What personality qualities do you want in a special somepony?

[Nightfall Veilwing 1,138]

I know what I want for my special somepony, both appearance and personality, but I'll talk about the personality here. 

I'd like her to have...

- The (obvious) hypersexuality and fun-loving qualities of Pinkie Pie.

- The nerd aspect of Twilight and Moondancer.

- The kindness and motherly care qualities of Fluttershy.

- The sexiness of Chrysalis. (Admit it, Chrysalis is the sexiest of the MLP characters. )

And a few other qualities.

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So, how do you feel about these chosen qualities? And what personality qualities would you like your special somepony, or what qualities in your special somepony do you like best? 

Edited July 9, 2022 by Millennium Shadow

[Redeye 399]

Deal Breaker: I look for smart and intelligent girls above all else. If she's a fool, she's not worth it. It's a shame that smart girls are hard to come by at my school. I know that's a stretch, but still, there are a lot of morons who go to my school who I can't stand sometimes.

Important Qualities: Other than that, I look for girls who are into the same things as I am. Video games, fantasy/fiction stories, memes, lack of diligence... As for personality, I like people who are into humor of all kinds, people who are generally kind and don't frequently complain, and people who are generally fun to be around. I also like people who can keep secrets and promises, and I also look for loyalty above all else in this category.

Slightly Unimportant Qualities: Looks are at the bottom of my priority list, but I do have standards and I tend to draw a line somewhere. I'm not the kind of guy who prefers a sexy thicc body, but I moreso lean towards a cute face, stature, and fashion style. As for age gaps, the minimum age I do is two years younger than me. That's as far down as I'll go. That is, that's the rule as long as I'm still a High School Senior. Maximum age is two years older than me as well. I just prefer people who are around my age. They're easier to relate to and communicate with.

Yeah, I admit that I might have crazy and slightly egotistical standards. Truth be told, even if I did find someone like this, I probably wouldn't be able to get hitched. I lack confidence when it comes to relationships, for one it feels rather embarrassing to admit your affection for someone else, and also I don't have the highest self-esteem about my body. I have the charisma, but I lack the looks and courage. The only quality about my looks that I'm proud of is the fact that I have a fully grown beard and have beautiful curly hair compared to everyone else in my school. Other than that, I'm incredibly chubby and I have disgusting acne/visibly red bumps, marks, and blemishes layered all across my arms, legs, and torso. My face is okay, I generally keep that clean and cared most of the time. That's mostly why I'm not expecting to be paired with anyone anytime soon.

Edited October 4, 2017 by Redeye

[Lucky Bolt 35,085]

Besides being Jimmie Johnson  here are the qualities I fall for:

Good sense of humor, someone who's really funny and not overly serious 

Someone who's really active and on the go, like me, someone who's adventurous and wants to get out there and do fun exciting things. (Trust me, I can't stay pinned up inside a house for long periods of time) 

Someone who isn't too clingy, someone who can give me my space and independence when I need it, but at the same time are loyal and caring.

Someone who shares at least some of my interests

 

Edited October 5, 2017 by Lucky Bolt

[Lucartini 104]

She needs to be kind and intelligent, and she needs to love Videogames and me.

[Magic_Spark 154]

Love is not always what we are told or taught. 

Love is a feeling we have when there is a special connection between to people. Its also that bond between a mother and child. Its so awesome its almost indescribable. 

If your in need then its time to go looking. Love rarely falls in your lap. If you are telling others your looking and loathing when you see happy couples then you were taught incorrectly. 

You need to get out to find that special person. Be weary there are some who would take advantage of you cause they can tell your desperate. To love is to know. How the hell do you expect to know anyone or for anyone to know you. Just have to see what activities are out there that other like minded people are doing. I am speaking from experience. I have been alone for years. I had a very crappy childhood and remained alone cause on one taught me that I need to get out and be seen. I had no parent help me with others. Now I enjoy going places and talking to strangers. You can find someone special by being yourself and not hiding. People can subconsciously see dishonesty. They may not even know it. I know animals can see it right away. So feeling down get out unplug and go to a club or go dancing. At least you can talk to others. Get to know new faces. Who knows you may even find what your looking for. Networking is key. The right person may be a friend of a person you just meet. Never stop looking but have fun int the process. Society doesn't work the way we see in movies or fairy tales. I enjoy fantasizing about a world like MLP but I know that its not real and that talking ponies will never exist in my lifetime. What draws me to the show is the personalities as they are more human. I really like that about the show. 

I really do hope you find that special person. Its the most joy anyone can ever have. If you commit suicide you will never experience it. So you have a lot to live for.

Remember there are folks like me who do care and wish you well. Despite the fact that I do not know you on a more local level.

