I'm on the fringes of the fandom, but I'm a casual fan. I've been aware of the fandom and I've been in and out of it since the mid-1990s. It's way different from how it was back then. There were all kinds of artists with varying styles, nearly everyone was in the tech industry, and hardly anyone got offended when the media ran with a senationalist BS story.
Nowadays, nearly everyone has the same art style, a lot of artists are trying to make a living off cheap commissions and adoptables, and a lot of furries feel that they have to "come out of the furry closet" and find "furry-friendly landlords and employers." Having an interest in anthropomorphic animals shouldn't be a crisis or an orientation. At least I don't think it has to be.
I don't find a lot of fursonas original these days. It seems that hardly anybody experiments with the species they have. It's all furry or scaly eye candy with absolutely no traces of animal traits or quirks. You might as well just draw humans. (But the 1990s furry fandom wasn't too original in this regard, either; there were tons of foxes all over the place. Now it's wolves and huskies.)
And if you're wondering why it's become known for a lot of "gay stuff": the furry fandom has always been open to LGBT issues. Well, back in the 90s and early 2000s, it was more LGB; this was before transgender, asexual, and intersex issues came to the forefront of society and pop culture. (To illustrate further, having a flamboyant, lisping gay man in a TV series was considered daring and progressive.) Same-sex issues were becoming a fierce battleground, and a lot of gays, lesbians, and bisexuals found comfort and support in the furry fandom. It was probably one of the few safe places in the world where they could speak freely and be themselves.
It's been interesting to watch the furry fandom change the way it has, but time will tell if I keep hanging out in the fringes. There's a lot of drama, especially among the younger ones who think the world is out to make it illegal to be a furry. While it's more sane in the greymuzzle groups (furries who are 30+ years old), I keep seeing younger ones trying to join them. (And spare me the "you should be inclusive" argument; people in certain age groups deserve to have their own spaces. Not everything needs to include or cater to teens and twentysomethings.)