Are you a good judge of character?

[Starlight Serenade 3,167]

I think to an extent. I have met people in the past who were really kind, but then have lied to me and betrayed my trust.
 

Sometimes when you are vulnerable and not in the right state of mind, things will slip past you. 

[EpicEnergy 23,218]

Not really, I'm either too strict or too lenient. However, I'm working on not judging people at all and letting their actions speak rather than my perceptions of those people.

[Iforgotmybrain 5,654]

I dunno. Maybe. I generally find the first impressions and general vibes I get from a person are pretty accurate. Certain types of people tend to act, carry and present themselves in certain ways. Use certain language, terms, ways of speaking and what have you. You learn to pick up on those things if you pay attention.

Even online that can apply. The avatar you choose to represent yourself can say a lot about you, either on purpose or inadvertently. The way you write, the things you write about. It’s the same as spoken words in a way.

Or maybe I’m just too judgmental  I’m silently judging all of you 

[Prospekt 11,018]

I tend to have a good intuition when it comes to people's personalities and patterns of behavior. More often than not, I can tell pretty early on whether or not a co-worker or potential friend is going to be the kind of person who has my back, stabs others in the back, gossips, slacks off...

Now, do I always listen to my intuition? That's a different story.

[fapeiyeunesou 1]

I think it all depends on the person. It is very difficult to understand at once how good and bad a person is. But I know one thing, sometimes the first opinion can be wrong. 

[Starlighty 948]

people tell me all the time I am like THE worst judge of character when it comes to people and that's why i keep ending up in the same messes..... lol  (like dating)

[Snoopy Fan 225]

I don’t think I’m a good judge of character