I live to make others happy. Sorta like Pinky Pie, except I do not throw parties and act the way she does. 

Please do have a happy life. Only you can do that and no one will do it for you. 

[Nightfall Veilwing 1,138]

11 hours ago, Magic_Spark said:

- Love is a feeling we have when there is a special connection between to people. It's also that bond between a mother and child. It's so awesome its almost indescribable. 

- If you're in need, then it's time to go looking; love rarely falls in your lap. If you are telling others you're looking and loathing when you see happy couples, then you were taught incorrectly.

- You need to get out to find that special person. Be weary: there are some who would take advantage of you 'cause they can tell you're desperate.

- You can find someone special by being yourself and not hiding. People can subconsciously see dishonesty.

- I know animals can see it right away.

- So, feeling down, get out, unplug, and go to a club or go dancing.

- Networking is key.

- The right person may be a friend of a person you just meet.

- I enjoy fantasizing about a world like MLP, but I know that it's not real, and that talking ponies will never exist in my lifetime. 

- I really do hope you find that special person. It's the most joy anyone can ever have. If you commit suicide, you will never experience it. So, you have a lot to live for.

- I live to make others happy, sorta like Pinkie Pie, except I do not throw parties and act the way she does. 

- Please do have a happy life. Only you can do that, and no one will do it for you.

- Since I was abused, I may never what it feels like to be loved.  Plus, I don't believe in the concept of love. It just doesn't make sense, when you take human nature and its sociopathic attributes into consideration... 

- I'm on a very short time limit.  And I think when we see somepony with something we want, we feel left out.  And what do you mean, I was "taught incorrectly"? 

- We take subconsciously advantage of others, whether obvious or not.  We subconsciously see others as either a tool to manipulate and control or an obstacle to knocked down or destroy at all costs. We're more interested in what we can get from others (money, sex, a sense of purpose and/or worth, approval, etc.) than the individual themselves. It's just how humans are; it's for survival. Sometimes you have to manipulate others and take advantage of them, even it's just for the basic necessities. Desperate times call for desperate measures, you know. 

- The problem is, even if you're in a relationship or married to somepony, you'll still keep secrets from each other, whether minor or major. We all have those attributes that we'll hide so our reputation isn't ruined. We're all dishonest about things now again; lying is but a survival strategy, as well as a manipulation and defense tactic.

- Humans are animals, too. We may be more civilized now than we were a couple millennia ago, but, at our core, we're still wild animals. Nothing can take own natural instincts and biological programming away.

- I don't care for clubs or dancing, even though dancing is practically the human mating call. But I would love to go to brony cons, where I can meet others that share common interests with me. I just don't have the money or transportation for that. I tell ya, cons seem to be at random locations each year, and that's just an inconvenience. 

- That just contradicts your previous point.  Unplugging with do more harm than good. Staying plugged in (metaphorically) will increase the odds of me finding somepony.

- I do want my special somepony to be my best friend. I know a couple that were best friends, and still are, even after they married.

- You can transit to an MLP-themed universe that matches your fantasies. I may just do that ...once I learn how...  There are infinite realities, and whatever you can think of, there are infinite universes just like it and then some. 

- Yeah, the blissful are the happiest. 

- Being happy is very hard, if not impossible, in the world today, you know. Too many things to worry about and too many things and odds against you. Everything is a commodity, even that simple things we need to survive, and money runs everything. We just can't seem to get happiness, only buy short-lived bliss.  The MLP universe does seem so ideal, don't it? Money isn't that big of a deal, and the bonds we have with other is the main concern.

[Nerdy Luigi 2,065]

Important: 

• Actually likes me. I can figure these things out, and it's happened in the past.

Matters to Some Degree:

• Shares interests with me (Video Games, Sci-Fi, Cartoons, Dank Memes...).
• Not overly conservative or religious (Both don't agree with me too much).
• Not clingy. As an introvert, I need my space. When I don't, I get antsy.

 

Otherwise, there's really nothing that matters THAT much. I do have preferences, but they aren't extremely important.

Edited October 13, 2017 by Nerdy Luigi

[Magic_Spark 154]

"Since I was abused, I may never what it feels like to be loved. Plus, I don't believe in the concept of love. It just doesn't make sense, when you take human nature and its sociopathic attributes into consideration... :sunny:"

Not every one is a sociopath. Love is something you feel and when it does happen its the most uphoric feeling and you will know it.
I was abused as well. I didn't want to talk about it but to your benefit I was also molested as a child. So I am living proof you can feel love even if your "damaged". Do not fall into the battered syndrome. You are better than that. 

