TheRockARooster

I guess don't force yourself to be good?

In the words of a few wiccans, "Do no harm but take no shit"  Personally, I think the world needs to be a kinder place and we need to care more for each other.  At the same time, however, there're people who don't care about anyone else besides their own selfish wants.  I think kindness and knowing when to set your boundaries comes with practice.  Sometimes you just need to tell people to back off, other times you need to keep people close because they make you happy or they need help themselves.  Also, as we spoken of before, you need to know when to pick your battles.  Sometimes it's best to simply drop things and other times it's worth the fight but again that's something that comes with practice and experiencing different situations.  

I think the only time someone can be too nice is when they roll over and let people walk all over them even if they themselves are hurt from it.  There's a point to when being "too nice" can actually be toxic for yourself and those around you.  Don't be afraid to set boundaries with people, sometimes a little awkwardness is necessary for a healthy relationship with someone, no matter what sort of relationship it is.  Communication is key.

I think you are doing fine!