Count to a million

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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Hey Derpy. *Hugs*

[The Derpy Hooves 615]

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[Kawaii Besu 28,011]

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[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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Cute.

[Kawaii Besu 28,011]

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Naight

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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Goodnight Filly!

[The Derpy Hooves 615]

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MY LIFE IS FREAKING COMPLETE

http://arcade.equestriagaming.com/2012/07/derpy-buddy.html

[Raritas 6,820]

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[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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[Overdrive 5,366]

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Guys, I need some advice.

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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What's up Smash?

[Overdrive 5,366]

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I lost another family member the other day, a little baby boy, not even 18 months old. Keep in mind I've lost a lot of loved ones during my lifetime, and I can't bear the thought of having to see another one get put in the ground. Is it wrong of me to refuse to go to the funeral?

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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I don't think it's wrong. If you're uncomfortable and feel like you need to stay away from the funeral, that's how you feel. People deal with grief differently. You should do what's best for you.

[Overdrive 5,366]

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I mean, I know family's important, and I know it would mean a lot if I went, but the way I grieve is I detach myself from the situation emotionally and come to terms with it on my own time. I did it with my dad (didn't go to that funeral), I did it with one of my best friends (I went to that funeral, but not for myself, for my family), and how I want to handle this one, but my mother thinks that's not appropriate.

[The Derpy Hooves 615]

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this will cheer you up!

 

                 

http://de-mote.deviantart.com/art/Muffin-Dance-with-Mini-Muffins-74438762

Edited November 2, 2015 by The Derpy Hooves

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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If it helps you it helps you. Other people may think it's inappropriate, but that doesn't mean you have to go. People in general seem to have problems with others processing things differently. They're your family, be there for them if you can, but don't force yourself into situations that are upsetting if they aren't going to help you.

[Overdrive 5,366]

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The issue I'm having is basically that I have to go. I was basically told either I go, or get out of the house.

[The Derpy Hooves 615]

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i know that feeling....

i lost my mom...

but we are keeping up! 

also i went to the funeral...

dunno why, i didn't really wanted to be honest...

don't worry we are here with you!

Edited November 2, 2015 by The Derpy Hooves

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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Oh, that's a problem then. Have you explained to your mother exactly why you don't want to go?

 

 I can't really advise you much on this then. Do what you feel you have to do.

[Overdrive 5,366]

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I did. The issue I have with my mother is it's her way or the highway. She only takes what she wants as an acceptable answer, and it annoys the hell out of me. I explained to her why, and she still wouldn't have any of it. I don't think I'm doing anything wrong by not going to this funeral. Death and funerals and all of that is, and has always been, a very touchy subject for me.

[The Derpy Hooves 615]

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my mom was like that too 

 

i miss her more now   

 

Edited November 2, 2015 by The Derpy Hooves

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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Ah, that sounds frustrating. Maybe ask Life Advice? Someone there might have a more helpful answer.

 

 Either way, good luck. Sorry I can't help.

[The Derpy Hooves 615]

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nah i don't need i'm... fine...

i just don't want to think about it anymore...

[Overdrive 5,366]

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I dunno. I'm going to call a good friend later and get his input on it.

[BastementSparkle 20,328]

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Alright.