mother and I went to the laundromat to, of course, do laundry. She needed help this time because of her recent partial hysterectomy. I didn't mind helping her. What really broke me was her constant yelling at everything I did. I started to move slower because I wanted to make sure I did things right. She yelled at me for moving too slowly and called me a snail. I started rushing because I was scared she would yell at me even more. I'm trying not to cry right now but it's so hard to keep from falling apart. I'm not trying to be a bad daughter, so I'll try not to cry. I help all of the time. I'm always respectful and kind. What did I do wrong?

It's so hard to think positively with the incessant yelling at me. Everything I do is wrong. I'm sure if she saw me crying, she'd say, "stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about." I just want to go back to school. I want summer break to be over already. Yes, I understand that she's been through surgery due to fibroids. I just wish she'd stop getting so mad at me for small things. Obviously, I always forgive her when she apologizes. Now, I just feel like she's apologizing just to do so. No, she didn't apologize this time. I don't know, maybe I'm just overly sensitive. Whoever the user is reading this might be thinking this is no reason to get upset. You're probably right.

I’m really sorry you had to go through that. I dealt with a similar situation last year with both of my parents being hospitalized. It’s understandable that you’re feeling overwhelmed and hurt by your mother’s reaction, especially when you’re just trying to help and be supportive. You’re doing your best, and it’s not easy to deal with constant criticism when you’re already putting so much effort into helping out.

It's okay to feel upset and to cry—it doesn’t make you a bad daughter or mean that you’re being overly sensitive. Everyone has limits, and it's important to acknowledge your feelings and take care of your own well-being. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to find moments to care for yourself, even when things are difficult at home.

Your mother’s behavior might be influenced by her stress and pain from her surgery, but that doesn’t excuse the hurtful way she’s treating you. You’re showing great strength and empathy by continuing to support her despite the challenging circumstances. Remember that your needs and feelings are important too, and it’s okay to seek support or take a step back when you need to.

If it feels safe and possible, perhaps you could gently express how her words and actions are affecting you. Sometimes, having an open and honest conversation, even in the midst of difficulty, can help both of you understand each other better.

Please be kind to yourself and remember that it’s okay to seek support from friends, counselors, or anyone you trust if you need it. You’re doing a lot, and your feelings matter.

[Dreambiscuit 9,623]

4 hours ago, ZiggWheelsManning said:

3 and a half years ago, I also had a kidney stone.  Going to the restroom was impossible until IV and medication got to treating it.  Hopes that you have better days @Dreambiscuit  

Don’t worry about me, Zigg. I’ve had many kidney stones and the first few were the really bad ones. Those, like the one you mentioned, are the worst because the body wasn’t acclimated to them yet. No kidney stone is fun, but they do get easier to handle over time in many cases. Right now I feel fine.

13 hours ago, Interstellar Sketch said:

Bad. Very very bad. Today, my mother and I went to the laundromat to, of course, do laundry. She needed help this time because of her recent partial hysterectomy. I didn't mind helping her. What really broke me was her constant yelling at everything I did. I started to move slower because I wanted to make sure I did things right. She yelled at me for moving too slowly and called me a snail. I started rushing because I was scared she would yell at me even more. I'm trying not to cry right now but it's so hard to keep from falling apart. I'm not trying to be a bad daughter, so I'll try not to cry. I help all of the time. I'm always respectful and kind. What did I do wrong?

It's so hard to think positively with the incessant yelling at me. Everything I do is wrong. I'm sure if she saw me crying, she'd say, "stop crying or I'll give you something to cry about." I just want to go back to school. I want summer break to be over already. Yes, I understand that she's been through surgery due to fibroids. I just wish she'd stop getting so mad at me for small things. Obviously, I always forgive her when she apologizes. Now, I just feel like she's apologizing just to do so. No, she didn't apologize this time. I don't know, maybe I'm just overly sensitive. Whoever the user is reading this might be thinking this is no reason to get upset. You're probably right.

I am so sorry for your pain @Interstellar Sketch. People who are undergoing medical procedures have a lot to deal with but it’s not a legitimate excuse to be mean unless they’re in so much pain they have no control over their faculties, which doesn’t sound like the case here. Okay, so we can forgive this because it’s important to forgive always, and I’m glad you have such a forgiving and understanding nature. That’s your great strength and you should always practice it. But that doesn’t make your pain any less acute and I’m truly sorry for this. As @Starlight Serenade said, it’s good to seek support from others if you can. What you’re doing is the stuff that saints are made of; facing adversity with love and compassion even when it’s painful for you. And while the difficulty will pass, the rewards will stay with you forever. Think of us as being there with you when things get rough, because we truly are in spirit. 

[Rare Crypty 4,762]

I'm feeling tired and unsatisfied.

Tired after several hours of driving.

Unsatisfied cuz wanted to draw today but left my sketchbook home. I bought new in local store, but feel too tired to do anything with it. Seems I just need a rest to fix everything.

[ZiggWheelsManning 9,972]

Feeling half tired from lack of sleep, not sure if a movie can be in the plans  

[Blueberry_Charm 7]

Im not sure, 2024 been wild, plus I'm becoming a highschool freshmen, big year!

