I_wesley125 393 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 So can i get some advice on this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FLARE 952 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 Sorry I wouldn't be able to help heheh, I can barely talk to ANYONE irl unless its about work or something, and still then :F anyway good luck, I might be able to get some tips from this thread as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crispy 5,563 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 6 GET IN THE PIT On 8/23/2012 at 1:54 AM, Djenty said: ON MLP 4UMS ERRYTHIN IS SRS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shankveld 4,949 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 I'm a women ~ what do you want to know ? ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Champion RD92 8,658 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 (edited) I would really like some advice on this too, because I have always been a shy person generally, and it is extremely difficult for me to talk to girls. I think part of it is a confidence/self-esteem issue and also the fact that I'm just shy in general. Plus, I wouldn't even know what to talk about XD. Edited January 23, 2012 by RainbowDash92 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Legit101 300 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 "Hey I like your shoes". Gets them every time. 2 . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Little Miss Fluttershy 678 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 I can be really social when I'm playing xbox with other girls or anybody, but in real life I'm very shy with women. I can't start up conversations with them, unless I know them very well. In fact, sometimes it's hard saying hi to them haha. (: The advice I would give is talk to them more and eventually you can start talking to them without any issues of being shy or non-talkative around them. Be more confident in yourself. ;D 3 Signature made by Cloud Chaser. Ask her to make you one! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shankveld 4,949 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 Here are some things I can think off the top of my head, For approaching women: 1.Compliment them, but when it comes to compliments, don't just say "you're sexy" say something like "I hope you don't mind me saying hello, but I couldn't help but to notice you're the most beautiful women (insert place here)". girls love being told they are pretty, but love even more being told they are prettier then other girls 2. If the girl has a unique, style, hair colour or clothing style. Compliment it, "I love how you rock that purple hair, I've never seen anyone pull it off like you have" 3. Smile and laugh, makes us feel more comfortable and at ease, seriousness has its time and place but not now. 4. Is she wearing a band-tee or something that shows an interest of hers? "Hey, I love metallica too, what's your favourite song by them? Mines blah blah blah blah" 5. Confidence is sexy, but don't panic if you get a little nervous either, it can be seen as cute, "sorry I'm a littler nervous, I'm not use to talking to a girl as beautiful as you " The conversation 1. Find a common interest once you find somehting you both like, go on and on about it, MAKE SURE YOU LET HERE TALK AND ASK HER QUESTIONS, girls love to talk about themselves. 2. Listen! "I've always wanted a pet cat" "Oh me too, cats are adorable, I had one when I was little and he did this really cute thing where..." 3. Don't let the conversation die, keep her interest. Find a subject she is passionate about and let her talk about it. 4. Don't talk for too long (as for first encounters the conversation can get boring) leave after an engaging conversation "well, I better get back to my friends.." 5. End with a compliment about her personality "It was such a pleasure to talk to such an intelligent women such as yourself" "how do you not have a boyfriend? You could be a comedian, you're so funny" *smile* 6. Get her number or add her on facebook, "if you ever want to talk again, or maybe meet up for so coffee, her's my number" hope this helps and most importantly, don't hide who you are, be your funny, sweet, charming, adorkable self ~ 18 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
83awsm 234 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 "I really like your... hair?" Just thought it'd be relevant. 3 Awesomeness = at least 20% Cooler. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drehgunklew 136 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 It's hard to talk to women... WHY? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robert3186 45 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 Mention ponies, they'll be all over you. Haha But seriously every one of Shankveld's points are pretty easy to achieve, go for it. You've got nothing to lose. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colon Leftbracket 971 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 It's hard to talk to women... WHY? Some guys seem to shut down completely and get extremely nervous when talking to women. I used to be that way when I was really young and just became interested into girls. Luckily I grew out of it quickly though... hell sometimes I go through days where I talk to no one but girls! My advice: They're humans too! Treat them with confidence, but more importantly treat them with respect! There's no real set lines that work in the perfect situations. Just treat them as any other person (well I'm hoping you treat everyone else with respect ) Just talk about whatever happens to come up! Then again I'm only good at talking to them. If you wish to chase a relationship or something... I'm certainly not one to talk to since I tend to avoid relationships (a concept that seems alien to people for some reason?) What Shanks said is good! 2 [New siggy in progress!] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crispy 5,563 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 Also, this. Now that I've doled out my bad advice quota, I should try to be at least a little helpful. Just be yourself, for one. Secondly, don't throw complements their way every thirty seconds, girls know when you're trying too hard. A lot of Shank's points on conversation starters are valid here, and those should break the ice enough for spontaneity to keep the conversation going. 3 GET IN THE PIT On 8/23/2012 at 1:54 AM, Djenty said: ON MLP 4UMS ERRYTHIN IS SRS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Legit101 300 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 It's hard to talk to women... WHY? No common interests I guess. Can't talk about stuff you know nothing about. http-~~-//www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeHUQAnzpF0 It's been far too long since I saw that last. The music and the look on her just makes it perfect. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SrFrog 927 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 You guys make it sound easy, even when a girl is the one to approach me I can't help but freeze up. "Never give no manipulative bitch the benefit of the doubt" - Compa's grandpa... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skye Starlight 223 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 First of all, talk to girls like you would if you just wanted to be friends, if the girl wants more, she'll know that friends can often become a boyfriends... Once you find the one with the personality you want (personality lasts longer than looks) act slightly nicer to her, and very slowly up the niceness until you start buying her gifts and stuff and taking her out for friendly dinners, then ask if she wants to be more than friends... And I'm sure by then she probably thinks you're sweet, and will accept... Might even marry you if you wanted that! Fact is, fast-tracking leads to very short term relationships... Take this from a teenage girl... Oh, but this might not be the way to do it because I'm not exactly a normal teenage girl... Nor am I a woman... So don't trust my advice completely... 1 I am prone to leaving both short and long posts as well as with my profile feed... I made this I am so proud of myself! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FLARE 952 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 You guys make it sound easy, even when a girl is the one to approach me I can't help but freeze up. I know right, I freeze up even if the person is a boy, even if the person is related to me, only if I know the person very well, like been at school with me for atleast half a year before I will have any casual conversion with them, and still then... #antisocialproblems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildCard 1,037 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 (edited) I kinda have this problem a bit too. Mostly I get nervous, but as Shankveld said a common interest is worth gold. Almost all the girls I got along very well had a similar taste in music or another common interest. My problem is not so much beginning a conversation with a girl or befriend a girl, but I always miss "the moment" and don't get a bit more personal because I don't want to be too fast or risk something. Therefore I had a lot of girl-friends but only one girlfriend(for a very short time). Any advices on that? The problem is also that girls often approach me with a wrong oppinion of me. I do Motocross and many other things considered as risky in my part-time and it seems hard for people to understand that altough I like those things Iam quite shy and often insecure when it comes to the social part Edited January 23, 2012 by PonyPunk OC was made by Princess Ariona. Give her some brohoofs here: http://mlpforums.com/topic/22162-so-you-want-a-pony/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SrFrog 927 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 I know right, I freeze up even if the person is a boy, even if the person is related to me, only if I know the person very well, like been at school with me for atleast half a year before I will have any casual conversion with them, and still then... To quote Rarity: But in all seriousness you just kinda described me there and working in a Korean restaurant is torture for me. "Never give no manipulative bitch the benefit of the doubt" - Compa's grandpa... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crispy 5,563 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 You guys make it sound easy, even when a girl is the one to approach me I can't help but freeze up. It's taken me quite a while to not be a stuttering mess around girls, that's no lie. Eventually, though, you stop caring so much about what people MIGHT think and just start being you regardless of who's around. If people like it, bonus. If they don't? *shrug* GET IN THE PIT On 8/23/2012 at 1:54 AM, Djenty said: ON MLP 4UMS ERRYTHIN IS SRS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FLARE 952 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 (edited) It's taken me quite a while to not be a stuttering mess around girls, that's no lie. Eventually, though, you stop caring so much about what people MIGHT think and just start being you regardless of who's around. If people like it, bonus. If they don't? *shrug* I try to not care about what people think about me, but when I do, I screw something up, and when I do it sticks in the back of my mind and I randomly think about it and it makes me feel like an idiot filled with regret. But in all seriousness you just kinda described me there and working in a Korean restaurant is torture for me. I wonder if I will ever get a job from someone that doesn't involve me being on the computer... Edited January 23, 2012 by Flare Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SrFrog 927 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 Eventually, though, you stop caring so much about what people MIGHT think and just start being you regardless of who's around. If people like it, bonus. If they don't? *shrug* There lies my problem, I am super freaked out of what other people might think of me. Seriously I can't even chat with another person because im scared of people hating me. "Never give no manipulative bitch the benefit of the doubt" - Compa's grandpa... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zero000 435 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 My pick up line: Hey, I'm a brony. 1 Signatures are for fillies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eenohay 318 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 It's been long since I've met a women worthy of my interest, so I haven't had the need to do it recently. Well, there was that Australian girl, pretty and exotic, but she already had like 10 guys drooling over her. She probably wasn't smart enough anyways. I would never speak to a completely stranger, but when we are in a group and there's a girl I haven't met before, I can speak with her perfectly (Unless she hates me or something). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Finesthour 7,287 January 23, 2012 Share January 23, 2012 Oh, this tickles my funny bone. It annoys woman when you try to treat them much different. Treat them like a friend, and they will treat you like a friend back. And if it grows to something more, treat them nice, and they will treat you nice back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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