What Is Your Opinion On Relationships?

[RainbowCupcakelol 26]

I am in a relationship myself, but what is your opinion? 

 

please say:

 

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

Are You In A Relationship?

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

 

AND ANY OTHER THINGS YOU THINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS!!!

[Moonlight 7,287]

Well, here we go:

 

What age you think people should start having relationships?

-I would say around 15 at the lowest but if people are comfortable starting early and they're mature about it. Then be my guest.

 

Are You In A Relationship?

-No, I am not. No one really holds interest in me so I'm not going to bother.

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

-Trust, loyalty and love for the most part. There's no point in being in a relationship if you plan on cheating, not trusting the other or just don't love them.

 

 

I don't care for relationships but I hate it when my friends get in one. They act like they found their "true love" and as soon as they inevitably break up, I get to put up with their whining. 

[Delirium 208]

I don't really think there is an age you have to be to have a relationship, as long as you know what you're getting into and you're not treating it as a joke or you're getting in a relationship to be cool or something stupid like that.

 

I'm not in a relationship.

 

What do I think makes a strong and healthy relationship? 

 

Honesty, loyalty and loving the person you are in a relationship with.

[Azaxx 111]

I think from around 14 is the minimum, or what I would classify as a minimum. Before that and children don't really understand their own feelings, let alone of others they 'love'. It's during a childs later teen years do they understand that type of relationship and emotions that it's best to start I think.

 

Nope, not in any.

 

Being trustworthy is a start, not just in trusting the one you love, but being honest and trusting your own feelings and actions. If you're not honest with yourself, how could one be honest with the one they love? Loyalty and unselfish kindness is a strong value that should be a fundamental component of any relationship. Of course many people could some up with a large list of important factors to a healthy and long lasting relationship, but those two points I think are the most important components.

[Fluttershyfan94 5,742]

I think age is irrelevant, when you're ready. Though I still think that people shouldn't start having relationships too early.

 

I'm not in a relationship and never have been. I guess I'm just too awesome or something..

 

I think a relationships that is founded on the same elements as friendship are the strongest ones. Trust, loyalty, caring and loving relationship, of course being good in bed is equally as important. Number one is friendship, it's important you're friends.

 

I think relationships are great, but it's just something that I have yet to experience so I don't know anything about it. I think that many just get into a relationship for sex but I know not everyone is like that. I'm not like that, so people should do what they like. As long as both partners love each other a relationship will most likely happen.

[Mephala 2,633]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

Whenever they're mature enough to deal with the potential (and, for someone like 13/14, inevitable) fallout of a breakup and the other factoids of relationships. However, I'd say a good rule of thumb is your first year of high school, 14. At this point you have more freedom and whatnot, so your parents should be able to trust you to make good choices.

 

Are you in a relationship?

Yes, just over five months now. (I assume we just talk about our current one.)

 

What do you think makes a strong and healthy relationship?

Enough things in common that you share interests, but enough different that you can learn things from one another. Maturity, honesty, and commitment (being able to accept and welcome that they aren't going to be talking to you every day every minute, for example).

 

EDIT: Forgot a word.

Edited November 18, 2013 by Queenie

[Inactive01 5,299]

What's a good age to start a relationship?

 

Personally, I do feel that it depends on the person, but I will say that relationships shouldn't start earlier than 20. It's because people who date earlier are often going through hormonal changes and just want to be part of the in-group that is associated with having a guy/girl by your side. I'm not saying relationships haven't flourished at that age, but there's a greater likelihood of a failed relationship by then.

 

Are you currently in a relationship?

 

Unfortunately no, but I'm adopting a wait-and-see approach with my crush. We feel a growing sense of comfort towards each other, but I feel that we're quite young for a relationship since I'm facing the prospect of entering medical school.

 

What makes a strong, growing relationship?

 

Well commonalities is definitely a start. Sharing similar beliefs will help foster an agreement between future parents on caring for their future children. I also feel that there should be cuddly moments and the like to show that you guys aren't only mentally comforted with each other, but also physically comforted (but I wouldn't take it to... extremities). The most important thing however is that you guys must express mutual love towards each other. It can't be one-sided where one person maintains the relationship and the other doesn't seem to give a crap. That doesn't mean you should be paranoid when the other's simply too busy, but one must be wary when the other may be losing interest.

[Clydey 4]

What is a good age to be in a relationship?

any age, as long as you love them and you are mature enough to deal with one, then you are ready!

 

Are you in a Relationship?