[Rare Crypty 4,762]

I'm feeling emotionally drained. Sometimes I invest too much emotions into things and have to pay back then. Now it's time to slow down and enjoy the boring things for a while. I'll start with a cup of simple green tea without additional flavors. ^•^

[Starlight Serenade 3,054]

Tired. Woke up hours ago after hearing loud noises outside. I could not go back to sleep for the past few hours.
 

I have to do cardio in about 2 hours at 5am. Going to aim for a nap right now.

I wish everyone else well today! Today is going to be something. 

[Ice Princess Silky <3 13,526]

5 minutes ago, Starlight Serenade said:

Tired. Woke up hours ago after hearing loud noises outside. I could not go back to sleep for the past few hours.
 

I have to do cardio in about 2 hours at 5am. Going to aim for a nap right now.

I wish everyone else well today! Today is going to be something. 

omg you ALSO go to the gym at 5am?! @Sir Hugsalotand I like that it's much more calmer and there's less people around that time. Plus, driving when there to see the sun rising is such a beautiful and unique experience. 

I hope you have a lovely day, as well. I'm feeling very reflective today.

[ComanderZhabikKlavik 2,847]

Tired, I went to bed early yesterday at 9am, but I managed to fall asleep around 12pm. Then I woke up and couldn't fall asleep for another hour. Today I decided to sleep in another room. Even though I'm tired I'm glad I saw some meteors from the Perseid meteor shower. I see a lot of people here have trouble sleeping. 

[Starlight Serenade 3,054]

16 hours ago, Ice Princess Silky said:

omg you ALSO go to the gym at 5am?! @Sir Hugsalotand I like that it's much more calmer and there's less people around that time. Plus, driving when there to see the sun rising is such a beautiful and unique experience. 

I hope you have a lovely day, as well. I'm feeling very reflective today.

That sounds like a wonderful experience to share. My gym gets packed during the day and I like to go early as it's much more calmer too. Over here, I start my day in the darkness, and by the time I leave the gym, the sun is already up.

I managed to complete over 4 miles of cardio in an hour. It's been a while since I’ve done that, as I haven’t focused on cardio recently. Despite getting only a bit of sleep last night, it felt great to push myself again. I hope you had a good day!

Edited August 8 by Starlight Serenade
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[Rare Crypty 4,762]

I'm feeling awesome.

Had time to draw today. Experimented with styles and started a composition for the next painting. The next one should be challenging for my level, with many scenery details.

Plus one more road trip is in progress. Yay!

Edited August 8 by Crypty Scribbles

[Ice Princess Silky <3 13,526]

I am feeling so blessed to be greeted by every passing day. 

[Tropical Melody 6,055]

Had a long sleep, didn't get up until 11 am, so obviously needed it. 9 pm last night couldn't keep my eyes open.

 

[Igloostellar Snow 1,318]

Well, uh..I just spilled mouthwash all over my pants and the floor..I wouldn't say that's the best way to start the day, but I'm still doing fine.

[Finding_Marty 785]

On the first day back from my short vacation I got sick.

Now I have to work accompanied by coughing and sneezing, which does not help the enormity of the backlog of work 

[ComanderZhabikKlavik 2,847]

Today and yesterday I slept well, so at the moment I feel pretty good. In the middle of the day I felt sad, but then I did a workout and then I broke a few steel nails with my hands and I felt better.

[Rafa Stary 2,894]

@ZiggWheelsManning don't worry, I'm doing fine, just went through some crazy clean up XD, have you already got your new toilet? 

[ZiggWheelsManning 9,972]

@Rafa Stary

Does it have to do with local flooding or something else?  Sadly, no new toilet  

[Igloostellar Snow 1,318]

I don't know how I'm feeling but I'm exhausted. I wokeupfeelingextremelytired.

[ZiggWheelsManning 9,972]

The night is just about to wind down, better feel for bedtime right now.  

[Arrlong28 766]

I feel sad. I miss my dog. It's 40 °C/ 100 °F outside so I don't want to do anything.

[Finding_Marty 785]

3 minutes ago, Arrlong28 said:

I feel sad. I miss my dog. It's 40 °C/ 100 °F outside so I don't want to do anything.

Aww what happened to your dog? Is it something recent?

[Arrlong28 766]

6 minutes ago, Finding_Marty said:

Aww what happened to your dog? Is it something recent?

Nah, she died in 2018. Lived 13 years and died from a cancer. I'm still alive thanks to her. I have her ashes in a graveyard for pets but it's so far away I cannot go to visit her tomb. Thanks for asking. 

Sometimes I dream she visits me in my dreams, but those dreams ALWAYS end she returning to someplace she belongs now. 

Edited August 11 by Arrlong28
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[Finding_Marty 785]

25 minutes ago, Arrlong28 said:

Nah, she died in 2018. Lived 13 years and died from a cancer. I'm still alive thanks to her. I have her ashes in a graveyard for pets but it's so far away I cannot go to visit her tomb. Thanks for asking. 

Sometimes I dream she visits me in my dreams, but those dreams ALWAYS end she returning to someplace she belongs now. 

I feel you. I've had many animals and I miss every each of them. Every time I lose one I promise myself there will be no more. But this will never be true. I like to think that as long as we remember about them, they are never truly gone. It is naive, but as long as it helps me, it doesn't really matter. Stay strong 

[Sparklefan1234 169,802]

I'm feeling great because I had a nice conversation with my Bestie, @Ice Princess Silky .😊