"I'm on a very short time limit. And I think when we see somepony with something we want, we feel left out. And what do you mean, I was "taught incorrectly"? "

I do not know what that means a short time limit. And yes you were taught about life in a negative way. I was too. I am not saying your a bad person and do not take it negatively. Seeing what your doing that is causing you grief you then can correct it.

"We take subconsciously advantage of others, whether obvious or not. We subconsciously see others as either a tool to manipulate and control or an obstacle to knocked down or destroy at all costs. We're more interested in what we can get from others (money, sex, a sense of purpose and/or worth, approval, etc.) than the individual themselves. It's just how humans are; it's for survival. Sometimes you have to manipulate others and take advantage of them, even it's just for the basic necessities. Desperate times call for desperate measures, you know."

Taking advantages of others. Well everyone does this. Its not something most of us are proud of and it happens at times when we are not paying attention to it. This is one of those things that is unavoidable. However you can give just as easily as take. If you view your taking as a negative you can then look to see how you can return something useful to the other party. This is a ballancing act and I do it all the time. I know others want to use me for my knowledge so I set it up so they have to decide what to give me in return. Money, food, time well spent. There is nothing complicated about this and humans have been doing this for years. We are trained at young ages to do this. So do not take it as a bad thing unless a person is attempint to control you and take without giving anything in return. Those people you just need to avoid. Only you can control your feelings and being. There is not magic pill or divine power that will change this. 

"The problem is, even if you're in a relationship or married to somepony, you'll still keep secrets from each other, whether minor or major. We all have those attributes that we'll hide so our reputation isn't ruined. We're all dishonest about things now again; lying is but a survival strategy, as well as a manipulation and defense tactic."

keeping secrets is what we are taught as kids and its to avoid punishment or embarassment. What if the secret could put you in a leagal delima? Well I do not hold it against a person if they willing withold information. I just do not like a willing lie. Everyone lies and if you lied about having cancer to your spouse its not fair to them. Lying is dishonest and you can't have any relationship based on lies. So before you get married or decide to have a serious relationship you need to be assertive that your mate knows that lying is a deal breaker. 

Just as an example:(Say I met this girl and really liked her and wanted to get more serious. However there seemed to something wrong.) She was reluctant to tell me that she was a guy that looked like a girl. This would upset me as this is a serious lie in the form of looks rather than words. I would not be friedns with a person like this. I am friends with Gay people as I believe that without a body they are generless. But when it comes to relationships I prefer women cause I am a guy. I have pondered the prospect of being with a guy but it just does not appeal to me. So in this exaple even after the discovery I would just say that we can stay friends but I can't go beyond that. Simplely because I am not attracted to males sexually. I would never treat someone who is Gay bad unless they are a jerk to me. 

"Humans are animals, too. We may be more civilized now than we were a couple millennia ago, but, at our core, we're still wild animals. Nothing can take own natural instincts and biological programming away."

Yes I can agree about being an animal. However we have something that animals do not. We can be creative and plan for the future and ponder the past. 

"I don't care for clubs or dancing, even though dancing is practically the human mating call. But I would love to go to brony cons, where I can meet others that share common interests with me. I just don't have the money or transportation for that. I tell ya, cons seem to be at random locations each year, and that's just an inconvenience."

I mentioned the clubs as its how most people get out to meet others. You have to go where the men/women go in order to meet others. Does not have to be a dance club. Could be a hiking or rafting one... Just ask some people you like talking to where what your looking for like to hang out. Investigate where to go and have fun at it. I haven't gone to cons. To be honest you may have fun there but its not a hookup place. I am not a bad looking guy and I never even came close to finding anyone to date there. So don't hold your breath on them. They are great to see your favorite artist and meet some online frinends but its not the only place to find someone.

"That just contradicts your previous point. Unplugging with do more harm than good. Staying plugged in (metaphorically) will increase the odds of me finding somepony."

When I said unplug, I did not mean throw your computer away. I menat take some time off and get out of the house. Being around the computer all the time is not healthy and you can ask your doc about that. Just get out go bike riding or walking. Do some type of activity that you can enjoy. Once you get old you will regret not doing that. Trust me or not. Its up to you. 

"I do want my special somepony to be my best friend. I know a couple that were best friends, and still are, even after they married."

Good relationships are a 2 way street. They have to be recipical and you have to have trust. Do not assert what you want and expect things. Be accepting more and look for a friend. Accept that person for who they are more than what you personally desire. If they feel the same then you will have a lasting relationship. 

