TheMarkz0ne 962 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I never had one real true friend. To me, you take a bullet for your friend. You mutually love each other. I don't think that exist in the real world. We always portray it in media, but in the real world? Never seen it yet. I wasted SOOO much time( if there is objective time) with people, I wish I could erase all of it. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
碇 シンジン 27,433 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I think all my friends are real friends =)=)=) I appreciate all friendships that I have I dont care how deep they are I'm grateful that I have at least some kind of friendship and connection. Sometimes it doesn't click with all people but that doesnt mean I cant be friends with them. I don't care if they don't to anything for me I still want them to be happy =)=) Everyone deserves to be happy =)=) 15 Rarity Fan Club Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOneComrade 1,091 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Ay, stop being bitter. It ain't gonna help ya. You haven't wasted time with people, you've been getting experience. Use that experience and make a friend that you can count on, because they won't just fall on your lap. Put yourself in their situation and ask if you're really willing to take a bullet for them. If you can't, don't expect them to do it for you. A friendship like that could take years to develop, so be patient, be pleasant, and be optimistic. href="/monthly_02_2014/post-8308-0-69609200-1393191794.png"> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMarkz0ne 962 February 14, 2015 Author Share February 14, 2015 Ay, stop being bitter. It ain't gonna help ya. You haven't wasted time with people, you've been getting experience. Use that experience and make a friend that you can count on, because they won't just fall on your lap. Put yourself in their situation and ask if you're really willing to take a bullet for them. If you can't, don't expect them to do it for you. A friendship like that could take years to develop, so be patient, be pleasant, and be optimistic. Experience? People should be real. I have been a faker myself in the past, now I am not going to fake myself anymore. I am not going to waste time with flakers or takers. The people I spent time with I once thought cared for me, then they showed who they were. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sipenda 66 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Hey Mark. its not all bad, I have real friends, and then I have people I assosiate with than I have people that im meerly aqaunted with and last there is the rest of the human race in which I hold in utter contempt. As a Kid (up untill i was about 20) I had few people that i considered "Friends" of those i keep in touch with 2 and even though both of them are very distant from me (becuase i really scare the **** out of them and their children and wives) Having served in Iraq for 4 years and seen countless buddies killed in real life has left a very dark place in my personality that i try to keep under wraps but it pokes its ugly head up on occation. Now days I have 5 people that I count as true friends(in 40 years) Most have them have been through the same hells as me and understand me, as i understand them. If you want to have real friends my recommedation is Be yourself and do what you LOVE to do. even if it's wrong . If you are yourself, you will find there are people that will like you for just that reason, other will hate you for the very same reason, because your happiness pisses them off. As i go through my day my Goal is to be happy at the end of the day and if in the event my happiness has offened some one even better . Please refer to https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mNrXMOSkBas Signed the nut job on the other side of the computer screen. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Troblems 5,619 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I can legitimately say I have two real friends. The first I've known since 3rd grade, and as she put it, our friendship is old enough to drink. We've been through breakups, breakdowns, bad, good and everything in between. She was a bridesmaid at my wedding after spending over a grand just to get her here. I know if I ever need her, she's there for me as I am for her. Even if we go for long periods without speaking due to just not having time that she understands, and we just pick up where we left off. The other is my husband. The man is all I could ever want from a partner and more. He puts up with my bullshit, thinks ahead of what I might want or need, he makes me laugh, and he puts up with my mom. He's kind, caring, and hot. Teehee. That part isn't as big of a deal, but it's certainly a nice additive to the overall package that is him. How someone didn't scoop him up years ago is beyond me. I consider myself extremely lucky that I have not one but two very caring, would drop anything to help me people in my life. Honestly, I'm not sure how I got so lucky, but I did, and I'm grateful every damned day for that. However, I think part of it is that before I could have someone else love me, I had to love me. While it sounds self-centered and cheesy, I know it to be the case. Start within yourself and work outwards, and I promise you'll get better results. 