Noope. But i have before. 

 

What makes a good relationship?

if you really love him/her and you guys share the same traits and likes. there may be some rough times but you will have to face them. This may sound weird but Arguing is actually sort of good! You get to know them better and get to learn how they act, and you get closer.   

[PonyBoy15 428]

What is a good age to be in a relationship?

It depends on the person's mentality. When you're in a  relationship, your hormones will change. And if you both don't play it smart, you might end up with a child at a too early age (trust me, I know a lot of people in my life that this has happened to them.) If you both decide to remain abstinent, then there should't be a problem. Having that special person who cares about you at a deeper level is an awesome feeling.

 

Are you in a Relationship?

Yes, and it's getting better as each day passes by. 

 

What makes a good relationship?

Tons of factors can go along with this. But the foundation is Communication, and Trust. IMO, cuddles are also important. It creates intimacy and allows you two to bond in a way.

[Midnight Dragon 264]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

Whenever they're ready for something that serious/mature (personally I'm waiting a couple years)

 

Are You In A Relationship?

No, not yet. (Though I've been with many fictional characters )

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

The people involved need to love each other in actions and not just words, as well as respect each other's differences. Also, if one of them needs alone time or isn't ready for something in the relationship, the other should respect that. And most importantly, if one does wrong, the othet should always be willing to forgive--that, right there, is love in action.

[MelancholicMemory 2,025]

I generally advise people to avoid relationships before 16 because despite what you might think at the time, such relationships are usually based on superficial things.

 

I am single. None of the relationships I've been in have been very successful.

 

Homogamy, knowing your partner well, understanding/compassion, love, and communication are necessary for a successful relationship.

[Lightning Bliss 1,674]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

Well to me that always depends on how the person was raised up, based on the family, friends and society/government. I got into a relationship at 15yrs, but now that I am older (27yrs) I can tell I was young, rushed into things and had completely no experience. But being in relationship at that age can help you to learn what you want in relationship. So I'd say its ok in your teen years to experience a relationship, long as your aware of the consequences on the physical parts.

 

Are You In A Relationship?

Yes I am currently engaged, soon to be married this Dec the 14th. I am very excited and very happy. We went throug hell and back to get to this point of marriage due to that I am American, my fiance is German and he and I both agreed the odds favored if he moved to the states with me. Immigration process is hell...its the ultimate test of your relationship, patience and love... We are soul mates, we are still together, here in one place finally after 2yrs of process... If you can survive this you can survive anything!

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

Dedication...honesty, and a healthy balance of agreeing and disagreeing. You don't have to liek everything your spouse likes as they do, but its good to be honest with your feeligns too. When you get into arguments (and you will) don't end it in silence, dont drag it out... be honest and talk it out. Dont go to bed angry or sad, be dedicated to making it work.

Edited November 18, 2013 by Lightning Bliss

[Guest]

What is a good age to start a relationship?

Depends on the individual's maturity level. There's exceptions but I wouldn't advise going into a relationship that is semi-serious until you're at least 15.

 

Are you in a relationship?

Yes, it's long distance for now though. Been together almost 8 months.

 

What do you think makes a strong and healthy relationship?

Bonding. Doing fun things you both like. Trust, don't lie to begin with. It complicates things. Laughing and joking. You don't have to be 1000% serious all the time.Communication and being able to be comfortable around the person.

[deadprofile 1,122]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

I do not believe teenagers should not be in intimate relationships. They are not mature enough to handle a real relationship. Most teens are too caught up in themselves and their social standing to be decent in a relationship. Most girls demand actions/reactions/things from their male counterparts. Most guys are interested in the 'physical' aspect of a relationship. Both parties are for the most part, in a relationship for SELFISH reasons. If there are selfish reasons to be together, then you should not be in a relationship at all because that shows immaturity. Plus, between high school and the college years, people mature a great deal. Most 'high school sweethearts' don't make it past 5-7 years of marriage and those who are stuck together are not for each other but rather a child they have produced. Never have seen marriage last between people who got together in high school. Now, I'm not saying all high school relationships end up that way, there are exceptions to everything out there. I'm just saying that statistic wise, sociology wise, and just in general (everyone can relate in some way, or know people who go through this), high school relationships more often than not, don't work out because of the lack of maturity. In fact most divorces that happen in America are over selfish reasons. 

