What do you look for in a Girl/Boy Friend <3

[Fluttershyfan94 5,749]

In my experience, only loyalty actually matters at the end of the day. 

[BlankFlank777 201]

I don't look for anything, but if a time comes when I'd wanna be open to pursuing a relationship with someone, all that would really matter is that they share my core values.

[Sunamena 426]

@BlankFlank777**cuddles**


The important part is that I get this feeling that they genuinely like me, and want to  build a future with me.
They will also need to be capable of making important decisions and stuff or atleast help me with them. Well, thats only a good bonus though.
And cuddles.
And liking ponies is like always been a must for me >-<
Not that I actively look for that, but I kinda mostly dated fans of My Little Pony.

But maybe that is because your awesome.

[DubWolf 20,029]

Someone who's like me; very understanding and non-judgmental, doesn't like to start crap, tries to see the good in everyone before making enemies, can have fun doing just about anything. Also playful or has a sense of humor, even bad jokes, eheheh. That sort of chemistry is hard to find for me. One can only really find about by talking enough. They're also always either nonexistent or with someone already. It's called Wolf's Law.

Edited May 4, 2020 by WWolf

[Early Sunsets 2,112]

A pulse, usually.

Joking aside, while I've completely given up in that department, the number one thing I used to look for was loyalty. I have no patience for people who like to sleep around. If you don't want to be loyal, then don't start a relationship, genius. Or join a polyamorous relationship or something.

[Vefka 1,504]

First of all she should be loyal, accept and understand me, no relationship can go without that.

I'd like a nerd girl who keeps up with internet culture, likes anime, cartoons, etc, likes games (not necessary plays like a nerd tho, just be able to carry conversation about games and such stuff)

[Old Accnt. 3,150]

I honestly don't know

I never looked for somebody i have a hard time imagining myself in a relationship I only had like 3 crushes in my life that's it

[J.J 930]

Loyalty is the literal only must... everything else can be overcome, adversity is a part of relationships, but doing it to yourselves is your own problem, literally... if you can't stay faithful, leave the person you are with, quit treating them like unwanted luggage you can't actually get rid of bc of the circumstances you have tied yourself to... don't get in relationships if you don't intend on taking them seriously and if you think having multiple people in your sex life needs to be or is an actual priority... Relationships about commitment that's the point, in creating a label and then tagging the person with "my" label professing to the world your "ownership' of that person's love and commitment... I honestly respect a woman that has to sell her body for a living over a cheating wife, the wife is selfish, she can pretend she's not a whore and she will by taking a good man down with her, and betraying him all the while, terrible people, if you don't want to be loyal, go ahead screw around see if anyone will want to be loyal to you later... But don't lie to someone put them under false pretenses that you are serious about them, when at best you are just interested and not interested enough bc you need other individuals to give you gratification one obviously can not...

Edit: if she doesn't at least tolerate my love of cartoons, it's off. I am not to mutable in my comfort zone, so it's someone that is a lot like myself I'd imagine, but ppl think that all the time and ends up being nothing like they thought it would be.. I go to bed at random times, I pace around house, sometimes I pause shows just to do so.. I have to have liberty, and I have to really love/respect a person I share a fridge with... There's so many things to argue about when someone invades your comfort zone, things change and some of us are so used to being alone, that making huge concessions for someone that will change our entire life doesn't just have to be for good reason but literally the best of reasons... Bc I have many great reasons to not be romantically involved...

Edited September 20, 2022 by KingCorvus

[Ashen Pathfinder 16,165]

I mainly look for compatibility. I want us to get along and enjoy each other's company.

I would love for us to share nerdy interests and things of that nature. ^^

[Clawdeen 25,309]

Confidence and independence is key for me. I recently cut ties with someone I was originally interested in due to how insecure and jealous they were. To the point where they were trying to gaslight me. We hadn't even went on our first date yet and they were already a walking red flag.
 

[abronymouse 6,152]

loyalty, appreciation, excitement, self-assertion (ie strong personality) + able to get on with the people I can't do without 

for girls, physical attraction is a must. For boys, they must desire me  

[Sparklefan1234 184,983]

1. A pulse. 

2. A sense of humor. 

Edited September 21, 2022 by Sparklefan1234