5 I got an extra hour in the ballpit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starlighty 976 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I have a few good real life friends who I would take a bullet for.. I also have some online friends who I would pretty much anything for them so... 3 https://www.google.com/search?hl=en&site=webhp&tbm=isch&source=hp&ei=kBduVKzHIMGqoQSA3oGYBQ&q=smile+smile+smile+pinkie+pie&oq=smile+smile+smile+pinkie+pie&gs_l=mobile-gws-hp.3...2593.19183.0.19546.43.36.0.0.0.1.1263.2249.6-1j1.2.0....0...1c.1.58.mobile-gws-hp..42.1.1263.0.t9GmIVfq5Q0#facrc=_&imgrc=PSKZ8o6BCR8iTM%253A%3BpH_DWjyDzGiWzM%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Ffc08.deviantart.net%252Ffs70%252Ff%252F2012%252F049%252F6%252Fb%252Fcome_on_everypony_smile__by_dignifiedjustice-d4q4upq.png%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fhdw.eweb4.com%252Fout%252F554482.html%3B1920%3B1080 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOneComrade 1,091 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Experience? People should be real. I have been a faker myself in the past, now I am not going to fake myself anymore. I am not going to waste time with flakers or takers. The people I spent time with I once thought cared for me, then they showed who they were. Hey, if you wanna spend the rest of your life alone, it's not my place to stop you. 1 href="/monthly_02_2014/post-8308-0-69609200-1393191794.png"> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Empty Room 512 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 (edited) I'm surprised that I have more than 10. Edited February 14, 2015 by Blackened 2 "Have you ever felt the need to see more than you can see?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Sylveon~ 188 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Bleh. I have lots of close friends online, but in real life? not so much. I like it better online, personally, because I feel like I can trust better. Especially here. The community is so nice and accepting, I know if I have problems I can always go to life advice and people will help me. not so IRL. It seems like everyone spends so much time gossiping. I don't know who to trust, so I don't trust anyone, at least not with my secrets. This isn't really a problem for me, though. I know a lot of people are like "how do I tell my friends I'm trans/a brony/gay/atheistic/whatever", and that their friend's acceptance is important to them. Not for me, and frankly, it confuses me why they would want their friends to know if they anticipate possible negative reactions. Imo, it's none of my friend's business if I watch a show about colourful horses smiling. (They know, of course, since when they come over I make them watch it.) Maybe I'm just strange- idk. XD I just don't have that inner desire for acceptance that many have. TeaL DeeR: Online, yes, irl, no. 2 Hey there! I'm ~Sylveon~. You can call me Sylveon. xD If you ever need anyone to talk to, don't hesitate to contact me. I'm here for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stary Dash 83 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 (edited) I actually have 3 B.F.F's but you know life and jobs. My best-est and closest friend that ive know since Elm. school, she's in the Air Force and is stationed in Alaska. I saw her maybe a month ago, but i wont see her for a whole year all i can do it text her and Skype her but no matter what i know she's there for me no distance( Me: Texas, Her: Alaska) will ever change out friendship My other two friends are a couple so it was a forced friendship but we get along(hes cool) but I've know my friends since Jr. High and her BF since High School. They know the real me they know my secret I've only told them, but I'm never a different person always the same with everyone no matter who you are i will always treat you like a friend I've known for years. Edited February 14, 2015 by Stary Dash 3 "Behold the Real Princess of the Night!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MysticShine 529 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 "Real friends" do exist, but I don't have any. I really don't put a lot of effort into my friendships so I never get a lot back, but I'm okay with that. I'm a lone wolf anyway. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shift 4,272 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 I have a tight-knit group of friends of around 5-6 people, who by extension know around 7-10ish other people i'm on good terms with, but there are only about 3 or 4 friends who I consider to be my really good ones. 3 Have the courage to think and act on your own. And have the courage to disobey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sazama Ichida 2,367 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 @@TheMarkz0ne, I know exactly how you feel. 1 The White Shinigami Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stary Dash 83 February 14, 2015 Share February 14, 2015 Hey Mark. its not all bad, I have real friends, and then I have people I assosiate with than I have people that im meerly aqaunted with and last there is the rest of the human race in which I hold in utter contempt. As a Kid (up untill i was about 20) I had few people that i considered "Friends" of those i keep in touch with 2 and even though both of them are very distant from me (becuase i really scare the **** out of them and