I was in a relationship for 4 years (sophomore in high school – 2^nd year of college). I 'grew out' of this relationship while he did not mature at all. I ended up breaking up with him after he thought I would be okay with him dating another girl while I was away at college (and then we'd get back together when I came back). I still like him, and I felt pretty bad saying “we're done” and I still wanted to be friends. He still has not grown up and is now a father himself (to a child of another girl he broke up with). I learned a great deal from that relationship, but I've always been much more mature than my peers (I've been around the block a few more times than I like). Most high schoolers don't have immense “maturing” hardships that really make them see the world way differently than peers there own age. I believe the best time for “finding” a relationship is after high school.

 

Are You In A Relationship?

 

Yes, I am married. Have been for 2 ½ years. We never dated. We became best friends, and around Christmas 4 years ago, we decided to get married. We were engaged over a year before our wedding.

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

People often told us we will divorce in a few years because we are not mature and are too young to be married. BUT James and I see our relationship as a friendship first and foremost. This allows for better communication (This is VITAL to any relationship) and overall a more easygoing view of our relationship. Now I do not mean that we can do whatever we please, but I mean that as friends we are able to put each other needs more in front easier than as a “married couple.” As friends, we don't allow selfishness to get in the way. Most of you people that have best friends of the same or other gender don't often have selfish intentions when you want to hang out and just be together doing/talking/experiencing fun things together. Dating couples often think about “what can I get out of this relationship” or if there is a problem “maybe we should break up because he/she is no longer making me happy.” Those thoughts are just plain selfish. My husband and I have had many problems and will have many more. But I love him too much to say “we are through because you don't make me happy.” That's stupid and ignorant on top of being selfish. Yes, we have a lot to learn about each other, and yes we cannot make each other happy a lot of the times, but that's not the point. It's not about happiness, because happiness is a short lived emotion. It's about being together. It's about him, and what I can do to ensure that he lives a healthy, abundant life where he can fulfill his dreams while having a friend always close at hand to help him. Life is never going to be easy, but it's a heck of a lot less depressing knowing you have a friend close at hand, who will never abandon you. That's how I see my relationship towards my husband. He is the most cherished person in my life. Love is NOT a feeling. It is a choice, you have to make every day you are together. With that and friendship as your foundation in your relationship (on both sides), you will never go wrong. And don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Edited November 18, 2013 by Treble Bolt

[Doc. Volt 2,561]

me and my gf are 20.. we are toghter since we were 15... relationship can be at any age..if you are . if the love is true, it makes you better (Danti Alighieri said that) ... when we get a fixed job and some money probably will get married... my parents married at 22... maybe i can do the same... only the money is the problem... but love is stronger than everything... the key from a strong relationship is real love and honesty.. nothing else matters.... my parents hate her, he parents hates me... but everything is fine!

[Twila Starshimmer 172]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

Well, I've always been more of a long-term relationship type of person, rather than a flinger, so it's hard to say when someone should start dating based on that. I started dating around age 16, and though it can be fun, I don't actually recommend it looking back. I was way too overzealous with the whole "someday we'll be together forever" thing, not to mention it opens the doors for many emotional, mental, and sexual complications.

However, I do believe that we should not just brush off their feelings and desires under the rug, and chant "abstinence" over and over. Though obviously in a different mind frame compared to an older person, they aren't necessarily naive or dumb.

Maybe age 18? 

They say the brain fully develops around early 20's...but the idea of never having dated someone before then also can cause issues in terms of embarrassment and such. Hmm...

 

Are You In A Relationship?

 

Yes, I've been with the same man--who is also my best male friend--since April of 2012. We broke up only once--for only 3 months--and that was due to me needing to really find myself and know for sure that I wanted him as a companion, not just for the sake of being "taken." Sounds deep and personal, I know, but I had not-so-good-for-me boyfriends in the past, and just a whole laundry list of issues with trust and such that I won't bore you with. 

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

Knowing who you are with and without that person. You don't want to become co-dependent on them, but you also don't want to be distant and jaded, either.

Communication is very important. Otherwise, how will you know what's going well and not-so-well?

Humor/laughter: to me, being able to loosen up and laugh at some of life's obstacles is key.

Compassion: You want to be with someone who genuinely cares for your well-being, and the health of your relationship.

Not sure what else to put right now.

Edited November 18, 2013 by Twila Starsong

[BronyLogic 17]

 

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

As far as age, I would NOT suggest relationships under the age of 14, but I think that 14-18 is a rather risky time to be in a relationship because of school and the relentless tests. I feel that it would distract way to much, at least that's my logic right now. Am I looking for a relationship? Sure, but I'm kind of hesitant because I'm taking a bunch of advanced classes and I'm a sophomore.

