I won't harass someone because they are fat. I see no point as it is their life not mine. If I did push at getting weight lost it would pressure that indivual to eventually do something silly because of me. I believe if someone is willing to put in the effort to be nice and easy to get along with they are all "super mans" in my eyes. Most of my best friends were over-weight and they turned out to be some of the strongest, smartest and caring people I've ever met! I'd never look at someone badly because of their weight but maybe suggest kindly but I'd never push anyone into something they aren't comfortable or have a harder time than others doing.