their children and wives) Having served in Iraq for 4 years and seen countless buddies killed in real life has left a very dark place in my personality that i try to keep under wraps but it pokes its ugly head up on occation. Now days I have 5 people that I count as true friends(in 40 years) Most have them have been through the same hells as me and understand me, as i understand them. If you want to have real friends my recommedation is Be yourself and do what you LOVE to do. even if it's wrong . If you are yourself, you will find there are people that will like you for just that reason, other will hate you for the very same reason, because your happiness pisses them off. As i go through my day my Goal is to be happy at the end of the day and if in the event my happiness has offened some one even better . Please refer to Signed the nut job on the other side of the computer screen. Hello Sipenda, I just wanted to personally say THANK YOU for serving our country! And that your never alone there are so many more military bronies out there who will understand everything so your not alone and were all ere for you as well! Again thank you for what you've done for keeping us safe and free! Sincerely, Stary Dash (and all the bronies and pegasisters on mlpforums) 5 "Behold the Real Princess of the Night!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonasDarkmane 19,788 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 My best friend is enough real to me. Everyone I consider my friends are real friends to me. Even online ones that I've never met face to face. My best friend helped me get through a lot, especially depression. I owe him a lot. Especially since he has more of a reputation and has some different interests 2 Signature by @Kyoshi Ask Me Matsunaga Hisahide's death https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKT5Khp3-0U Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMarkz0ne 962 February 15, 2015 Author Share February 15, 2015 Hey, if you wanna spend the rest of your life alone, it's not my place to stop you. Why do you need friends to be happy? It's great others do, but does everyone need someone? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonasDarkmane 19,788 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 (edited) Why do you need friends to be happy? It's great others do, but does everyone need someone? Well, it seems that the human being relies heavily on socializing with other human beings and developing some kind of a bond or relationship. I guess it is the loneliness. Personally I kinda agree with you, that not everyone seem to need someone. However, I do think that everyone deserves a friend if they want to have one. Edited February 15, 2015 by JonasDarkmane 2 Signature by @Kyoshi Ask Me Matsunaga Hisahide's death https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BKT5Khp3-0U Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOneComrade 1,091 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 Why do you need friends to be happy? It's great others do, but does everyone need someone? Are you seriously asking me a philosophical question? I don't stinkin' know, man. Ask a counselor. 1 href="/monthly_02_2014/post-8308-0-69609200-1393191794.png"> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMarkz0ne 962 February 15, 2015 Author Share February 15, 2015 Are you seriously asking me a philosophical question? I don't stinkin' know, man. Ask a counselor. They just suck money out of you, I don't need them. I am just stating I have had bad luck with people and I'm not banking on it changing at age 22. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOneComrade 1,091 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 They just suck money out of you, I don't need them. I am just stating I have had bad luck with people and I'm not banking on it changing at age 22. And I'm just saying that you're attitude comes off as bitter and pessimistic. If you don't wanna have friends, good for you. href="/monthly_02_2014/post-8308-0-69609200-1393191794.png"> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMarkz0ne 962 February 15, 2015 Author Share February 15, 2015 And I'm just saying that you're attitude comes off as bitter and pessimistic. If you don't wanna have friends, good for you. I didn't say I didn't want friends. I stated I could care less at the moment if I do have them. Right now, it's just me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOneComrade 1,091 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 I didn't say I didn't want friends. I stated I could care less at the moment if I do have them. Right now, it's just me. Alright, enjoy yourself. Treat yourself to some ice cream. href="/monthly_02_2014/post-8308-0-69609200-1393191794.png"> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jora 164 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 i have one friend that i have known since HS so going on 8 years now lol 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snow Frostflame 3,568 February 15, 2015 Share February 15, 2015 I consider members of Ponygames my real friends..... one of them is actually my best friend and I met him before I started the Guild I also have a few friends at school I sometimes talk to..... oh and a Brony friend at school..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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