General Chat Thread

[NuclearBurg (Dawn) 622]

I suck at showing affection and to scared to make a move ever and would just suck at relationships all together

I feel like I wouldn't know what the hay to do even if I got into a relationship. It would be "ok I'm in a relationship. Now what?"

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

It's gonna be more difficult now since ive strangely become more uncomfortable with people touching me.

Well done for managing that. I struggle with the online part of it if it's a girl (one that I like that is)

Online isnt as hard as irl since you have the screen between you two. Ive found it much easier to even be social because of that. I still have some tendencies such as despising new people at the start for a while, but I usually come around to liking them as a decent friend.

 

Also, not wanting to be touched isn't strange at all.

[Hidey 2,836]

I suck at showing affection and to scared to make a move ever and would just suck at relationships all together

 

I was scared to make a move at first so I just cheated  

[NuclearBurg (Dawn) 622]

Online isnt as hard as irl since you have the screen between you two. Ive found it much easier to even be social because of that. I still have some tendencies such as despising new people at the start for a while, but I usually come around to liking them as a decent friend.

Also, not wanting to be touched isn't strange at all.

I have that feeling "new person... Can I trust them. Don't know yet so not going to talk at all just in case I mess something up. Just don't come close to me pleaaaasssee."

[1111 1,284]

I was scared to make a move at first so I just cheated  

cheated?

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

I feel like I wouldn't know what the hay to do even if I got into a relationship. It would be "ok I'm in a relationship. Now what?"

Its really not a whole lot to it. Some may have more of one things than others (like, I had to comfort my online ex a bunch cause used to be uber sensitive where as now me and my guy don't have that problem and for the most part just generally still act the same), but once you're in its not so bad. You also kinda pick up what to do and how to act with practice, no one ever goes in for the first few times 100% sure on it.

[Hidey 2,836]

Online isnt as hard as irl since you have the screen between you two. Ive found it much easier to even be social because of that. I still have some tendencies such as despising new people at the start for a while, but I usually come around to liking them as a decent friend.

 

Also, not wanting to be touched isn't strange at all.

 

aw haven it's true that a screen makes it easier when you don't have to see a person's face but I've found that you can move past that because many people are the same in wanting to be friends and be understood by each other despite the imagined  embarrassment of talking face to face. 

[NuclearBurg (Dawn) 622]

Being me I did some research. I think I may have social anxiety because it seems a lot like what happens with me. Close friends and family. No problem. New people "nononononono"

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

I said that, but only insofar as it would be easier for you. Not to say you shouldn't have that attraction though.

Aah, ok. I see.

[Hidey 2,836]

cheated?

 

ye just think about ways to ask someone out and you'll get it 

[Count Paradox 3,548]

Im not the best with women...

Most ive ever done is kiss a girl on the cheek and date a girl for two weeks, and we never did anything bfgf at all...

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

I have that feeling "new person... Can I trust them. Don't know yet so not going to talk at all just in case I mess something up. Just don't come close to me pleaaaasssee."

I don't get the whole "cant trust them" thing, I just instashy away from them for some reason. Like, unless im already in a group with friends, hyper active/very energetic at the time, and sometimes strictly both, I will usually say 0 words to a random for whatever reason. I do get the insane want for them to leave me be though.

aw haven it's true that a screen makes it easier when you don't have to see a person's face but I've found that you can move past that because many people are the same in wanting to be friends and be understood by each other despite the imagined embarrassment of talking face to face.

Now, if only you could make my brain understand that and get my body to follow suit. Little shits truly believe otherwise.

 

Ive had no problems with meeting online friends at BC for the first time if that means anything. But straight up new people, nope.

Edited May 11, 2015 by Based God Synth

[1111 1,284]

I,m just scared of what new people think of me and arnt that comfortable about being my self around them 

[NuclearBurg (Dawn) 622]

I,m just scared of what new people think of me and arnt that comfortable about being my self around them

 

Same. It's not a nice feeling in the slightest.

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

cheated?

ye just think about ways to ask someone out and you'll get it

Be like me and let them come to you.

[NuclearBurg (Dawn) 622]

But I'll get to sleep now (woohoo about 4 hours sleep. Again) thanks for trying to help pink .

[1111 1,284]

they dont come to me ever

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

I,m just scared of what new people think of me and arnt that comfortable about being my self around them

I usually don't care about this at all and im usually just more bothered by the fact that I dont know them in general.

[Hidey 2,836]

I don't get the whole "cant trust them" thing, I just instashy away from them for some reason. Like, unless im already in a group with friends, hyper active/very energetic at the time, and sometimes strictly both, I will usually say 0 words to a random for whatever reason. I do get the insane want for them to leave me be though.

Now, if only you could make my brain understand that and get my body to follow suit. Little shits truly believe otherwise.

 

Ive had no problems with meeting online friends at BC for the first time if that means anything. But straight up new people, nope.

 

I'm the worst but I commit myself

 

and if I know the other person understands I'm a total spaz that makes it easier     

[Count Paradox 3,548]

But I'll get to sleep now (woohoo about 4 hours sleep. Again) thanks for trying to help pink .

night!

[Haven Celestii 9,385]

they dont come to me ever

Surprisingly, every single one of my friends have come to me (offline and online i believe) and even the ones who have showed affection to me did it first. I think the guy im with now was the only one that it was initially mutual between us. Shame it doesn't work offline As well. :z

I'm the worst but I commit myself

 

and if I know the other person understands I'm a total spaz that makes it easier

Im bad at making myself do things.

 

Even moreso when it comes to this.

[Hidey 2,836]

Surprisingly, every single one of my friends have come to me (offline and online i believe) and even the ones who have showed affection to me did it first. I think the guy im with now was the only one that it was initially mutual between us. Shame it doesn't work offline As well. :z

Im bad at making myself do things.

 

Even moreso when it comes to this.

 

you could... talk to me  :comeatus:

 

I make myself do things even if I'm nervous 

[1111 1,284]

whats the diffrence between coming at some one and being mutual? when they come at you its just you giving them a shot?

[Moon Rat 4,773]

Yeah, I just got off of work and the weather is being Florida (I swear, the most severe weather could just form right dang near on top of us, but still dissipate JUST BEFORE it reaches us. Like, wtf man :T )

 

Anywhat,

Hewwo

How has everyone's day been so far?

[1111 1,284]

hello woona im good