The annoying ex!

[~Sugar Sprinkles~ 638]

Has any pony ever had that ANNOYING ex..that you just CANNOT ever get out of your mind!?!?! Vent here about it! I feel like some ponies would like to share their stories.

 

Well I have some exes, but my last ex was...the worst. I had one ex that cheated on me, looked up porn all the time, was into me for my body, dumped me for no reason, and some that said it was not working out. But my last compared...not at all to these ones. I dated a guy named Thomas. At first I found him repulsive and odd. Like..he was just..odd. But then everybody and their brother kept saying "Oh well you should date him" Bla bla bla! Only reason why is because he never had a girlfriend, he had a crush on me, and he was always alone I guess. People guilted me into dating him. I started to feel so bad. I dated him. I thought maybe I would date him for a few months, then like..break up! But he started to love me?? I dont know if he even know love, but he said it. He was sweet at first until 4 months later, we started to fight a lot, and he was controlling, rude, mean, grumpy, never wanted to text or call me, and was always wanting to get "naughty". Yes, he tried to convince me to have sex with him. Never fell for it. he started to always snatch me, yell in my face, and push me. He did leave bruises. I tried to dump him so many times but he always wanted to "kill" himself. He never tried. He just kept forcing me. So annoying. Finally, i dumped him..the end!

 

Now share your horrible ex story (If you want)

 

Note: Please share the story, not that "Oh this why I dont date" please! Also, not all guys/girls are bad. I am in a relationship now for about a year and never have fought once. Thanks!

Edited August 13, 2012 by Sugar Sprinkles

[Shiki 5,857]

@@Sugar Sprinkles, This is why I have not dated, and most likely will not be looking for a romantic partner any time soon.

 

My apologies for posting something only loosely on topic.

[~Sugar Sprinkles~ 638]

@@Sugar Sprinkles, This is why I have not dated, and most likely will not be looking for a romantic partner any time soon.

 

My apologies for posting something only loosely on topic.

 

Well good thing, just live your life before...relationships. Lol, I shoulda waited, but...yeah people trick ya!

[Mirad 217]

Eh, I don't play the dating game, sorry! I know I would lose, seeing that I lose at every other game...

[Iudex 1,945]

I've never been in a relationship for this exact reason.

But I can tell you about my dad, he's had PLENTY of those

[~Sugar Sprinkles~ 638]

I preferably asked for stories, not why you dont date and thats the reason why! Note that not all guys are bad. Im in a good relationship now, so please!

[Cakesplat 39]

I'm happily over all my exes at this point, if a little sore about how wacky things got, and hoping to meet a nice lady this year when class starts again now that everything's figured out. :3

 

I do have my fair share of stories, though. The one really crazy story that comes to mind is the guy who stalked me online for three years after we broke up, occasionally trying to blackmail me or showing up at my house. He married the woman he cheated on me with (my fault, apparently), and boy is she welcome to him.

[Lucky Bolt 35,216]

My only ex I don't talk to anymore, but I still see him around here on the forums from time to time and it just kind of irritates me, because I wish I could forget him entirely but...it's not that easy.  It is what it is, I suppose. 

Edited April 30, 2019 by Lucky Bolt

[Here No Longer 5,286]

Luckily I haven't had this problem. I used to be scared of my last ex (used to post on here, but doesn't really frequent the site anymore) because he was really angry when I broke it off with him. It was so horrific I became scared of him coming to my house and killing me (although he was a "pacifist" and he lived on the opposite side of the country).  He hasn't been on in a while and we haven't talked in 2 years, and it had became more amicable at that point, but nonetheless I still hope he never talks to me again, because he was being such a drama king about the whole break-up.  Why I'm not putting his username out there, so he doesn't come attack me for talking about him.

 

I can't really forget about him or my first "ex." Though I wish I could. I will never forget about that one because he was actually a she (trans woman) and she was a total FREAK. Into all kinds of freaky stuff that I'm not even sure if I can get into. I'm glad that one ended.  I'll just say she would have seriously hurt me.

Edited April 30, 2019 by Dusklicious

[Stone Cold Steve Jobs 22,501]

I got stalked by my first ex after we broke up for three years.

[Brony Number 42 10,089]

I never had a girlfriend and never will, and hearing so many horror stories makes me glad that I won't.

[Envy 6,359]

The story of my most recent ex, my ex-girlfriend, is quite complicated. Nevertheless, I wouldn't consider her a bad ex or anything like that. I just think that the way she ended our friendship (it ended as a friendship, but was a relationship at one point, and I had feelings for her until the end) was incredibly cold and I'm not sure I can ever forgive her for it unless she had a really good reason... But I look at the way I acted, the way I defended her to my close friends and I think that, sadly, it would just end up being a toxic all over again if we tried to reconnect. And I really don't think we should.

She is still on my mind from time to time, but not at all in a romantic context anymore. The only reason she is still on my mind is because she deleted her FB quite sometime ago, and even though I'm still friends with her mom and sister, they never include her in any of their posts, including pictures of runs, which she was so fond of doing and was always included in before her FB deletion. I merely worry if she is okay, that something didn't happen to her. I don't know the reason she stopped talking to me or wanting to see me, and then decided to shut her FB down altogether. It kind of scares me... but I know I'm overthinking it. I know she has every right to do all of that with no explanation. Just... as her former BFF and girlfriend (which the relationship itself did not end on bad terms), I want her to be okay, and I hope her life is going well.

[ZiggWheelsManning 13,074]

Thought this was about the letter "x", it can carry a very harsh sound  

[Splashee 28,593]

Never had an annoying ex but I have heard stories. Also, remember, if you have an ex, you are an ex too 

[Sonic Shimmer 4,137]

I only have one ex and I’ve only seen her twice since we broke up. Once was to give back my stuff that was in her house and the other time we just had a chat and permanently went our separate ways.