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Is it okay not to want a relationship?


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I suppose it is, I used to be in that boat after my breakup with my last ex. I honestly was barely sure if I was ready for another man in my life not long before I met my BF, but then I thought "I need one now more than ever." Rest is history for me.

 

But anyways, it's totally fine. As long as you aren't forcing that on yourself, and just genuinely have no desire to be in a relationship. I find that, at least from my own experiences, suppressing yourself always has unforeseen consequences.

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Yeah. It's an incredibly simple lifestyle, only having to worry about yourself. There's no problem with being solitary. I can definitely see the appeal in it, but I don't prefer it.


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It's perfectly fine to want to be single. I say as I'm single right now. It's not bad, though I can admit that it gets boring every once in a while. I just feel happier on my own right now than with a partner, although perhaps that'll change when I meet the right one.

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totally fine not to want one, I mean as long it is a real choice you are making and is not a hurt ego talking. Other thing is not having the chance to have a relationship anymore

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Why would it not be okay? It’s not mandatory that everyone be in a relationship. It’s hard enough to get into one for those who desire it, let alone those who don’t. So why expend effort for something that would serve no positive purpose? Not everyone is cut out for romance so forcing one’s self into it would be counter-productive for both halves of the couple in question. Not only is it okay to avoid such a relationship, but in many cases it’s highly advisable. 

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It's totally fine and acceptable to not want a relationship! Not everyone has to be in a relationship all the time, that's just not a necessary thing. Find love on your own time, and don't force yourself into a relationship you don't want just because you feel like you're supposed to be in one! :grin:

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Of course! I had zero interest in dating when I was in high school. I was happy being alone.It wasn’t until I graduated that I actually took an interest in finding a relationship. 

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It is super refreshing to read about all your opinions here. :)

It is just important to listen to your own heart and feelings. And simply stay true to them. That's the most (and only!) right thing one can do.

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