Are You In A Relationship?

 

As of right now? No, but have I been earlier, yes, for a rather short period. 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

As far as a healthy relationship, I say communication is key. If both parties do not communicate, no consensus may be made and may result in both parties parting. As far as gender roles, the Role Reversal Method, where gender roles are switched in a relationship (female is the more dominant gender), relationships tend to be shortened because females generally do not encounter situations where they take charge and so they are inexperienced  as far as being the representing partner of the relationship. If it works out like that, great, but studies have shown...just saying. 

AND ANY OTHER THINGS YOU THINK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS!!!

 

Relationships I don't think are harmful, necessarily, but if I have any suggestions at all, it would to look for VARIETY. Don't pick a person who is exactly like you because they will have the same flaws you have and you will see that, but not in yourself. It's kind of a 50-50 chance; Either you two get along well, or you both criticize each other too much that you part ways. Go for variety because it brings more to the family tree and gives you something to chase after, or else the relationship is dead. If you're a Godly person, just know that God has a plan for you, and he knows that one day, it will happen. God already found that person, but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't start looking, so get to it.

[Shanks 10,816]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

I don't think there is any set age where anyone is ready but I think most teenagers are clearly not mature enough to handle one.

 

 

Are You In A Relationship?

 

No, I haven't had much opportunity to pursue relationships. In middle school and high school my social awkwardness made interaction difficult and my volatile temper scared the shit out of people. Work and school became most of my life and I had to help take of my dialysis patient father (may he rest in peace). I plan to start dating when I get a few things together because although I accept that fact that being in a relationship right now would be a bad idea it is something I want to pursue and I am not just going to wait forever for it to happen.

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

Be honest to yourself and your partner even though it isn't always easy and listen.

[Hypn0ticD 1,213]

Personally, I think people shouldn't get into testing the waters and getting into relationships until their late teens, as they do require at least a bit of maturity to even start and maintain one.

 

I also believe that one shouldn't start a relationship with anyone unless they truly feel they truly want to be with this person.

 

And finally, all strong, lasting relationships are ones that are not rushed into, are where the couple are truly open with one another, and try not to hold petty grudges  against one another, and enjoy each other's company, and stick to each other through thick and thin.

[HoopHoof 137]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

I guess preteen years. Hormones are buzzing and well might as well celebrate it. I mean it doesn't really bother me when someone should. It's just a simple relationship. Relationships are all about learning what you like and plus it's just good fun at the end of the day. 

 

Are You In A Relationship?

 

Not right now. I had to call it quits with my last relationship (I guess it was more of a fling) because....let's just say it freaked me out and left me feeling uneasy a lot of the time. But I'm totally happy being single  I'd rather go with the flow and see what happens rather than forcing someone or pestering someone to give me a chance. But I guess because of that I'm totally unaware of advances made by some girls 

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

Oh god, several things. Trust, love, respect, acceptance and appreciation.

 

But the one thing I'd like to stress that I guess a lot of my friends seem to get wrong (as myself) is that there is a lack of communication. Relationships need a lot of team work and team work involves a lot of communication. You have to tell your significant other how you're truly feeling and not just hint it or disguise it. If you two get angry than just talk and not complain and be the bigger pony and accept you maybe wrong.

 

And the final thing and yep!! I'm done!! Don't rush things and go with the flow. Rushing things and saying I love you so quick after like 3 days of meeting each other will cause a lot of problems. It's like a candle, the brighter it burns, the faster it goes out. Just go with the flow, don't constantly text or message each other because honestly, you two might get sick of each other or run out of interesting things to say.

Edited November 19, 2013 by HoopHoof

[Champion RD92 8,658]

I honestly don't think people should have relationships till at least high school.

 

I'm not in a relationship (but I really want to be *sad face*)

 

And what makes a strong and healthy relationship? I suppose honestly, loyalty, and trust.

[~Master~ Button Mash 2,307]

What age you think people should start having relationships?

 

Whenever they feel ready, I guess, at whatever age that may be (usually mid-late teens though). Honestly, I'm 20, and I still don't feel ready sometimes, but I'm forcing myself to try because, well…if not now, then when?

 

Are You In A Relationship?

 

Right now? No. Have been in a few flings before that fizzled out because of…well, see above.

 

What Do You Think Makes A Strong And Healthy Relationship?

 

Emotional openness, communication, honesty, loyalty

Edited November 19, 2013 by ~Master~ Button Mash