"You can transit to an MLP-themed universe that matches your fantasies. I may just do that :P...once I learn how... There are infinite realities, and whatever you can think of, there are infinite universes just like it and then some. "

Your imagination can take you anywhere you want to go. Right now you just need a good break. I really do hope you find a special person that can show you what I am talking about and you will be like a million dollar winner. As far as infinate worlds, yes science as touched uppon this subject but untill that time comes where you pass on don't dwell on it too much. You will miss the nice things in this world. 
I have pondered what if a rip in the universe allowed me to pass into a world where things are different. I found myslef reluctant to go as it would cause my family grief and what if there was someone who is perfect for me here I would not see them. 
Its easy to get caught up in this idea but the reality is it will not happen according to the majority of science. 

- Yeah, the blissful are the happiest."
My live isn't the greatest but I keep to my ways and I am blissful. I enjoy making others happy and it makes me happy. I give and I do not expect things back. 

"Being happy is very hard, if not impossible, in the world today, you know. Too many things to worry about and too many things and odds against you. Everything is a commodity, even that simple things we need to survive, and money runs everything. We just can't seem to get happiness, only buy short-lived bliss. The MLP universe does seem so ideal, don't it? Money isn't that big of a deal, and the bonds we have with other is the main concern."

The world is full of evil. And you can blame nature for that. All life finds living to be a struggle and the universe is one gigantic experiment. Understanding your not living in a world that is 100% bad is something to consider. Despite the struggles I myself do not think all is lost. I spent 7 months in a war zone. I didn't think I would make it back alive. However Here I am and I am going to make the best of it.

[Here No Longer 5,276]

On ‎10‎/‎12‎/‎2017 at 7:35 PM, Nerdy Luigi said:

Important: 

• Actually likes me. I can figure these things out, and it's happened in the past.

Matters to Some Degree:

• Shares interests with me (Video Games, Sci-Fi, Cartoons, Dank Memes...).
• Not overly conservative or religious (Both don't agree with me too much).
• Not clingy. As an introvert, I need my space. When I don't, I get antsy.

 

Otherwise, there's really nothing that matters THAT much. I do have preferences, but they aren't extremely important.

I posted here on my old account (above), but I think that the post sort of warrants an update anyways. After all I am sort of looking at the moment  

 

Absolutely Necessary

• He should actually love me for me and nothing else. Yes, I can tell if he doesn't. I'm not as naïve as I used to be. I have experiences that have trained my senses. I want him to be by my side whatever happens, and I want to do the same, even if my more than likely autistic self can hardly even care for myself let alone another...
• However much this may sound like it contradicts the previous bit to some people, he needs to be willing to have an open relationship. I simply can't make it work the other way... Not because of the fact I'll get tired of him, but because I feel like I just couldn't sexually commit myself to one person for the rest of my life, regardless of how much I loved him. There would have to be ground rules on this for sure, though, as I don't want to have either of us betray the other's trust. The relationship should still come first. 

 

Important

• Shared interests are of the essence, things like Paladins/Overwatch, Pokémon, Smash Bros, Pixar movies, Star Trek, Dr. Who, Steven Universe, Rick and Morty, or perhaps some anime shows (I've really been wanting to get into anime personally ) among other things. He doesn't have to be into absolutely everything, but there should be enough there so he and I can share something so the relationship doesn't feel like a strain .
• I don't want somebody overly conservative, and also not some sort of extreme SJW, if you know what I mean.
• He shouldn't be overly-religious. Me and religion do not jive well. Sure I have religious friends that are pretty nice to me and all, but I can't live with somebody that wants me to go to church on Sunday, every Sunday. Even if this should be a given with the fact that this would be a homosexual relationship.
• He really can't be controlling or clingy with me. I'm one of those kinds of people that needs their space, being an introvert with internalized anxiety issues. Sure there should be a dialogue, but after a while, it shouldn't be an issue because even I can actually converse with somebody if I feel familiar and comfortable enough.
• He should be a little perverted, considering how perverted and sick I can be. Maybe we can share something there if you know what I mean
• A degree of intelligence. Since from what I can judge I have an IQ around 140, I would have a hard time dealing with a dope.

 

Other than that, there's nothing that's really that important. I do prefer leaner men that are a little taller than me, but that's not really that important. One of my exes was almost 7 feet tall and weighed somewhere around 250 pounds and it worked fine (of course until he just stopped talking to me for some reason). 

 

 

Edited November 19, 2018 by ~Dusky~
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[Midnight Solace 5,132]

Somepony who cares, loves, listens, and wouldn't betray you. I've had many broken friendships, but when I found Twily, she made my life complete.

[Cash In 22,498]

Me? Someone who is kind and understands all my physical and mental health issues and can help me get through them. It wouldn't hurt if they were interested in Video Games or Cartoons either, considering that they're my prime interests.